This seems to be the best place for improvement logs without junking up the other forums, so here it is.
After assessing last year's bangs, I have determined that I have been relying heavily on social circle game. I went on a hot streak (for me, anyway) all of last year, doing what I could with little daygame, online game, and social circle game.
I count 9 bangs that I remember in a year or so, here's a breakdown:
2 through OKCupid (one a starfish fuck, the other a great fuck but from an intolerant feminist)
1 tinder random (worst of the bunch, was batting way below me, I would regret this one totally if she wasn't exotic)
2 tinders that I already knew in my social circle and banged
3 pure social circle (2 which were mini relationships)
I got a whole lot of matches on tinder that I never turned into bangs, which I think is the fault of my poor texting game.
Overall, the ones through the social circle were of better quality (I measure quality by age + low N count), but I still think that I can do better. I have decided that the only way to do this is improve my daygame by doing more cold approaches. The best I've done was the year before, which was sniper game which got me an EE broad, the "virgin" that I've
I have attempted this in the past, and it has resulted in some numbers. One that I got back to my place but I didn't escalate quickly enough (I didn't get the right vibe from her, but I think I could've pushed it and she was straight up foreign), the others have been fizzled numbers and rejections.
I need to get rejected more. I need to get out more. I have spent too much time here on the forum on days that I could be out daygaming. Part of this was being under the weather for close to a month, the other part was just sheer will. That broke last night and this morning. I've had a bad attitude, and have been overanalyzing just about everything, causing me to hesitate. I'm tired of seeing hotter babes with lesser men, as I know I have a lot going for me on several fronts. I just plain haven't developed enough game.
This weekend, while putting myself in a challenging environment, I froze. Luckily, I was opened by a true player, who was talking to everyone in his vicinity. He seemed like a cool guy, offered me some dance tips. I also got pinged by a girl even though I was hiding like a little shit away from the dance floor (this is not usual for me, I was in a very unfamiliar environment meant to challenge myself).
I'm about 2 weeks from kicking a plate off the whirly-stick. I didn't want her enough, her neediness was killing me, and getting booty from her was killing my motivation to approach other girls. I juggled her with another girl that I preferred, but I think poor game (and her youth) contributed to her jetting. I have tentative plans with a new plate in about a week through the social circle, but as everyone knows that can easily turn to a flake.
Anyway, I'm cooking up my dinner and getting ready to hit the pavement while it's still daylight outside. I'll update this as needed.
Special thanks to:
Giovonny (Who I will call the forum's daygame master)
Jariel (Who has fantastic contributions that have contributed to this self assessment and reboot)
After assessing last year's bangs, I have determined that I have been relying heavily on social circle game. I went on a hot streak (for me, anyway) all of last year, doing what I could with little daygame, online game, and social circle game.
I count 9 bangs that I remember in a year or so, here's a breakdown:
2 through OKCupid (one a starfish fuck, the other a great fuck but from an intolerant feminist)
1 tinder random (worst of the bunch, was batting way below me, I would regret this one totally if she wasn't exotic)
2 tinders that I already knew in my social circle and banged
3 pure social circle (2 which were mini relationships)
I got a whole lot of matches on tinder that I never turned into bangs, which I think is the fault of my poor texting game.
Overall, the ones through the social circle were of better quality (I measure quality by age + low N count), but I still think that I can do better. I have decided that the only way to do this is improve my daygame by doing more cold approaches. The best I've done was the year before, which was sniper game which got me an EE broad, the "virgin" that I've
I have attempted this in the past, and it has resulted in some numbers. One that I got back to my place but I didn't escalate quickly enough (I didn't get the right vibe from her, but I think I could've pushed it and she was straight up foreign), the others have been fizzled numbers and rejections.
I need to get rejected more. I need to get out more. I have spent too much time here on the forum on days that I could be out daygaming. Part of this was being under the weather for close to a month, the other part was just sheer will. That broke last night and this morning. I've had a bad attitude, and have been overanalyzing just about everything, causing me to hesitate. I'm tired of seeing hotter babes with lesser men, as I know I have a lot going for me on several fronts. I just plain haven't developed enough game.
This weekend, while putting myself in a challenging environment, I froze. Luckily, I was opened by a true player, who was talking to everyone in his vicinity. He seemed like a cool guy, offered me some dance tips. I also got pinged by a girl even though I was hiding like a little shit away from the dance floor (this is not usual for me, I was in a very unfamiliar environment meant to challenge myself).
I'm about 2 weeks from kicking a plate off the whirly-stick. I didn't want her enough, her neediness was killing me, and getting booty from her was killing my motivation to approach other girls. I juggled her with another girl that I preferred, but I think poor game (and her youth) contributed to her jetting. I have tentative plans with a new plate in about a week through the social circle, but as everyone knows that can easily turn to a flake.
Anyway, I'm cooking up my dinner and getting ready to hit the pavement while it's still daylight outside. I'll update this as needed.
Special thanks to:
Giovonny (Who I will call the forum's daygame master)
Jariel (Who has fantastic contributions that have contributed to this self assessment and reboot)