[Lothario]

(03-05-2015 03:29 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

** REMINDER**

I DO NOT GET GIRLS BECAUSE MY GAME IS ADVANCED. As you can see from these approaches, my game is very basic.

I get girls because I play "The Numbers Game"! And, I play it hard!

When I want a new girl, I will approach 10+ girls per day until I find one that likes me.

That is the secret to my success. I simply talk to a lot more girls than the average guy.

Awsome Gio, I think you are being very humble here. Just to inform guys who haven't met him, Yes Gio works harder then any body I have known who have game, He Approaches more then a Muthafu.... Lothario but .......

He is telling you all to get motivated to Approach and Approach some more. Think about this scenario, You do 1000 Approaches, Don't you think you will correct your mistakes and start experimenting at Approach number 113 what color of Shoes and or socks girls are starting to notice, What Hair style, Vibe, Prop is giving you a better sucess, What kind of girls are giving you the time of the day. The speed of your Verbal Rap and the pauses etc etc.

I met Gio twice with about 18 months apart and the second time I met him, his verbal game had exploded, It was as if he was speaking in a slow tone and putting in pauses as if drawing the listener in, forcing them to pay attention. Simply mesmerizing. I saw girls getting hypnotized. It will take a mofo Lothario years of gaming and discipline to get to Gio's level.

One has to start walking before running, that is what Gio is saying to start Approaching and you will get better with every Approach you make.

Happy Hunting Fellas.

[rapaz12]

Is it a waste of time to try to approach women in a group in the mall?

[Zerdame]

Incredible work Gio, learnt quite abit from your thread when I started daygaming alot more than night game due to circumstances. I daygamed in a few Asian cities but those that really worked out for me while speaking only English was in Kuala Lumpur. Daygame in Asia would be alittle different from the West even though it is largely similar. I echo Gio's weekday strategy, much better odds than fighting the crowd on weekends. Girls are bored and if you got game, you brighten up their typical tuesdays.

Malaysia:
I went out of the city to Mid Valley Mall in Subang after breakfast, a short 30min taxi ride. Daygaming in Malaysian malls are the best as the girls are bored and since traffic was significantly slower on a Tuesday, the shop attendants were more than willing to talk to a charming foreigner.

Here's a tip to our Asian brothers gaming in Malaysia/Thailand or SEA in general, if you can pull off a few strings of Korean and can pass off the look, say that you're Korean. If not, just saying you're Asian American would be good too.

I normally work mega malls because the quality tends to be higher there because its always cooler to work in the Starbucks of a fashionable mall than a normal suburb mall even though the pay is the same and girls do shit like these. Since it was a Tuesday, the mall was pretty deserted so I entered the Zara looking at some shirts. Salespeople in Malaysia tend to tail you all the way when you're in a store, it gets annoying but its a good thing if you're trying to game her.

Me: Are these the only colours you have?
Her: Yes.. (I spoke with an accent so she was struggling to figure out where I was from)
Me: Alright then, I'll look around then
*proceeds to follow me across the store*
Me: I wouldn't steal anything you know, you don't have to keep following me (remember to keep your tone cool and witty)
Her: hehe I know, my boss will scold me if customers walk alone
Me: I'm going to follow your boss everywhere he goes next time he goes shopping then, see how he likes it.
Her: *giggle* where are you from?
Me: Why? Are you going to follow me home too?
Her: haha nono, I'm curious

I continued to tease her abit before going for the number close. She had something on that night so we made plans to meet in KL while I was in the country.

I number closed about 7 girls in 3 hours and I was picky, only picking my personal 8s and above. 2 of which were willing to hang out that very day after they ended their mid day shift so I made plans for a date with one that night and waited for the other in a Starbucks since her shift was about to end in an hour. I took her back to KL and to a nice restaurant in BTS for an early dinner and then suggested that we chill out over a nice view in my room. I deliberately left out the fact that I lived right in the mall and she playfully teased me that I "planned everything out" and I just took her hand and walked her to the lobby, could have sworn she creamed her jeans just with that alpha action.

Shopping mall game, when done right, can reap you big rewards in Asia. As an Asian male gaming in Asia, this is definitely the better method for me than working the clubs every week. Stay witty, fun and exploit the shits out of your foreigner card and novelty factor when travelling, girls would be interested to talk to you so you already have a default hook in conversations, just play the numbers game and follow up respectively, its hard to go wrong.

[Giovonny]

(03-21-2016 03:33 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  

Incredible work Gio,

Thank you.

Welcome to the forum!

--

As far as picking up girls in shopping malls..

I have a technique that is very important to my success:

WALKING ALONGSIDE OF GIRLS!!!

I rarely stop girls as they are walking.

I create a situation where they are walking right next to me.

--

Here is a recent example:

I was at the mall, I saw a beautiful girl walking..

I quickly positioned myself so that I was about 20 feet ahead of her..

I stopped at the atm machine and watched her as she walked closer and closer to me..

When she got about 5 feet away from me, I stood up tall, strengthened my posture, and started talking loudly and confidently..

I WASN'T TALKING TO ANYONE! I WAS JUST LOOKING AT SOME GUY AS I SAID:

"okay great, thanks for your help, have a good weekend"

As I said this, I started to walk away from the atm and slightly ahead of the girl about 2 steps.

At that point, she had heard my voice, she had become aware of my presence, and she was walking right next to me.

Timing is everything.

After a few steps, I turned my head, pretending to notice her for the first time...

I made an indirect, situational observation:

me: your backpack is open
her: I'm sorry
me: your backpack is totally unzipped
her: oh thats the style of it
me: oh it is? It looks open
her: ya the style of this bag is that the zippers appear unzipped
me: oh
her: ya
me: well its a nice bag, i love good black leather
her: haha ya me too
me: are you coming from a workout?
her: yes I had yoga class
me: yoga is amazing
her: ya i love it

We walked and talked for a few minutes.

me: how long have you lived here in san francisco?
her: only about 2 years

Blah, blah, blah

We talked culture, neighborhoods, restaurants, etc.

I got her number.

--

In my opinion, the biggest factor was that I positioned myself ALONGSIDE of her. This made my approach seem serendipitous and non threatening.

The other big factor was the fact that I let her hear my voice BEFORE I opened her. This is a concept that I call "Be the First to Speak" -- thread-27138...#pid513404.

This action allows the girl to hear your voice, sense your vibe, and get to know you a little bit BEFORE you open her.

These are two techniques that have improved my success while approaching girls in public.

--

P.S. -- I almost forgot, there is a 3rd technique that I like to use in public situations.. If I can not approach the girl directly, I will sometimes strike up a conversation with someone right next to her.. Again, this allows her to hear my voice, get a sense for my vibe and personality, etc.

I call it the "literally indirect approach" -- thread-25173...#pid476666


Use all 3 techniques to improve the integrity of your public approaches!

[Off The Reservation]

excellent almost forgotten techniques.

[DonnyGately]

Tuesday nights at a higher-end mall are absolutely a great way to meet hotter chicks. The more expensive the store, the fewer customers and often fewer workers [as they get paid more] so less chance of being blocked. If it's a woman's store say you're shopping for a gift for your sister - bday, graduation, etc.

If she has gay male coworkers at a more fashion-oriented store, definitely befriend him and 99% of the time they will help you get the number if you have any social skills and dress well.

[tobehero]

Malls and which day to game differs from country and cities. It's like a lottery, even on weekends. I say if you have a few hours to kill or in the area shopping, game anyway.

I never needed to use a backstory or a reason to being in the shop. They rarely ask and it is never an issue. Just don't be weird.

[Philosopher]

(02-09-2015 08:28 AM)JoeChange Wrote:  

(02-09-2015 06:14 AM)Captain Gh Wrote:  

Whatever your style of game is, the only thing never to do is to go direct inside a mall. The security guards are on deck and will boot you out if you get caught. Not worth it! Better learn how to ramble and go indirect in this environment.

Definitely don't be an approach machine.

I second that, once got stop by security for spam approaching in a Colorado mall.

[Philosopher]

(03-20-2016 10:17 AM)rapaz12 Wrote:  

Is it a waste of time to try to approach women in a group in the mall?

You can try to if they are both 6 and above. Try to spread you attention evenly to both of them. More is probably beyond anyone's capability but if that is your only prospect - try it. Regret is worse than rejection)

[AceP]

Great thread @OP.

Mallgame is especially useful in some SEAsia countries where the pollution is through the roof, it's too hot thus you're sweating like crazy and sometimes Malls is the only best place to walk around and find stationary/semi-stationary targets.

I'd also like to add for girls who are by themselves, you can ask "so who are you here with" and assume they are working there: as girls who went shopping by themselves generally isn't a good thing unless she's working there. Usually normal social girls will go shopping in packs.

[Hombre]

The days up to and including Christmas Eve are perfect for approaching chicks. Walk into any store and pretend like you’re shopping for a mom, grandma, sister, aunt, etc. “Hey, how do you think this would look on my...whoever?”

[RatInTheWoods]

"buying perfume for your sister" gives you direct access to game the very hot women in the perfume section.

[lunchmoney]

(12-24-2018 03:43 PM)Hombre Wrote:  

The days up to and including Christmas Eve are perfect for approaching chicks. Walk into any store and pretend like you’re shopping for a mom, grandma, sister, aunt, etc. “Hey, how do you think this would look on my...whoever?”

Curious to hear about recent success stories on shopping mall game. Most women out shopping are either in groups, or are so absorbed by their phone they only look up to not walk into someone.

[Winston Wolfe]

(02-07-2015 01:13 AM)coverdoc Wrote:  

When you first walk into the store, walk in with a cheerful and playful demeanor. Trust me this is a big one. On the weekday's it's dry, boring and the time is passing by very slow to them. Your upbeat energy will at least piqued their interest.

Reading this part of the OP made me remember a store employee approach I didn't even do "on purpose" so to speak, it was completely natural.

I was on my way home from a great workout so I was sweaty as hell and looked like shit, but I was feeling amazing and pumped. I passed an electronics store and remembered I needed new earbuds, so I decided fuck it and entered the store despite being in this state. Made a beeline for the earbuds section and immediately asked the girl working there "excuse me, could you point me to the wireless ones" (she had her back turned to me).

When she turned around it turned out she was pretty cute. Her first facial expression was one of bewilderment but also slight curiosity, seeing this dirty ass sweaty looking guy casually shopping. I didn't care and just started rambling about not knowing anything about earbuds and how I needed expert help etc.

Before I knew it I had her trying to explain the differences between several kinds of earbuds, I was making fun of her for not being able to reach the top shelf, I was saying shit like "can't you see I'm in a hurry? I want to start my workout" while it was obvious I was already done working out, and so on.

I think at least 10 minutes passed and we were having the time of our lives laughing and shit. Before I could finish the sentence "we should hang out some time" she literally grabbed my phone out of my hands to enter the digits.

We bantered a bit over text but I never saw her again after that since I was leaving the city the next day. Otherwise this would've been a guaranteed date with a high chance of converting to a lay.

The thing is I am introverted and usually need to make a conscious effort to get myself into the right state when daygaming. In this instance I was still feeling the high from the workout, I was genuinely happy and cheerful and this resulted in a "not a care in the world" attitude.

This made my entire style of approach more natural and genuine. It also made me realize that things are possible regardless of looks or dress style.

[JimBobsCooters]

Something I've done with a bit of success when traveling is to swing the conversation quickly towards "what is there to do around here" and get them out of work mode essentially. If you get lucky she'll say something that you can escalate into the next meeting with "oh there's a cool whatever that's really beautiful" type response. I went to Guatape 4 times (iirc) when I was in Medellin just from this (couple were mall, couple were street/bar) where they suggest it and you remember it and invite them to come along. Can also work with bars/restaurants or whatever that they suggest where you can pretty easily swing it to "we should go and grab a drink there when you're done".

Agree with the quiet weekdays being the best for store workers. If you've got a sister/cousin or something that doesn't force you into a lie that could backfire later then it's a great excuse to wander into the women's stores that often have the better looking workers with added bonus of you just look like a caring guy for shopping for someone else.

[Legend_of_BENTCOCK]

(02-07-2015 01:13 AM)coverdoc Wrote:  

Inspired to write this by Robreke's post
More times than not i find myself in small cities and have established a set routine for gaming chicks at work. Enjoy!

Time:
First and foremost if you are going to a store/mall to game workers never never never go on the weekend. It's simply a waste of your time and energy. Not only are they probably getting hit on or busy with a lot of customers , they will give out a lot of false IoI's in hopes to sucker you into buying something (commission). Picking the weekdays, i like Tuesdays and Wednesdays, to game girls in stores is great, and even with costumers you can walk around store and come back to the counter or employee later without the sketch orbitor factor. I like this best because after the costumer leaves she'll come right over away from other coworkers/ potential cock blocks to ask if you need help. (self induced isolation)

Initiation:
When you first walk into the store, walk in with a cheerful and playful demeanor. Trust me this is a big one. On the weekday's it's dry, boring and the time is passing by very slow to them. Your upbeat energy will at least piqued their interest. Remember it's all a game and you're there to have fun and get digits. When I first walk into any store where a cute chick working I always always always make a joke or nag them before asking for help. I like the asshole game the best. Usually start with something like, "wow you're the lazy one" or "damn i thought you were hot until I came closer" I have a smile on my face and just bring positive energy.
-This is important here as it gages not only their personality but there initial interest. I can't say how many dead ends i avoided by doing this simple screener. If she isn't the least bit piqued by your opener, ask one or two more questions and bounce.
I transition quickly to asking about some arbitrary product if my opener was well received. Usually asking them their opinion and saying the exact opposite. Remember they are accustomed to swaying customers. Example: Was gaming chick at clothing store, me: Hey which shirt you like, Her: the red one, me: i'll definitely go with the black one,you're just trying to sell me clothes. Her: haha wow no you look good in that. They love it. Transition to asking them about themselves, how long have they been working here, typical stuff you'd do on a normal approach.

Close:
After you've piqued their interest and got them chatty, time for the close. This one can vary and where a lot of beginners chicken out at. This is my favorite part of the interaction. I usually have two set closes
Close 1. "Well i wasn't really interested in buying anything, I just thought you were cute and wanted to say something". This surprisingly has worked wonders because of the previous transitions you've made before and screeners made in opener.
Close 2. You seem cool enough, what's your number so we can talk more about (product name) over coffee. This one is also another favorite of mine as it reinforces your sense of humor and the rejection stings a lot less.

Potential cockblocks:
We've all experienced that moment in a store when a cutie we were just about to open/close is approached by unaware customer or cockblocking employee.
-For customers, it's like a hierarchy and they are at the top. I usually just linger around if the convo was going good or if she states " I'll be right back" <- This happens quite often. I'm always a fan of turning negative to positives. A customer is a good way to gauge her interest. If one arrives and she goes off to help them and doesn't come back to you afterwards, she's probably not interested, so proceed according.
-For employees, Discretion is always a must in their hamster brains and from my experience they typically don't like to get hit on when their co workers are around (store gossip, being judged etc). If my target is in a store with one or more employees i try the separation technique by asking about some item far away from her coworkers. This works often. Another tactic is to just say fuck it and game as usual, especially when isolation is not possible. I typically try to include the other coworkers into the convo as to get a better flow going with my target. Example: was at concession stand and my target (hot 8) was surrounded by beta orbiters and a older co worker next to her. I know i couldn't separate so just incorporated the older one into the convo and she eventually insisted my target and I swap numbers.
While this approach style isn't for everyone, I've found great success on those boring days roaming the mall. Remember players: Timing, location and opening are the three biggest factors under your control. If you have any tips that work for you, post below.
-Coverdoc

This is FUCKING BULLSHIT.

I have made approaches in malls and had security called on me TWICE in two different malls!

FUCKING CUNT.

The first time I went in to talk to a young girl without even closing (just as a warm up) then on another occasion I went in again to talk to her without closing again, then the third time security pulled me aside and asked me to STOP.

In the other mall in another town I approached a 17 year old girl just ONCE and tried closing her but she refused until her beta orbiter coworker pulled her away, I left the store and then the security came up to me and asked me what I was doing.

When I explained he seemed really puzzled and could not comprehend why I was doing what I was doing. I reiterated I'd done nothing wrong.

Infact, here is my post about it from the incel forum

Quote:

Fuck that bitch.

Approach 3

Approached a jailbait in a shop, walked up to her when she was folding clothes and said "Hey" "You look good". Then I suggested we go for a coffee, she declined, then I said "You don't like coffee huh, what about a tea?" to which she declined then I said "final offer, Mcdonalds", which she also declined.

Then I suggested I should get her number so we could set something up another time. At this point she asked me if she could help me with anything, to which I replied bluntly, "No, I'm just here to approach women". To which she said "Well, I'm actually 17, so..." to which I said "Well, it's a bit of an age gap but it could work".

In the middle of which her cucked male colleague pulled her away but didn't confront me as I completely ignored his presence. So I hang around for another couple of minutes looking at shirts.

Then I leave the store casually and get approached myself, by security. The security guard asks if I had been in Lacoste and I answer yes, I have. Then he asked if I had approached a woman there to which I reply, yes, I have. There is nothing wrong with approaching women, that's how society works.

He asked me if I knew her and I said no I didn't. He said I had made her feel uncomfortable and that I shouldn't go around asking women for their phone numbers and other "personal questions" (such as offering them for coffee I guess?). Such an alien concept to approach a woman in 2018 it seems?He said if I did it again I would be asked to leave the whole mall. He asked for my name, address and telephone number which of course I declined to provide.

He asked me not to do it again in any store (about 100 separate stores in this mall) and that my "activities would be monitored". So on that note I left.

That is a new record. One approach, one rejection, one report. Six times I've been reported for approaching women now!

So shut THE FUCK UP about mall game

[LeBaron]

(12-26-2018 04:31 AM)Legend_of_BENTCOCK Wrote:  

(02-07-2015 01:13 AM)coverdoc Wrote:  

Inspired to write this by Robreke's post
More times than not i find myself in small cities and have established a set routine for gaming chicks at work. Enjoy!

Time:
First and foremost if you are going to a store/mall to game workers never never never go on the weekend. It's simply a waste of your time and energy. Not only are they probably getting hit on or busy with a lot of customers , they will give out a lot of false IoI's in hopes to sucker you into buying something (commission). Picking the weekdays, i like Tuesdays and Wednesdays, to game girls in stores is great, and even with costumers you can walk around store and come back to the counter or employee later without the sketch orbitor factor. I like this best because after the costumer leaves she'll come right over away from other coworkers/ potential cock blocks to ask if you need help. (self induced isolation)

Initiation:
When you first walk into the store, walk in with a cheerful and playful demeanor. Trust me this is a big one. On the weekday's it's dry, boring and the time is passing by very slow to them. Your upbeat energy will at least piqued their interest. Remember it's all a game and you're there to have fun and get digits. When I first walk into any store where a cute chick working I always always always make a joke or nag them before asking for help. I like the asshole game the best. Usually start with something like, "wow you're the lazy one" or "damn i thought you were hot until I came closer" I have a smile on my face and just bring positive energy.
-This is important here as it gages not only their personality but there initial interest. I can't say how many dead ends i avoided by doing this simple screener. If she isn't the least bit piqued by your opener, ask one or two more questions and bounce.
I transition quickly to asking about some arbitrary product if my opener was well received. Usually asking them their opinion and saying the exact opposite. Remember they are accustomed to swaying customers. Example: Was gaming chick at clothing store, me: Hey which shirt you like, Her: the red one, me: i'll definitely go with the black one,you're just trying to sell me clothes. Her: haha wow no you look good in that. They love it. Transition to asking them about themselves, how long have they been working here, typical stuff you'd do on a normal approach.

Close:
After you've piqued their interest and got them chatty, time for the close. This one can vary and where a lot of beginners chicken out at. This is my favorite part of the interaction. I usually have two set closes
Close 1. "Well i wasn't really interested in buying anything, I just thought you were cute and wanted to say something". This surprisingly has worked wonders because of the previous transitions you've made before and screeners made in opener.
Close 2. You seem cool enough, what's your number so we can talk more about (product name) over coffee. This one is also another favorite of mine as it reinforces your sense of humor and the rejection stings a lot less.

Potential cockblocks:
We've all experienced that moment in a store when a cutie we were just about to open/close is approached by unaware customer or cockblocking employee.
-For customers, it's like a hierarchy and they are at the top. I usually just linger around if the convo was going good or if she states " I'll be right back" <- This happens quite often. I'm always a fan of turning negative to positives. A customer is a good way to gauge her interest. If one arrives and she goes off to help them and doesn't come back to you afterwards, she's probably not interested, so proceed according.
-For employees, Discretion is always a must in their hamster brains and from my experience they typically don't like to get hit on when their co workers are around (store gossip, being judged etc). If my target is in a store with one or more employees i try the separation technique by asking about some item far away from her coworkers. This works often. Another tactic is to just say fuck it and game as usual, especially when isolation is not possible. I typically try to include the other coworkers into the convo as to get a better flow going with my target. Example: was at concession stand and my target (hot 8) was surrounded by beta orbiters and a older co worker next to her. I know i couldn't separate so just incorporated the older one into the convo and she eventually insisted my target and I swap numbers.
While this approach style isn't for everyone, I've found great success on those boring days roaming the mall. Remember players: Timing, location and opening are the three biggest factors under your control. If you have any tips that work for you, post below.
-Coverdoc

This is FUCKING BULLSHIT.

I have made approaches in malls and had security called on me TWICE in two different malls!

FUCKING CUNT.

The first time I went in to talk to a young girl without even closing (just as a warm up) then on another occasion I went in again to talk to her without closing again, then the third time security pulled me aside and asked me to STOP.

In the other mall in another town I approached a 17 year old girl just ONCE and tried closing her but she refused until her beta orbiter coworker pulled her away, I left the store and then the security came up to me and asked me what I was doing.

When I explained he seemed really puzzled and could not comprehend why I was doing what I was doing. I reiterated I'd done nothing wrong.

Infact, here is my post about it from the incel forum

Quote:

Fuck that bitch.

Approach 3

Approached a jailbait in a shop, walked up to her when she was folding clothes and said "Hey" "You look good". Then I suggested we go for a coffee, she declined, then I said "You don't like coffee huh, what about a tea?" to which she declined then I said "final offer, Mcdonalds", which she also declined.

Then I suggested I should get her number so we could set something up another time. At this point she asked me if she could help me with anything, to which I replied bluntly, "No, I'm just here to approach women". To which she said "Well, I'm actually 17, so..." to which I said "Well, it's a bit of an age gap but it could work".

In the middle of which her cucked male colleague pulled her away but didn't confront me as I completely ignored his presence. So I hang around for another couple of minutes looking at shirts.

Then I leave the store casually and get approached myself, by security. The security guard asks if I had been in Lacoste and I answer yes, I have. Then he asked if I had approached a woman there to which I reply, yes, I have. There is nothing wrong with approaching women, that's how society works.

He asked me if I knew her and I said no I didn't. He said I had made her feel uncomfortable and that I shouldn't go around asking women for their phone numbers and other "personal questions" (such as offering them for coffee I guess?). Such an alien concept to approach a woman in 2018 it seems?He said if I did it again I would be asked to leave the whole mall. He asked for my name, address and telephone number which of course I declined to provide.

He asked me not to do it again in any store (about 100 separate stores in this mall) and that my "activities would be monitored". So on that note I left.

That is a new record. One approach, one rejection, one report. Six times I've been reported for approaching women now!

So shut THE FUCK UP about mall game

Can you post a picture of yourself before your ban?

[for.petes.sake]

It may be easier but that is if you find a decent looking girl. First with the advance of online shopping many malls and stores are actually closing down. In this age of technology, people are going out less to buy items (and younger women especially because they are addicted to their smartphones). You can approach workers but most of the best looking girls work at places that tailor clothes only to women (e.g Victoria Secret) and girls also only shop at these stores. It would be awkward for a guy to walk into that store lol. Coffee shops and grocery stores to me are much better

[BasketBounce]

Yeah I just got back from the mall. Family after family. Did see some girls in groups of two, but they mostly looked like jailbait. Did not approach.


There were also lots of people shopping, so store workers were busy making actual sales. Did not approach.

It’s the holiday, though, so of course there are gonna be youngins running around. For a lot of them, the mall is lowkey the most exciting thing in the ‘burbs.

I’mma have to stick to Whole Foods and Target for daygame out here. Fuck around and get me a BBW from Walmart lol

I will say that becoming somewhat proficient at nightgame has made me better at reading people and knowing when an approach would be a waste of time. Don’t feel as much pressure to “succeed” when I know that I can go to the club later.

- BB

[Day Game Bang]

(12-26-2018 03:01 PM)for.petes.sake Wrote:  

You can approach workers but most of the best looking girls work at places that tailor clothes only to women (e.g Victoria Secret) and girls also only shop at these stores. It would be awkward for a guy to walk into that store lol.

Hahaha aint that the truth!

[C-Note]

I was at the biggest mall in my metropolitan area recently and decided to conduct kind of an experiment, with this thread in mind. I was suited down because I was getting another suit tailored at the mall and I wore one of my other suits to show them what I wanted. I had a couple of hours of free time and decided to make direct, speedy approaches. The mall was really busy with last-minute Christmas shoppers. I didn't approach any shoppers, just all retail workers.

I made around 10 approaches in 1 1/2 hours. It was disappointing how few cute girls were working. The mall is huge, but I could only find that many sixes and above. I basically just marched up to the cute girl in her shop and said, "Hey, my name's C-Note and I'm on my way to an appointment, but I noticed you as I walked by and had to come in an tell you, that I'd love to have a drink with you sometime." I did it even if their coworkers or other customers were standing nearby, because I was curious to see what would happen. In every case, the coworkers and customers would watch with wide eyes and shit-eating grins. Of the ten, nine declined, two of them with negative reactions but the others with a smile and sometimes a compliment, like, "I'm good, but you do look great."

One of the ten was working in a kiosk in the mall concourse. She is a 21 year-old fairly cute girl and was sitting right next to her coworker (who turned out to be her best friend). After I gave my spiel, without hesitation she said, "My name's J and give me your number." I gave her my number and she texted me as I walked away and I responded. I set up a day date for several days later and she drove 20 miles for the meet! We didn't bang, but she has since responded to follow-up texts so she's still a possibility.

Although the returns were low, it was a lot of fun.

[lunchmoney]

(12-31-2018 02:21 PM)C-Note Wrote:  

I was at the biggest mall in my metropolitan area recently and decided to conduct kind of an experiment, with this thread in mind. I was suited down because I was getting another suit tailored at the mall and I wore one of my other suits to show them what I wanted. I had a couple of hours of free time and decided to make direct, speedy approaches. The mall was really busy with last-minute Christmas shoppers. I didn't approach any shoppers, just all retail workers.

I made around 10 approaches in 1 1/2 hours. It was disappointing how few cute girls were working. The mall is huge, but I could only find that many sixes and above. I basically just marched up to the cute girl in her shop and said, "Hey, my name's C-Note and I'm on my way to an appointment, but I noticed you as I walked by and had to come in an tell you, that I'd love to have a drink with you sometime." I did it even if their coworkers or other customers were standing nearby, because I was curious to see what would happen. In every case, the coworkers and customers would watch with wide eyes and shit-eating grins. Of the ten, nine declined, two of them with negative reactions but the others with a smile and sometimes a compliment, like, "I'm good, but you do look great."

One of the ten was working in a kiosk in the mall concourse. She is a 21 year-old fairly cute girl and was sitting right next to her coworker (who turned out to be her best friend). After I gave my spiel, without hesitation she said, "My name's J and give me your number." I gave her my number and she texted me as I walked away and I responded. I set up a day date for several days later and she drove 20 miles for the meet! We didn't bang, but she has since responded to follow-up texts so she's still a possibility.

Although the returns were low, it was a lot of fun.

Don't get down based off those results. The effort will pay off, you may have hit the mall at a bad time. Personally, holidays is probably a tough time as some local talent is out of town, and females have other things on their mind. I would do the same thing perhaps later this month.

[Heart Break Kid]

Anyone have any tips for Malls in Asia? Mall scene is more urbanized on this side of the world as opposed to suburban, and it is much more common for people to shop in person than online still.

[Fortis]

^ where in Asia are you? I find that Chinese girls are surprisingly open to interactions with people in public. If I'm dressed nicely and smiling I'll often get smiles back and then I can swoop in and grab the wechat super fast.