A man is only as faithful as his options.
Don't debate me.
Quote: (08-10-2015 04:28 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
Lately I've been thinking a lot about this.
Not everyone can be a player (and thankfully so) because doing so still requires a certain degree of coldheartedness.
Its all very easy for us in the beginning when we are mostly dealing with whores/sluts and flaky girls to be very goal oriented without emotion involved. "She's just one of those fucked up girl, I couldnt care less if she trips and falls down the sewers"
But eventually down the road, once you've got good enough, your quality increases exponentially. Enventually you found a girl that ticks all the boxes you need (beautiful, feminine, caring, well-raised, devoted to you) and you lock her down.
Everything is great and rosy, until you decided that for one reason or another, you gotta go. And she has done nothing wrong to you, it has absolutely none of her fault. In fact she has done all she can and more to keep you around.
Can you truly walk away from that without feeling a tingle of pain?
A player doesn't care. He sneaks out of the bedroom before the girl wakes up. He goes ghost on his LTR all of a sudden. He just keeps going with that nonchalant aura because the game is everything to him, not the women.
I cant do that yet. I cant just leave a good girl knowing that it will certainly break her heart. Im disgusted enough with all the damaged women in the world, I dont need to add one more of my own making to that pool.
And thats not just LTR. I found out Im just not the type who can go ghost on a girl who has been treating me well.
Of course, we will tell ourselves "she might just be good to you now, but wait until xyz and she will show your claws to you" and that might just be true, and it helps you keep going without looking back.
But most of the time you just dont know. What you do know is that you left her worse than when you found her.
I guess its just another roadmark in the Path of the player, and this too we will cross eventually.
Quote: (08-10-2015 02:46 AM)Phoenix Wrote:
Quote: (08-10-2015 01:04 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:
Don't hate the player, hate the game.
Basically just this. The System creates the players, the sluts, the losers, and the cat ladies, and no individual man can change the system. Play the game or take the plane.
Quote: (04-03-2015 03:27 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
The game is hard. Attrition rate is astronomically high. Lots of guys go into game and quit as soon as they realize how hard it actually is. Or try locking down the first 7 they see.
However, I would not consider these guys as having game. They might not be the dumbest of the crowd, but thats far from having game.
Once you have game and has seen enough, you realize that relationships are not meant to last. At least, not in the sense that your girl will be faithful to you while still giving you a certain degree of freedom. And a lot of the time, they are not meant to last because you yourself want to game on the side.
That and you see the fickle, feeble nature of women. They can be pleasant to be around, but eventually they are all replaceable. You will go through phases when you consider one girl more special than all the others, but eventually you will leave her or vice versa without even a backward glance.
If there’s one constant in girls, it is change. They say they love you the night, hate you the morning and why you dont call them three days after. They might worship you while you are still together but once the rosy glass is shattered they can be more vicious than an attack dog.
They are hypergamous. No matter how well you lock her down, a game-aware man knows that all it takes is for a random guy to show up at the right place at the right time, and for you to say the wrong thing at the wrong place wrong time, for her to jump on another cock and ride it like there’s no tomorrow.
Game has never allowed us to control the outcome. They just make us outcome independent, and that coincides with better results.
How can a true redpill man ever settle down knowing all that facts ?
But most men settle. Some have seen the truth but would rather bear it than fight it. Thats how slavery worked.
Some are weak. They get old, vulnerable, or gamed by women. Fucking hypocrite Mark Minter.
And some eventually just get tired. They put in the work but eventually realize the payoffs are not worth it. We try to tell people to keep going on this forum, but for everyone who made it like Gio there are thousands who will just not make it. Those who want to stay in the game fight everyday to not give in.
Quote: (04-03-2015 03:27 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
They might worship you while you are still together but once the rosy glass is shattered they can be more vicious than an attack dog.
Quote: (04-02-2015 10:14 AM)Nascimento Wrote:
It would behoove all men to come to the awareness that you still need a player's foundation, whether or not you will be a player for your entire life or just a small part of it.
Quote: (08-10-2015 09:52 AM)Pride male Wrote:
A man is only as faithful as his options.
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They are hypergamous. No matter how well you lock her down, a game-aware man knows that all it takes is for a random guy to show up at the right place at the right time, and for you to say the wrong thing at the wrong place wrong time, for her to jump on another cock and ride it like there’s no tomorrow.
Quote: (04-03-2015 03:27 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
The game is hard. Attrition rate is astronomically high. Lots of guys go into game and quit as soon as they realize how hard it actually is. Or try locking down the first 7 they see.
However, I would not consider these guys as having game. They might not be the dumbest of the crowd, but thats far from having game.
Once you have game and has seen enough, you realize that relationships are not meant to last. At least, not in the sense that your girl will be faithful to you while still giving you a certain degree of freedom. And a lot of the time, they are not meant to last because you yourself want to game on the side.
That and you see the fickle, feeble nature of women. They can be pleasant to be around, but eventually they are all replaceable. You will go through phases when you consider one girl more special than all the others, but eventually you will leave her or vice versa without even a backward glance.
If there’s one constant in girls, it is change. They say they love you the night, hate you the morning and why you dont call them three days after. They might worship you while you are still together but once the rosy glass is shattered they can be more vicious than an attack dog.
They are hypergamous. No matter how well you lock her down, a game-aware man knows that all it takes is for a random guy to show up at the right place at the right time, and for you to say the wrong thing at the wrong place wrong time, for her to jump on another cock and ride it like there’s no tomorrow.
Game has never allowed us to control the outcome. They just make us outcome independent, and that coincides with better results.
How can a true redpill man ever settle down knowing all that facts ?
But most men settle. Some have seen the truth but would rather bear it than fight it. Thats how slavery worked.
Some are weak. They get old, vulnerable, or gamed by women. Fucking hypocrite Mark Minter.
And some eventually just get tired. They put in the work but eventually realize the payoffs are not worth it. We try to tell people to keep going on this forum, but for everyone who made it like Gio (he’s like the slumdog billionaire version of game) there are thousands who will just not make it. Those who want to stay in the game fight everyday to not give in.