I've done some digging around the forum and so far have not found a comprehensive thread regarding what is the biggest challenge I've been facing in my 3+ years post divorce and taking the red pill.
My personality is naturally introverted but I do a great job of upping my energy (temporarily) in social situations. However after a week at most of going to social functions, dates and approaching I find myself completely depleted and almost borderline depressed. After a couple of days to myself I'm usually back up and ready to get back in the game but it ends up being a tumultuous roller coaster ride of high and low emotions for me. Sometimes it gets so bad that I will go into recluse mode for a couple of weeks if I'm not spinning any plates at the moment. I'll still spend time with friends and family but the thought of meeting new women almost wears me out just thinking about it.
I know many of you may reply with "well don't try to be higher energy" or "only go out x days out of the week" but we all know how hard it is to say no when the fish, uh pussy, is biting and we're on a hot streak
Does anyone else feel this way, and if so have you come up with a balanced routine that allows you to keep the mental energy tank full while also not leaving pussy on the table?
My personality is naturally introverted but I do a great job of upping my energy (temporarily) in social situations. However after a week at most of going to social functions, dates and approaching I find myself completely depleted and almost borderline depressed. After a couple of days to myself I'm usually back up and ready to get back in the game but it ends up being a tumultuous roller coaster ride of high and low emotions for me. Sometimes it gets so bad that I will go into recluse mode for a couple of weeks if I'm not spinning any plates at the moment. I'll still spend time with friends and family but the thought of meeting new women almost wears me out just thinking about it.
I know many of you may reply with "well don't try to be higher energy" or "only go out x days out of the week" but we all know how hard it is to say no when the fish, uh pussy, is biting and we're on a hot streak
Does anyone else feel this way, and if so have you come up with a balanced routine that allows you to keep the mental energy tank full while also not leaving pussy on the table?