Quote: (05-18-2015 10:45 PM)heavy Wrote:
Quote: (05-18-2015 10:23 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:
h3ltrsk3ltr I am not trolling, yes I realize I sound like a little bitch, perhaps at this moment I am, I never had a ton of confidence and I have worked on that for the past year, after looking into the red pill I have learned a lot, my problem is putting things into action because of fear I guess? Lack of confidence along with overthinking is really a bitch but I have been trying to get over it, I understand your point but I am being truthful her, as pathetic as it may sound.
Yeah he really gave you some tough shit. I was even thinkin of calling him out for it ha, made me laugh, he was tough. But that's what we're here for. I don't think he thought you were trolling.
The good news is, it's going through these situations, through oneitis, being a little bitch...those are what will really shape you into a man.
Being a pussy, oneitis, getting married, then divorced...the best things that ever happened to me looking back. Post marriage, that girl I fucked 2x then though she'd want a relationship...a great step toward seeing the world for what it is.
Ok guys, hang on...just climbing off my high horse here (woah boy!)...
Duncan, it's taken me four years to get to the point where I can actually talk to women and evaluate my progress. Up until recently it was pointless because I was
totally fucked up in my own mind. I can hardly even quantify everything that's gone into my progress, sometimes it's especially hard to remind myself that other people have tolerated my bitchassness and validation seeking.
I'm a total noob too. I'd just encourage you to focus on
doing and less on thinking. At least, that worked for me. Have fun dude, keep that energy up!
Edit: Concerning your girl: I don't think banging this broad is the solution. Brother, I am intimately familiar with the pangs of desire that seem to supersede sleep, hunger, and everything. You gotta find a cure to the
disease not the symptoms. You need to go inside yourself like Luke killing the weird Darth Vader/himself combo. Find out what's wrong with you and kill that shit. The girl and your longing for her is merely an extension of a deeper issue.
Alternatively, do this:
Utterly give in to your deepest desire. I can sense that you'd like nothing more than a sure-fire way to nail this (perhaps perceived) prime slice of pussy pie. To have her fall hopelessly in love with you and to wake you up in the middle of the night writhing against you because she just can't get enough of you.
Do it.
Pedistalize her just a little bit. To quote the one and only vinman: "Play it a little beta." Let yourself give in. Apply some of those things you've probably been reading, staying aloof and whatnot. But let yourself fall into it and believe that she's sure as hell gonna be into you back.
Maybe tell her something cheesy. I'm embarrassed to say this and a little ashamed but I went with "I'm looking for a girl to be my 'partner in crime' and I was really hoping it was you...I...I'm just afraid you won't be her." (By the way, you can only say something like that, naked, in bed, after ball-slappy, throat-fucking, degrading-as-hell-pound-me-in-the-ass sex).
Fucking evil, I know.
I guess the idea there is to give into your beta side to get the bang then eject before it goes too far. It's probably not a good technique morally but it's a means to a Machiavellian end.
Not sure how I feel about this post...oh well. Let's try it and see.
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