[artur jedi]

2 shittests I recently receive from newly met females at the club:

1) Why you don't have a girlfriend?
My take on it: None wants me. Then when she says why so, I explain that I want a tall girl, so I don't have to bend when I want to kiss, a cutie and not so dumb. Extremely rare combination where I live.

2) Why are you dancing with me? There are so many beautiful girls around (shes 6,5-7)
My take on it: I think I like you enough to see where it gets us.

The results are not satisfactory in the end of the night, so looking for advice on improving the above.

[eradicator]

"why don't you have a girlfriend'

I have several girlfriends, they aren't here right now, you are.

I just got out of a relationship and am not looking for anything serious right now.


"why are you dancing with me instead of with one of the better looking girls'

(Ignore her stupid question and say) Just dance with me.

You want me to leave? I certainly can go and dance with one of the others.



In an nutshell, you really don't want to answer their retarded questions with serious or logical answers. Just troll them with cocky/funny replies and they will like you more(assuming you are in the usa, it looks like you are in poland, idk how good their english is, or if they will pick up on any of the humor.

[artur jedi]

Thanks for reply.

It all happens in Poland (Warsaw), in polish (translation made by me).

Just dance with me (and shut up) - I like that!

[JayJuanGee]

(03-18-2015 07:07 AM)artur jedi Wrote:  

Thanks for reply.

It all happens in Poland (Warsaw), in polish (translation made by me).

Just dance with me (and shut up) - I like that!

I agree with Eradicator in the sense that you do NOT really need to answer their questions when they are seeming to assume matters.

Frequently, I believe that answering those kinds questions will put you into a potential defensive position and into her frame... and you would likely prefer to be the one framing and keeping the tone how you would like it.


You could also put the question back onto her.... like, would you expect me to have a girlfriend? and you think that I should dance with one of the other girls? Which ones do you suggest?

I may also say: 1) I don't have any exclusivity arrangement at the moment. Then she may say. What do you mean? and just repeat the concept and ask her about her expectations regarding relationships. 2) I like to dance with a variety of girls, and you seem to be fairly interesting (and then you may say something interesting about her or you may decide to say something that is a bit more indirect and pick a very obviously unattractive girl and say, "I was kind of interested in that fat one over there, but I was a bit nervous to approach." Then proceed from there. If she happens to know the "fat one over there," then you will need to be prepared to respond to that by saying, "oh could you introduce me" and then play along and attempt to make the interaction fun... and attempt to create the impression "nothing phases me." hahahahaha