Another trick you need to be aware of...she may have been pregnant already by a ons or whatever and was looking for a provider to pin it on. DNa my friend.
Take care of those titties for me.
Quote: (05-22-2015 12:56 PM)samsamsam Wrote:
But I don't think being a man is about having unrealistic expectations that it should just be the way you want it. That is generally a child's view and they throw tantrums and shit. Being a man is being responsible and cleaning up your messes. Sometimes, I just see posts where the theme is "I fucked up and I don't want to deal with the consequences."
Quote: (05-22-2015 02:04 PM)samsamsam Wrote:Another aspect to the situation is "don't stick your dick in crazy".
^^ You seem to want to disconnect the responsibility from the action. Yes, it may seem like 20 years of slavery but you chose to have sex. Maybe it doesn't seem "fair" for a one night encounter that you should suffer for the rest of your life. She may see it as fair to have the kid. These are all known factors going into the event (sex) so maybe have sex with girls that have just as much to lose as you are if she has the kid.
Of course, I don't want anyone to suffer. I don't wish any ill will on any forum member or anyone in general. I truly don't but some seem to live off the I want to do whatever I want principle. Which seems delusional to me. No one can do everything they want without any consequence.
In your example about both parties being responsible and a baby is still conceived, what percentage is that with the guy wrapping it and she is on the pill or some other form of birth control, I imagine very small small small percentage.
Most of these stories we come across often seems to be the guy didn't wrap it. Or the girl lied about being on protection. Girls lie?
Like I said, I wish no ill will to anyone, nor do I try to minimize the frustration or hurt that some of the guys who have been through situation are experiencing. I have no joy in anyone's suffering. Truly, I don't.
But I can't wrap my head around some people who think they shouldn't have to deal with the results of their actions. I guess I am missing something. I am not trying to pass judgement, just sharing how it seems illogical to not connect the result with the action.
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Redpilluk helping men doesn't mean saying you are right in every action.
Quote: (05-22-2015 01:31 PM)VincentVinturi Wrote:
If both parties are equally responsible for contraception and an accident happens, then both parties ought to have a choice about what to do in case of pregnancy.
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I'm not seeing my kid, dont even know her name, but at least I'm still living my life on my terms, and not paying child support. I will still always regret her that I allowed her to have the kid.
Quote: (05-23-2015 02:17 PM)jariel Wrote:
Quote: (05-22-2015 01:31 PM)VincentVinturi Wrote:
If both parties are equally responsible for contraception and an accident happens, then both parties ought to have a choice about what to do in case of pregnancy.
We need to dead the concept of an "accidental pregnancy".
If a woman is not on birth control and she has unprotected sex with a man, then a resulting pregnancy is not an accident.
The fact that it's not an accident is further proven when the woman moves forward with giving birth to the child, as it appears the woman in the OP's situation is likely to do.