So tonight was interesting. I went solo to my local bar, where they always have music going on.
There was this band from Colorado. I'm in California. There were about 40 people who were friends of the band. I was in a really good mood and I approached this 3 set, which I vibed well with. This whole crew seemed cliquish - young hipsters who used to live in Colorado in their party years. They're a very uniform group - everyone is white and probably late 20s.
Later in the evening I approach one of the three girls, which was giving me IOIs earlier. She was somewhat standoffish, but she was touching me, so I assumed she was the most open. However, when I said something to her, she completely ignores me - like I don't exist. It was noisy too, but it was obvious that I was saying something. This fucks up my inner game.
How do you guys deal with blowouts like this? Girls that act like you're nobody. I don't handle it well. What's your inner attitude about it?
There was this band from Colorado. I'm in California. There were about 40 people who were friends of the band. I was in a really good mood and I approached this 3 set, which I vibed well with. This whole crew seemed cliquish - young hipsters who used to live in Colorado in their party years. They're a very uniform group - everyone is white and probably late 20s.
Later in the evening I approach one of the three girls, which was giving me IOIs earlier. She was somewhat standoffish, but she was touching me, so I assumed she was the most open. However, when I said something to her, she completely ignores me - like I don't exist. It was noisy too, but it was obvious that I was saying something. This fucks up my inner game.
How do you guys deal with blowouts like this? Girls that act like you're nobody. I don't handle it well. What's your inner attitude about it?