[Ausguy]

I've just meet this girl who has only with slept with one other guy apart from me. She has very little sexual experience where I'm teaching her about sex. She has kissed guys before but never French kissed until she meet me (young, shy & petite). The one thing she refuses is to suck my dick. Any tips to get a blowjob??

[Mofasa]

Interested in this topic. I'm in the same boat. Girl has only been with 1 guy a boyfriend of 4 years. First date m/o and unsnapped the bra. She got real uncomfortable b/c "she's not that type of girl." Curious in how to escalate b/c I do not wanna put in 5-6 dates. She's coming over tonight...

[Travesty]

Best way I have found:

Don't use words to get her to suck your dick use...

your dick.

That's right. Here's how you do it. You get a girl making out hot and heavy on her back. You get her naked. You finger and play with that pussy.

Now you are kneeling up still playing with that pussy and pinching those nipples and maybe lightly choking her. Grab her firmly by one of her wrists when the time is right and she is turned on, forced that hand down and make her play with her own clit while you are still fingering her with your other hand. She should be even more turned on now. (I take it your know the Spiderman Squirter Hand Technique? - do this lightly yet firmly with a slowly building tension and speed)

Saddle up on your knees right next to her face. Drop that cock in her mouth like that's where it belongs. Because it does.

[eradicator]

Go down on her first. Do a good job. Then tell her "get on your knees, it's your turn. I can grab a yoga matt or pillow"

And you probably shouldn't believe her when she tells you she has only been with one other guy. I guess it's possible though.

[topdog]

I don't think going down on her and then telling her 'its your turn now' is a good frame to do it. It is too transactional. Make it more about you telling her what you would love her to do to you, making her want to do it to please you.

Two options come to mind:

1) Read this at some PUA blog/forum: At some point in foreplay tell her in a romantic way: "This is the first time a brunette/blonde/asian/girl with glasses gives me a blowjob". Assuming the sale sometimes does the trick.

2) Specially effective with inexperienced girls: Have her all turned up with a thorough foreplay and fingering session (just don't make her cum yet). Then when you want, guide her hand to your crotch, and make her open your pants ("unwrap your gift, babe"), let her caress, admire and jerk your dick and tell her you would love her to 'kiss' it before you enter her. You better be shaved or cleanly trimmed (bathing just before the date is key) so no bad smells kill the mood. Make her see it is completely natural, just avoid seeming too pushy. Most often than not, she will have little experience/skill, so you teaching how to suck YOU is a strong frame.

Otherwise, sluts start by unzipping your pants and sucking your dick thoroughly. Then wrap up and bang away.

[philosophical_recovery]

(03-30-2015 08:19 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Best way I have found:

Don't use words to get her to suck your dick use...

your dick.

That's right. Here's how you do it. You get a girl making out hot and heavy on her back. You get her naked. You finger and play with that pussy.

Now you are kneeling up still playing with that pussy and pinching those nipples and maybe lightly choking her. Grab her firmly by one of her wrists when the time is right and she is turned on, forced that hand down and make her play with her own clit while you are still fingering her with your other hand. She should be even more turned on now. (I take it your know the Spiderman Squirter Hand Technique? - do this lightly yet firmly with a slowly building tension and speed)

Saddle up on your knees right next to her face. Drop that cock in her mouth like that's where it belongs. Because it does.

Variations of this have worked many times, except in a few cases:

1 - Girl said she only did that "with her boyfriends" when I tried the old dick in da face routine. She was also a feminist. Good fuck otherwise, but was sick of her "I wanna be cool like a dude too" routine
2 - Girl had some freakout ptsd about some forced oral situation in the past. Mental block was strong. I felt bad for her, because she was a really sweet girl and pleasant to be with
3 - Girl who normally would suck my dick at the drop of a hat wouldn't keep sucking after I had stuck it in her. She didn't like the taste of her own stankay poosay. This led to her never asking me for oral again (oral is now a very rare treat for the low N count girls with pleasant aromas)

That said, these are the outliers. Most girls will suck your dick. Some girls, eagerly, without you asking. I love those girls. One of the last ones I brought home didn't let me do anything to her, not even a hand down her pants, but sucked me with gusto without any prodding.

[topdog]

@PhilosophicalRecovery: A couple years ago I've had an older girl who I rawdogged who sucked my dick between switching positions. She had her hygiene in check and I guess she saw the gynecologist every two months or so (she had money). We hardly ever needed lube and my erection stayed strong longer thanks to her sucking it (maybe the pornstar fantasy kicked in). Once one gives a girl more than 5-7 orgasms per session, she will do anything for you.

[almohajem]

With one girl, I just "suddenly" pulled my dick. no make out. no kissing. no shit. just pulled it. she seemed shocked for a little while, and then she put it in her mouth.

has to say that i got a very good upper hand on the relation. so she kinda took my shit for that.

have another date today. if girl got home, i'll be using that same move and will report back here

[Peeler]

I've dated a lot of girls online last few months and slept with most of them. So if you have a girlfriend. The next time she sucks your winky, make sure you tell her how cool she is for doing it, make her feel special like she's really good and no others girls are that cool.

[ksbms]

Tell her that you know about the best sales in town for every dicksucking she'll do on you. Guaranteed 10 fellatios or more a day.