Rolling Stone did an excellent article on MMA champ Ronda Rousey.
http://www.rollingstone.com/sports/featu...n-20150528
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So basically she's saying she only likes the Alphas of the Alphas, but they're busy chasing the feminine girls who'll do whatever they want. Who could have guessed that the most Alpha men wouldn't be down with a masculine chick who spends all her time beating people up?
This is an important lesson for all men.
You can do everything right when dealing with a woman and you may still not get the result you want, because its not all about you. If she's crazy and terrified of intimacy/men/whatever, no amount of game will overcome that. The fact that she remembers the gas station dude, and remembers that he was cute, and the circumstances of their meeting (credit cards not working) means he made a good, strong impression on her, but her daddy dying when she was young (read the article) and her hyper masculinity are just too much to overcome.
A) She's basically just a more talented version of all the usual basic bitches who value their bs cooperate career over actually caring for other human beings by raising the next generation of humanity during her best years.
B) She believes that the way things are now (she can get sex [with quality dudes] at anytime) are the way things will always be. Again, just like all the other American basic bitches out there. It doesn't occur to her that as she ages, and especially as she takes more damage to her body, the "Alpha of the Alpha" men she loves now will have ABSOLUTELY NO INTEREST IN HER, meaning she won't be able to "get laid anytime," at least not with the men that she wants to get laid with. And therefore, sexually and romantically, she's giving up her best years and real shot at getting the man she obviously wants; and the crazy thing is she doesn't even realize she's making that trade.
http://www.rollingstone.com/sports/featu...n-20150528
The bits relevant to us:
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Later in the afternoon, on the way home, Rousey says, "I think it's funny when people think that because I'm a female athlete that I must be a lesbian, and I'm like, 'No, I love men so much that I beat the fuck out of girls for a living just to take them all out.' " She's joking, of course, but at the moment, she doesn't have a boyfriend. There are various reasons for that, though. For one, she's too busy. For another, she says, "the kind of guys I'm into have lots of desirable women willing to do backflips for them — and, I mean, if you can look like a man standing next to me, then you're a real fucking man — but I'm just not doing any backflips."
So basically she's saying she only likes the Alphas of the Alphas, but they're busy chasing the feminine girls who'll do whatever they want. Who could have guessed that the most Alpha men wouldn't be down with a masculine chick who spends all her time beating people up?
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And then there's the third and biggest reason. Rousey isn't scared of much, but she is scared of men she likes.
"This one guy, he's pretty well-known, he keeps texting me to go do this or that, and I'm such a pussy, I won't say yes. And I want to. But I just pussy out. And then I met this guy at a gas station the other day — we had a moment with our credit cards not working right — and he asked me out. He was cute, but I was just a big ol' pussy. I was like, 'I don't know. I gotta lot of shit, bro.' I bro'd him, and I didn't want to." She sighs. "I don't know what my problem is, and why I get so shy that I have trouble speaking, when I'm so bold in other areas." She pops her hand on the steering wheel. "I have an actual issue, I do believe."
This is an important lesson for all men.
You can do everything right when dealing with a woman and you may still not get the result you want, because its not all about you. If she's crazy and terrified of intimacy/men/whatever, no amount of game will overcome that. The fact that she remembers the gas station dude, and remembers that he was cute, and the circumstances of their meeting (credit cards not working) means he made a good, strong impression on her, but her daddy dying when she was young (read the article) and her hyper masculinity are just too much to overcome.
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Rousey says she doesn't care about not having a boyfriend. "If it's just about sex, I could get laid any old time. It's not about that. It's not like I have this fleeting window of time where I can have a sex life, whereas I do have this fleeting window of time where I can accomplish all these other things. If anything, it'll be better for my sex life if I get all this other shit done, because I'll be more durable afterward."
A) She's basically just a more talented version of all the usual basic bitches who value their bs cooperate career over actually caring for other human beings by raising the next generation of humanity during her best years.
B) She believes that the way things are now (she can get sex [with quality dudes] at anytime) are the way things will always be. Again, just like all the other American basic bitches out there. It doesn't occur to her that as she ages, and especially as she takes more damage to her body, the "Alpha of the Alpha" men she loves now will have ABSOLUTELY NO INTEREST IN HER, meaning she won't be able to "get laid anytime," at least not with the men that she wants to get laid with. And therefore, sexually and romantically, she's giving up her best years and real shot at getting the man she obviously wants; and the crazy thing is she doesn't even realize she's making that trade.