[almohajem]

So I have been gaming this one girl really hard for around 3 months (yeah, I know). We only dated for 4 times, and only cuddled/teased her a bit.

She now invited me to her home, but I refused because I can get caught by her parents who are very religious and strict. She suggested I rent in her town for a week or so, so we could see each other more. I said I'll see about it.

This girl claims she has "deep", "unmatched" love for me. I know you know this is BS but please bear with me.

1. The girl is 19, seems that she has little experience with sex and it's very likely she is a virgin.

2. she is 7 without makeup but a bit awkward to talk/socialize with.

3. We live in a muslim society.

4. she calls me everyday, sends me messages all day long, buys me gifts (pricey regarding her budget)

I have absolutely no problem fucking her, but I have concerns that she might keep falling in love with me.

The best scenario for me: Fuck her for a while (1-2 years), and then she suddenly lose interest and we cut the relationship.

The scenario that I don't want: I decide to end the relationship, and then she decides to pursue me, my family, or calling my parents, or doing some crazy shit like trying to suicide.

So my question is simple: Given women change their minds easily, how long do you think it'll take to lose interest in me? Is it possible that she doesn't lose interest at all? and keep the same pace of interest for YEARS? Am I exaggerating the bad scenario and should just go and take the opportunity?

[Travesty]

As long as your erection does.

Trick question?

[almohajem]

(02-05-2015 07:43 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

As long as your erection does.

Trick question?

I wouldn't write all that for a trick question. I'm just concerned about her getting attached and maybe doing some crazy shit drama. I might be exaggerating or overthinking this, especially that I have gone the long road of gaming her that much.

She sees me as a marriage material, potential husband and think this "love" should lead to marriage. I'm afraid that my influence might destroy her life.

Again, I might be just way too overthinking this.

[Travesty]

Going really beta, then cheating on her with an ugly chick and throwing it in her face is a surefire way to get rid of this chick after you are done banging her for 1 year. She will dump you and never talk to you due to being pussy parched.

[Euphoric_Breeze]

I think that you live in one of the gulf states . Prior to taking any futher move on the girl ,and assuming that you live in a muslim society ; I suggest :

- You check your country's policies on defloration . You don't wanna be her first and get locked up for a long time or worse stoned to death .

[The Lizard of Oz]

almohajem,

Here is how I feel about these things. If you are the kind of guy that is prone to qualms of this sort, then don't do it.

The dudes who can lie to a girl, use her for what she's worth and dump her are those who never worry about this stuff. And the interesting thing is that ultimately females forgive them, because they sense that they act like predators, just following their nature. So it is ultimately not held against them. The ones that are never forgiven are otherwise decent guys who have convinced themselves to go against their nature and do something slightly sleazy. The female knows instinctively that they were not just taking what is theirs by rights, and it is deeply and bitterly resented.

And unfortunately, you cannot really choose. If you were born a decent and conscientious sort, that is what you are. That does not mean you have to be a simp or a sucker; but it does mean that you cannot go around messing with girls' lives or leading them on, and expect to get away with it. It does make the whole game harder, but that is just reality.

If this girl really is a virgin, from a religious family, and so on, and you are the kind of guy you clearly are, then I think you should follow your instinct and be upfront with her. If you have no intention of marrying her or being very serious with her, then you should let her know that. If she is still interested in pursuing a sexual relationship with you in the full knowledge that it will not lead to anything serious, then she has made her choice and you can do it, although even then it may not be worth the possible trouble from the family to both you and her, depending on just how strict they are and how violent they can be in response.

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

(02-05-2015 08:13 PM)Euphoric_Breeze Wrote:  

I think that you live in one of the gulf states . Prior to taking any futher move on the girl ,and assuming that you live in a muslim society ; I suggest :

- You check your country's policies on defloration . You don't wanna be her first and get locked up for a long time or worse stoned to death .

According to the OP's profile he's in the United Arab Emirates. I lived in the UAE for a long time and I can tell you he won't get stoned to death or anything of that sort; death sentences there are carried out by firing squad and you can only get sentenced to death for murder, rape, treason, etc. That doesn't make it a completely safe situation however, sex outside of wedlock is still illegal. I would recommend against having sex with this girl.

[almohajem]

@Euphoric_Breeze
I don't live in the UAE at the moment, but the law isn't strict with consentual sex. Heck, a girl is considered minor if she is less than 13 here. makes me wonder.

@The Lizard of Oz

I'm that guy. Sucks but I'm fine with it, and I prefer to be a sucker rather than a "joke" (in my opinion). I already told the girl that I have no plans in getting married, don't have much feelings for her, and that I'm actively seeing/talking to other girls. (she said she doesn't mind if they are pretty, confirming Travesty444 and the general red pill sense).

btw: I told her to tell her mother about our "relation". her mother told her to be cautious that this particular guy might be well using you to make you fall for sex. she said her mother is a freak.

I think I'll try to escalate and do anal/bj for a while. Or who knows, maybe she is not a virgin to begin with.

[bewater]

If you are in muslim country maybe her views are different and wants all that shit with marriage and kids, it's kinda like it was in Eastern Europe 20-30 years ago...but she's still a women.

But as from my experience, the girl will certainly fall out of love when you become beta. I have 2 personal examples with that. One with my ex and one with a girl who had a big crush on me for 2 years while she had a bf. Both got away after I started to act beta.

Like this shit is outer space. If you treat them well, you care about them and act like they want...they break up with you on the slightest argument. If you treat them bad, act alpha, aloof, talk to other girls.........you can do so many shit, she might won't talk to you a few hours, max days, but she will get back to you.

[Aliblahba]

She's Muslim? Fuck her in the ass and be done with it.

[almohajem]

Thanks for the answers. I have two other questions:

1. If she sees me as marriage material, does that mean that she sees me as a beta provider.

2. we are planning another date tomorrow to discuss logistics for me (will be renting a place a few days near her place). Is it a better idea to aggressively escalate sexually (like touching her breasts, or trying to reach her pussy), or not doing anything (after all I don't have a place to complete the bang, and banging on car is too risky). Which is better at the moment?