I just had a mini-epiphany and figured I'd post it. It's as basic as it gets, but the best ideas usually are simple.
Women follow. Boys want. Men lead. As men, we all have the ability to go after what we want, and that's what we tend to do with our lives. Not develop and maintain relationships. No, instead we chase our goals. No matter how successful we are though, we go through phases. It's a man's way. We set a goal, work our ass off toward it, and then it's done. As a result, there are sometimes gaps between goals. And it's these gaps which gave me my epiphany.
During these gaps, I'm just another person on the street, and I need to be conscious of having great game when interacting with women. However, when I'm past the point of no return, when I'm grinding away at a goal in my life with success in sight... women stare at me, they do double takes and basically I naturally emanate wicked game at all times, and with no effort.
I think learning game is only neccessary in the 'fake it til you make it' approach. Fake it til you make it is a ridiculously powerful tool though which I use in all aspects of my life, so I'm not in any way putting down the study of game. Instead I'm suggesting everybody look inside themselves to be true game masters. The best game is when you "make it" ....Then before you know it, that phase is over, you move on, and start over, taking your game training to a whole new level.
Women follow. Boys want. Men lead. As men, we all have the ability to go after what we want, and that's what we tend to do with our lives. Not develop and maintain relationships. No, instead we chase our goals. No matter how successful we are though, we go through phases. It's a man's way. We set a goal, work our ass off toward it, and then it's done. As a result, there are sometimes gaps between goals. And it's these gaps which gave me my epiphany.
During these gaps, I'm just another person on the street, and I need to be conscious of having great game when interacting with women. However, when I'm past the point of no return, when I'm grinding away at a goal in my life with success in sight... women stare at me, they do double takes and basically I naturally emanate wicked game at all times, and with no effort.
I think learning game is only neccessary in the 'fake it til you make it' approach. Fake it til you make it is a ridiculously powerful tool though which I use in all aspects of my life, so I'm not in any way putting down the study of game. Instead I'm suggesting everybody look inside themselves to be true game masters. The best game is when you "make it" ....Then before you know it, that phase is over, you move on, and start over, taking your game training to a whole new level.