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What is the optimal game for catching a girl on the rebound for a quick fling?
What is the optimal game for catching a girl on the rebound for a quick fling?
Rebound game?
Beta game. Lots of comfort building. Compliment, cuddle and close.
Don't debate me.
As an addendum to Pride male's advice, which is pretty solid for heart-broken girls - total carefree alpha asshole game works on girl who were on the other end of the breakup. Girls who recently dumped a guy and are excited to be back out in te field want to get dicked down NSA like you read about. Just be cool and fun.
In essence - depends on how the breakup went.
In essence - depends on how the breakup went.
Pride Male laid it out, I'm just going to classify it.
Rebound game is better known as Beta Orbiter Game.
As a beta orbiter, your job is to befriend women. Don't give them any indication that you are sexually attracted to them, just keep that to yourself, while you play the role of friend.
As a friend, you will have to hear all the stories about her boyfriends and fuck buddies, the guys who aren't you, the guys who had the balls to let her know that she was interested in them the way a man is naturally interested in a woman.
Maybe after some of time of becoming her friend, one day, after one of those guys dumps her and breaks her heart, she'll need a shoulder to cry on and she'll enlist you to be that shoulder.
Maybe while she's doing that and you're holding and consoling her, you might whisper some sweet-nothings into her ear, like, "He didn't deserve you anyway" or "You're so special, it's hard to be appreciated, when just your being can't even be fathomed".
Maybe she'll find actually find that sweet, maybe you'll sense the moment of vulnerability, maybe your eyes and hers will lock at that moment, and you'll move in for the kiss.
Maybe then it will go down.
Then the next day you'll be reminiscing about the "magic" that took place, and you'll be at your house, baking her a get-well cake, and then you'll call her to invite her over, but she can't make it. Just before your call, one of those heartbreakers texted her, "We should talk, bring some Swishers."
Then she'll text you about it later.
Rebound game is better known as Beta Orbiter Game.
As a beta orbiter, your job is to befriend women. Don't give them any indication that you are sexually attracted to them, just keep that to yourself, while you play the role of friend.
As a friend, you will have to hear all the stories about her boyfriends and fuck buddies, the guys who aren't you, the guys who had the balls to let her know that she was interested in them the way a man is naturally interested in a woman.
Maybe after some of time of becoming her friend, one day, after one of those guys dumps her and breaks her heart, she'll need a shoulder to cry on and she'll enlist you to be that shoulder.
Maybe while she's doing that and you're holding and consoling her, you might whisper some sweet-nothings into her ear, like, "He didn't deserve you anyway" or "You're so special, it's hard to be appreciated, when just your being can't even be fathomed".
Maybe she'll find actually find that sweet, maybe you'll sense the moment of vulnerability, maybe your eyes and hers will lock at that moment, and you'll move in for the kiss.
Maybe then it will go down.
Then the next day you'll be reminiscing about the "magic" that took place, and you'll be at your house, baking her a get-well cake, and then you'll call her to invite her over, but she can't make it. Just before your call, one of those heartbreakers texted her, "We should talk, bring some Swishers."
Then she'll text you about it later.
Quote: (05-20-2015 02:47 PM)jariel Wrote:
Pride Male laid it out, I'm just going to classify it.
Rebound game is better known as Beta Orbiter Game.
As a beta orbiter, your job is to befriend women. Don't give them any indication that you are sexually attracted to them, just keep that to yourself, while you play the role of friend.
As a friend, you will have to hear all the stories about her boyfriends and fuck buddies, the guys who aren't you, the guys who had the balls to let her know that she was interested in them the way a man is naturally interested in a woman.
Maybe after some of time of becoming her friend, one day, after one of those guys dumps her and breaks her heart, she'll need a shoulder to cry on and she'll enlist you to be that shoulder.
Maybe while she's doing that and you're holding and consoling her, you might whisper some sweet-nothings into her ear, like, "He didn't deserve you anyway" or "You're so special, it's hard to be appreciated, when just your being can't even be fathomed".
Maybe she'll find actually find that sweet, maybe you'll sense the moment of vulnerability, maybe your eyes and hers will lock at that moment, and you'll move in for the kiss.
Maybe then it will go down.
Then the next day you'll be reminiscing about the "magic" that took place, and you'll be at your house, baking her a get-well cake, and then you'll call her to invite her over, but she can't make it. Just before your call, one of those heartbreakers texted her, "We should talk, bring some Swishers."
Then she'll text you about it later.
This really. Couldn't say it better myself.
The problem with these kinds of guys is how the react once their feelings are hurt. I know a guy like this who pretty much did this down to the letter. Once his feelings got hurt he started to spread rumours about the girl and write depressing ramblings on his Facebook. To make things worse for the guy he's in his early 30s, has no game and still lives with his mother.
These types of guys are like Elliot Rodgers. Only a few steps away from going full rampage and all because they are terrible at communicating what they want.
Edit: They often don't know what they actually want either or are unwilling to admit to themselves what they want through fear of how others think of them.
I say nay to beta orbiter game.
I'm into that that, 'alienate-the-bf-and-focus-on-her-sexuality-game'.
Primarily, I am not in the habit of talking to girls who are in relationships. However, I game mostly online and if they are on Tinder there is obviously some dissatisfaction within the relationship and she has put herself up on a forum in which to find someone or something else.
I'm happy to teach her a lesson.
It's really simple shit. Don't acknowledge the BF/EX-BF. Generally their sex life has gotten boring or unfulfilled, this is especially true after long term relationship. Be funny, be exciting and lace the convo with innuendo. If she talks about feelings, deflect. If she talks about her bf, start talking about yourself.
This year I've banged 2 divorced girls, 3 freshly broken up and at least one person that was actually still in the relationship. Mostly through Tinder.
Beta Orbiters usually hear about the saucy fuck they had on the rebound, not be the actual fuck themselves.
I'm into that that, 'alienate-the-bf-and-focus-on-her-sexuality-game'.
Primarily, I am not in the habit of talking to girls who are in relationships. However, I game mostly online and if they are on Tinder there is obviously some dissatisfaction within the relationship and she has put herself up on a forum in which to find someone or something else.
I'm happy to teach her a lesson.
It's really simple shit. Don't acknowledge the BF/EX-BF. Generally their sex life has gotten boring or unfulfilled, this is especially true after long term relationship. Be funny, be exciting and lace the convo with innuendo. If she talks about feelings, deflect. If she talks about her bf, start talking about yourself.
This year I've banged 2 divorced girls, 3 freshly broken up and at least one person that was actually still in the relationship. Mostly through Tinder.
Beta Orbiters usually hear about the saucy fuck they had on the rebound, not be the actual fuck themselves.
I don't see why you'd approach the situation any different.
I've hit up rebound girls before, but it's not like I knew it at the time. It was only after the fact that I realized it, and then it all made sense: that's why they got into bed so quickly.
The main thing she needs is validation. Might as well give it to her in the form of your D instead of beta-orbiter affection.
I've hit up rebound girls before, but it's not like I knew it at the time. It was only after the fact that I realized it, and then it all made sense: that's why they got into bed so quickly.
The main thing she needs is validation. Might as well give it to her in the form of your D instead of beta-orbiter affection.
Quote: (05-20-2015 01:44 PM)Pride male Wrote:
Beta game. Lots of comfort building. Compliment, cuddle and close.
Quote: (05-20-2015 02:47 PM)jariel Wrote:
Pride Male laid it out, I'm just going to classify it.
Rebound game is better known as Beta Orbiter Game.
Are you guys being serious? I'm not about to start beta orbiting her, since that shit is pathetic and doesn't work. I don't know if there are any different nuances to "rebound game" that wouldn't be applicable in "regular" game, so to speak.
I've heard you have to strike while the iron is hot, so that means you go out with her for drinks to "take her mind off things", but slowly escalate kino throughout the night. You keep it fun and light-hearted, and avoid talk about her ex.
Aside from that, I don't know much else.
A young gun hears draw, and he can fire off six shots.
A killer takes his time and aims.
The important questions not answered in the original post
1) who is this girl
2) who is this guy
3) how did he find out
4) what all does he know about her situation
"Optimal" game requires information. There is nothing here to give quality advice.
If y'all knew he gleaned this from a Facebook status change you might say one thing.
If you he's a "friend" that changes the picture doesn't it?
What if she mentioned it on an okcupid date?
Suddenly your advice changes, huh?
WIA
A killer takes his time and aims.
The important questions not answered in the original post
1) who is this girl
2) who is this guy
3) how did he find out
4) what all does he know about her situation
"Optimal" game requires information. There is nothing here to give quality advice.
If y'all knew he gleaned this from a Facebook status change you might say one thing.
If you he's a "friend" that changes the picture doesn't it?
What if she mentioned it on an okcupid date?
Suddenly your advice changes, huh?
WIA
Quote: (05-20-2015 06:42 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
A young gun hears draw, and he can fire off six shots.
A killer takes his time and aims.
The important questions not answered in the original post
1) who is this girl
2) who is this guy
3) how did he find out
4) what all does he know about her situation
"Optimal" game requires information. There is nothing here to give quality advice.
If y'all knew he gleaned this from a Facebook status change you might say one thing.
If you he's a "friend" that changes the picture doesn't it?
What if she mentioned it on an okcupid date?
Suddenly your advice changes, huh?
WIA
1. Solid 8/10. Only 5'2" tall, petite spinner. 21 years old.
2. Friend of mine. Known him for 2 years, and he dated her for a week in Feb. before he dropped her to fuck other girls. She fell in love with him, and my buddy only fucks/hangs out with her when his other plates are not available.
3. My buddy has graduated and is going home. When we drove him to the airport, she went with us and cried the whole way.
4. Rumor has it that she used to be abused as a kid by her parents. Might be a bit fucked in the head as a result. Has only a few friends, not that close to her as she only knew them for months. I've hung out with her before, but not enough to be put in the friendzone, nor did I make beta orbiter mistakes of trying to be her friend.
Let it be known that I am not trying to turn her into a LTR or anything.
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