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Medical clinic, casual clerical staff - how to convert?
05-19-2015, 09:04 AM
I work as a doc in a hospital.
At a clinic I work at, there's usually one or two casual clerical staff who are casual (ie not permanently employed there)
these casual clerical staff often tend to be quite attractive.
however they are often there for only one or two shifts
When I have some spare time in clinic - I can usually start casual conversation with these clerks and usually get a good vibe going. Being a doc, I have some DHV so that helps
however, I only see these clerks for a morning or afternoon during clinic and often never see them again.
Can anyone suggest methods where I can convert the good vibe into a number or even a facebook add in such a short space of time? It just would seem a bit out of place at clinic to ask for a number or facebook add out of the blue.
Any tips on how to pull this off?
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Medical clinic, casual clerical staff - how to convert?
05-19-2015, 11:28 AM
Steer the conversation and find out what her hobbies are. For example if she likes blues music tell her you know a bar that has pretty good blues lineup. Then see if she's interested in going with you, like "I'm going tomorrow, you should come!". Then grab her number and you're golden.
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05-19-2015, 05:37 PM
We should get a drink.
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Medical clinic, casual clerical staff - how to convert?
05-20-2015, 01:24 PM
Quote: (05-19-2015 09:04 AM)bonkers Wrote:
I work as a doc in a hospital.
Any tips on how to pull this off?
Yeah- don't try.
I have no objection to people in menial jobs such as retail clerks or restaurant service trying to bang coworkers since they have little to lose and that's part of the culture in those jobs.
But for someone in a professional job which requires enormous expenditure of money and time to even get into to put all that at risk just for a shot at some tail is the height of foolishness. Is it really worth it to risk getting sued, disciplined, maybe fired, and have sexual harassment in your job history?
That you're thinking about trying this is also evidence that your game is weak. I've noticed that men with poor game but with some job status often get involved with lower ranking women on the job and I think it's because they don't how to approach women out in the world and these women are close by and already talking to them so the anxiety factor is lower. It also shows a lack of abundance mentality-you don't seem to realize there are thousands of women in your town you can try to bang with no risk of a sexual harassment lawsuit.
Start going out to bars and clubs more-they are full of girls who would love to meet a physician.
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Medical clinic, casual clerical staff - how to convert?
05-20-2015, 01:51 PM
Quote: (05-20-2015 01:24 PM)MrXY Wrote:
Yeah- don't try.
I have no objection to people in menial jobs such as retail clerks or restaurant service trying to bang coworkers since they have little to lose and that's part of the culture in those jobs.
But for someone in a professional job which requires enormous expenditure of money and time to even get into to put all that at risk just for a shot at some tail is the height of foolishness. Is it really worth it to risk getting sued, disciplined, maybe fired, and have sexual harassment in your job history?
That you're thinking about trying this is also evidence that your game is weak. I've noticed that men with poor game but with some job status often get involved with lower ranking women on the job and I think it's because they don't how to approach women out in the world and these women are close by and already talking to them so the anxiety factor is lower. It also shows a lack of abundance mentality-you don't seem to realize there are thousands of women in your town you can try to bang with no risk of a sexual harassment lawsuit.
Start going out to bars and clubs more-they are full of girls who would love to meet a physician.
Totally agree with
MrXY, will add my 2 cents .....
Healthcare is the most regulated field of work in USA, you don't want a chic complaining to HR or other authorities.
Don't spit game at your place of work. period. You have position of power over those menial workers and can be used against you.
If you have time during your clinic, venture out to a building where you are not employed at and cold Approach a few girls with whom you have no position of power. If at a Univ Hospital employ
Hospital Game.
Bonkers you are afraid to show a player vibe in a work setting, shows you give a
Lot of Fucks, learn to not give a Fuck and I 'm not saying go grab a boob on some chic in your clinic but you can casually ask the coworkers for Lunch or Coffee and from there ask them to meet outside the clinic or Hospital, let's say drinks in the evening that is if you are hell bent on banging these CMA/CNA from your clinic.
Don't be afraid to display your player vibe, Girls dig Players/Bad Boys with Dark triad personalities and tell you that they hate players, you will eventually soften it so that your player vibe is subtle. I am also guessing you are going to play very indirectly but remember you have to Polarize them where they will either be Interested and go along or would simply say no. No problem next.
Go troll a friend's clinic and hit on his Nurses and Staff, No harm done. Go to a Local Health fair, Pussy Galore ....... but I am assuming your cold Approach Game is weak, If not what are you waiting for.
Happy Hunting, Any questions ? feel free to ask.
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