When you get all Oneitisy - go cold turkey - get off her Facebook (disconnect), and get a grip on her thoughts.
Meditation would be useful. When you catch yourself thinking about her, mentally shout "Stop!"
Obession/Oneitis is a tough battle and I suspect pyschochemicals like Oxycontin are at work but you can overcome it. Finding a new focus for your attention will help (a new chick or better yet chicks...)
The worst oneitis i had was for a histrionic - a 9, and I believe she gamed me.
The second worst eventually came around, and guess what... that is the irony of oneitis...you loose interest and realize they weren't "all that" in the first place when the spell whears off.
Fight this fire by starting a backfire: find a new woman or women.
Meditation would be useful. When you catch yourself thinking about her, mentally shout "Stop!"
Obession/Oneitis is a tough battle and I suspect pyschochemicals like Oxycontin are at work but you can overcome it. Finding a new focus for your attention will help (a new chick or better yet chicks...)
The worst oneitis i had was for a histrionic - a 9, and I believe she gamed me.
The second worst eventually came around, and guess what... that is the irony of oneitis...you loose interest and realize they weren't "all that" in the first place when the spell whears off.
Fight this fire by starting a backfire: find a new woman or women.