[swoosh]

I don't think you will ever get a straight answer. With that said I don't think the best way is to ask a girl but to generate an assessed number in your head only after you observe her personality, social life, and behavior.

For example: a girl I ran with started to make it into my routine until we went out the bars together one night. The male bouncers and bartenders all knew her well by name, She also reciprocated with random dudes hitting on her.... from that encounter I assigned her a value of barslut and she quickly dropped in my respect and ranks. I would say 30+

Another example: On a different occasion I went back to another chicks place and next to her bed I spotted a little bowl of condoms and lube... we hit it sans raincoat.. 20+ assigned

Last example: A girl I really dug; 9+, smoking body, chilled and relaxed, had a boyfriend, I ran her every week for a while. She wanted to leave her BF for me. Although I was feelin her I could never get into anything serious with her because I am aware of her values, or lack thereof. 20-30+

For girls who have a low notch count you just get a feeling like a sixth sense. I wish I could provide a better description of girls with low notch counts, maybe someone else can chime in.

Maybe the best way is to look for how she carries herself and interacts with others to gauge wether or not she's beat meat and if you want to roll with her or not. Maybe its best to not focus on arbitrary number.

[MikeS]

(05-26-2015 10:03 AM)swoosh Wrote:  

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Another example: On a different occasion I went back to another chicks place and next to her bed I spotted a little bowl of condoms and lube... we hit it sans raincoat.. 20+ assigned...

Damn you're being conservative in your estimates. With that one in particular I'd probably think "100+ or possibly an off-the-clock hooker".

I honestly don't really believe in low (<10) notch counts among Western - or Eastern European or many Asian, African, South American and what have you - women.
Sure, if they are still very young or are among the increasingly rare girls who have been in LTRs most of their lives it's possible, but otherwise even "just" five sex partners per year (ie. less than one new guy every two months) when not in a serious relationship very quickly ramps up to a high number.

[Dr. Howard]

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Another example: On a different occasion I went back to another chicks place and next to her bed I spotted a little bowl of condoms and lube... we hit it sans raincoat.. 20+ assigned

I banged an 18 year old that had a big drawer full of all kinds of condoms, and a dvd wall half full of porn. I'd put her notch count into the 100 area. Same goes for another girl...21? that was a video camera away from being a porn star.

With cell phones, and free porn these days an over 50 notch count for a girl at 21 is easy.

In the pre-internet/dawn of email days I remember the 'sluts' having to work hard to max out at around 30 by the end of high school. Those are 'wife material' numbers in 2015.

[CleanSlate]

Out of all this, the thing that really gets me isn't the astronomical notch counts, but the fact that girls get all bent out of shape if you tell them you've slept with over 20 chicks. And I mean, c'mon, 20 isn't even a lot. I mean, think about it... guy loses virginity at age 20 and bangs only an average of 2 girls per year for 10 years.

These were the same girls that were going home with guys who I know have 100+ notch counts on the same night. Yet, they act all flabbergasted and disgusted, and call me "such a pig" when I barely hit 20 notches by age 30... and that was only five years ago.

(I know I know, you don't say how many chicks you've banged when you are actually gaming them, but these were female social circle friends of mine that I had no intention of banging).

Hypocrisy at it's finest.

[Fortis]

I had a funny conversation with this young guy at the gym.

Guy: fortis youre lucky.

Me: why do you say that.

Guy: every girl I know loves older black guys. The girl I marry is probably going to be sloppy seconds to you. Fuck.

Me: relax. That means we can be Eskimo brothers! *high five*



Later this conversation gave me pause. How will i ever truly know if a woman's notch count is legit? I'll always doubt their purity, so I just don't ask. You can't win that game with a woman. I knew girls who would go to the bar every few days and try and get laid
That's 50+ new guys a year if she was as dedicated as I think she was.

[TripleG]

The difference between guys and girls notch counts though is that the pussy get's damaged and loose. I refuse to believe the crap that doctor's say about how it will get back to it's normal shape, heck no. Oh, and God forbid that a girl has a kid(s) and go's back to the dating market, the pussy will never look or feel the same to the next beta who ends up banging her.

This is the reason why guy/girl notch counts can't be compared as male anatomy doesn't really change due to more/fewer notches while the female one get's damaged.

[Pride male]

Is it beta to care about a girl's notch count if you're not going to marry her and be the father of her children?

[Onto]

(05-26-2015 12:28 PM)Pride male Wrote:  

Is it beta to care about a girl's notch count if you're not going to marry her and be the father of her children?

Not at all. Everyone prefers skiing in fresh powder instead of a trail thats trampled and icy.

[Fortis]

It's not beta to wonder, but it is beta to obsess over things you cannot definitively know. Sometimes you just gotta stop looking under rocks and get on with you life.

That wasn't a snipe at anyone. Just some advice.

[Vincent Chase]

I heard of a friend, who is a friend of a friend, who fucked 100 guys in one year. She didn't even break a sweat getting any of those bangs. Of course, let's not be politically incorrect and call her a slut though. To get 100 bangs for a guy you'd have to be someone of high status like Russell Brand.

[RagnarLothbrok]

(05-26-2015 12:23 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

The difference between guys and girls notch counts though is that the pussy get's damaged and loose. I refuse to believe the crap that doctor's say about how it will get back to it's normal shape, heck no. Oh, and God forbid that a girl has a kid(s) and go's back to the dating market, the pussy will never look or feel the same to the next beta who ends up banging her.

What difference does it make if a girl has - let's say - 50 times sex with 50 different guys or 50 times with only one guy?

[Vincent Chase]

(05-26-2015 01:02 PM)Dipar Wrote:  

(05-26-2015 12:23 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

The difference between guys and girls notch counts though is that the pussy get's damaged and loose. I refuse to believe the crap that doctor's say about how it will get back to it's normal shape, heck no. Oh, and God forbid that a girl has a kid(s) and go's back to the dating market, the pussy will never look or feel the same to the next beta who ends up banging her.

What difference does it make if a girl has - let's say - 50 times sex with 50 different guys or 50 times with only one guy?

HIV, herpes, syphilis.

[godzilla]

Second girl I banged when I was 18 was already at 30. No suprise, she was knocked up a year and a half later.

What you guys thinks about a girl who won't share it? (Considering they can always lie) Slut? Or Not?

[Onto]

According to Madonna, no matter how slutty, you never truly lose your virginity.

[CleanSlate]

(05-26-2015 01:39 PM)godzilla Wrote:  

What you guys thinks about a girl who won't share it? (Considering they can always lie) Slut? Or Not?

If she won't share it, I assume she doesn't really know the true number... that she had lost count.

[Ozy]

Being out of shape kills pussy tightness more than any other factor. Chubby girls have weak pelvic floor muscles and weak abs/hips/glutes/everything else, which all factor in. You will find a lot of strong fat type guys who have muscle under the fat. Fat girls are almost always all fat.

On the flip side if you run into a girl who played soccer or volleyball through college you are in for a treat. In my experience they are tight and stay tight, even after kids, provided they keep working out.

Obesity epidemic ruins women far more than their notch counts, though the two are usually related. A girl who has a problem turning down cupcakes is a girl who has a problem turning down dick.

[TheFinalEpic]

It's not even worth asking. I think I stopped caring after I fucked 10 girls, and I never ask; thats the girl's prerogative.

Her: "How many girls have you slept with?"

Me: "More than you."

Her: "Haha come on I'll tell you if you tell me!"

Me: "Sure whatever."

Her: "You're number 6 haha, now you tell me!"

Me: "More than you."

[The_e_man]

(05-26-2015 08:35 AM)samsamsam Wrote:  

I've posted this joke before. But this thread reminds me of the joke and I am not trying to make fun of any of the guys posting on here.

What is the difference between a slut and a bitch?

A slut will fuck everyone. A bitch will fuck everyone but you.

Damn. That is too true.
I definitely used to be that sour beta that would get mad at girls for acting slutty when really I should have been mad at myself for not being able to fuck them.

[marty]

(05-26-2015 01:02 PM)Dipar Wrote:  

(05-26-2015 12:23 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

The difference between guys and girls notch counts though is that the pussy get's damaged and loose. I refuse to believe the crap that doctor's say about how it will get back to it's normal shape, heck no. Oh, and God forbid that a girl has a kid(s) and go's back to the dating market, the pussy will never look or feel the same to the next beta who ends up banging her.

What difference does it make if a girl has - let's say - 50 times sex with 50 different guys or 50 times with only one guy?

This. From an anatomical standpoint having sex with 50 times with 50 different guys is basically the same as having 50 times with the same guy, so what you're saying doesn't make sense.

[realologist]

(05-26-2015 01:02 PM)Dipar Wrote:  

(05-26-2015 12:23 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

The difference between guys and girls notch counts though is that the pussy get's damaged and loose. I refuse to believe the crap that doctor's say about how it will get back to it's normal shape, heck no. Oh, and God forbid that a girl has a kid(s) and go's back to the dating market, the pussy will never look or feel the same to the next beta who ends up banging her.

What difference does it make if a girl has - let's say - 50 times sex with 50 different guys or 50 times with only one guy?

The actual physical feeling may not be any different but psychologically that girl is going to be fucked. Taking 50 dicks like that is not good for any girl. Each dick takes a chip at the girls heart and sanity. Each pump'n'dump like that is another emotional trauma until she can't feel anymore.

[RagnarLothbrok]

(05-26-2015 05:47 PM)realologist Wrote:  

(05-26-2015 01:02 PM)Dipar Wrote:  

(05-26-2015 12:23 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

The difference between guys and girls notch counts though is that the pussy get's damaged and loose. I refuse to believe the crap that doctor's say about how it will get back to it's normal shape, heck no. Oh, and God forbid that a girl has a kid(s) and go's back to the dating market, the pussy will never look or feel the same to the next beta who ends up banging her.

What difference does it make if a girl has - let's say - 50 times sex with 50 different guys or 50 times with only one guy?

The actual physical feeling may not be any different but psychologically that girl is going to be fucked. Taking 50 dicks like that is not good for any girl. Each dick takes a chip at the girls heart and sanity. Each pump'n'dump like that is another emotional trauma until she can't feel anymore.

I was talking about the physical effects. TripleG said pussies get damaged and loose. I don't think there is any difference if a girl fucks the same dick again and again or if she fucks 50 different dicks.

The highest number I know of is 25. She is a 21 year old filipina living in a second tier city with a population of 100k. She is a solid 9. If she lived in Manila or Cebu, her notch count would be beyond 100 for sure. Fortunately (or unfortunately for her), there aren't many tourists coming to her city.

[Goldin Boy]

(05-25-2015 09:45 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

I wonder how they can even keep track when it gets that high. In a journal?

Some do: I knew a girl with a notch count of 78 at 19 in college.

We were having lunch in mixed company, she left the book on the cafeteria table so I read a few pages before I caught to her and returned it. Says took all that cock because she was looking for love

9 years later, she's married, pregnant, has a cushy job with Deloitte. But I'll always call her "11 Niggas" since she got banged by the whole offensive line (not the same day per her account).

[Onto]

(05-26-2015 05:47 PM)realologist Wrote:  

(05-26-2015 01:02 PM)Dipar Wrote:  

(05-26-2015 12:23 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

The difference between guys and girls notch counts though is that the pussy get's damaged and loose. I refuse to believe the crap that doctor's say about how it will get back to it's normal shape, heck no. Oh, and God forbid that a girl has a kid(s) and go's back to the dating market, the pussy will never look or feel the same to the next beta who ends up banging her.

What difference does it make if a girl has - let's say - 50 times sex with 50 different guys or 50 times with only one guy?

The actual physical feeling may not be any different but psychologically that girl is going to be fucked. Taking 50 dicks like that is not good for any girl. Each dick takes a chip at the girls heart and sanity. Each pump'n'dump like that is another emotional trauma until she can't feel anymore.

I don't know. I think for a girl like that the trauma occurred long before her virginity was taken. Her slutiness is just an expression of it.

Women know exactly what they are doing and who they are getting involved with. They may play dumb, "Oh, can't believe he would use me.", "Never though he would hit meeee", blah, blah, blah.

When a girl or guy cries, "I never dreamed they would be like that." The truth is, that's exactly the dream. Why it is for them is another story.

[CleanSlate]

(05-26-2015 06:24 PM)Goldin Boy Wrote:  

(05-25-2015 09:45 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

I wonder how they can even keep track when it gets that high. In a journal?

Some do: I knew a girl with a notch count of 78 at 19 in college.

We were having lunch in mixed company, she left the book on the cafeteria table so I read a few pages before I caught to her and returned it. Says took all that cock because she was looking for love

9 years later, she's married, pregnant, has a cushy job with Deloitte. But I'll always call her "11 Niggas" since she got banged by the whole offensive line (not the same day per her account).

Her husband probably has no idea.

[Roardog]

(05-26-2015 02:05 PM)TheFinalEpic Wrote:  

It's not even worth asking. I think I stopped caring after I fucked 10 girls, and I never ask; thats the girl's prerogative.

Her: "How many girls have you slept with?"

Me: "More than you."

Her: "Haha come on I'll tell you if you tell me!"

Me: "Sure whatever."

Her: "You're number 6 haha, now you tell me!"

Me: "More than you."

I had this conversation with one of my plates the other day. I've got 10 years on her so I just told her more than you.
I also told her that I don't care what hers is as no good ever comes out of knowing.

I don't get why people obsess about it so much. The best case scenario is that it has no impact and worse case is it blows up into a big deal.
I never tell girls what mine is.