I work in college town bars/clubs about 1-2 nights a week, typically in the Thurs-Friday range.
I am a firm believer of Gmanifesto's "Act as if" philosophy. Even when I am not interested in a girl or I am dating someone else, I still try to keep my game tight.
During the early parts of the night, up till about 12:30, my job is to walk around and talk to the girls. I have a very healthy tab that allows me to buy shots for groups or people that are responding well / loyal customers.
I am paid a % of the bar take, so it is in my best interest for these girls to get there friends to the bar, so that the guys will swoop in and start buying drinks.
What is the best alpha way to run this? I ask because I am buying girls drinks that I have barely even met (i consider it similar to casino comps) or I am asking them about what type of music they like and if there is a song they would love to hear. Things that are best to avoid when approaching a new woman at the club. I just want her friends/money/business more than her sex though.
A lot of DJs have attitude about requests, but I am there to make money and work the crowd. I want to jump down and get my hands dirty and make sure everyone has a great time.
I do not want those girls leaving thinking the dj was a creep, beta, fag.. But I do not necessarily want them to leave thinking that they want to bang me. I want them to not bounce to another club and bring traffic in to the club.
What do you guys think? Anything I can clarify?
I am a firm believer of Gmanifesto's "Act as if" philosophy. Even when I am not interested in a girl or I am dating someone else, I still try to keep my game tight.
During the early parts of the night, up till about 12:30, my job is to walk around and talk to the girls. I have a very healthy tab that allows me to buy shots for groups or people that are responding well / loyal customers.
I am paid a % of the bar take, so it is in my best interest for these girls to get there friends to the bar, so that the guys will swoop in and start buying drinks.
What is the best alpha way to run this? I ask because I am buying girls drinks that I have barely even met (i consider it similar to casino comps) or I am asking them about what type of music they like and if there is a song they would love to hear. Things that are best to avoid when approaching a new woman at the club. I just want her friends/money/business more than her sex though.
A lot of DJs have attitude about requests, but I am there to make money and work the crowd. I want to jump down and get my hands dirty and make sure everyone has a great time.
I do not want those girls leaving thinking the dj was a creep, beta, fag.. But I do not necessarily want them to leave thinking that they want to bang me. I want them to not bounce to another club and bring traffic in to the club.
What do you guys think? Anything I can clarify?