I have been reading this forum for a long time, and finally feel like I can make a contribution and give something back. This post is about how a newbie managed to rack up a lot of notches and keep a revolving harem of cute-to-hot girls over a 16-month period in Accra, Ghana. This is not in any way something to brag about, rather the point of the post is to demonstrate that such a thing is possible even for people who are new to game and mediocre at best when it comes to looks, style, and paper. African Game is basically game with training wheels on, one could even say a kind of Special Olympics of game. This is why I think Africa should be considered a legit alternative to Eastern Enrope, Southeast Asia, and Latin America for the purposes of learning game and love tourism. (I post here rather than in the Travel forum because this post is basically about my experiences gaming, and not a destination guide. I can crank out a datasheet for Accra later if people are interested).
I say "African Game" because even though I basically stayed in Ghana the whole time, I also gamed a lot of girls from other African countries, especially from Nigeria and Liberia, but also from Guinea, Ivory Coast, Togo, Benin*, Cameroon, Congo-Brazzaville (flags), Burkina Faso, Niger, Gabon (no bang), Sierra Leone, and Senegal (passed on banging in the end). There are some minor differences between the various nationalities, but they are not so big that I will go into it here.
As for me, I am tall and white but have few other obvious advantages in the sexual market - below average facial symmetry, overweight and out of shape, past 40, little money, etc. I would put my SMV at 4 in a Western context. The white god factor is very high in West Africa, however, you do not have to be white to clean up. In fact, from my observations it was obvious that any normal guy with the balls to approach and a minimum of swagger, storytelling ability or money could get laid on the reg with attractive women. Nevertheless, being a foreigner is a kind of superpower, especially if you are white or black. You can add a number of points to your SMV, dependent on your background (simplification alert):
White: 4 points
Black and Western: 3 points
Black and African, but have spent many years "outside": 2 points
Other foreigners: 1 point. Even Chinese and Indian guys, although generally despised, can sometimes be seen with quite decent girls.
What does this mean in practice? In my case - a 4, remember - it meant a steady poosy stream of young girls in the 6 - 8 range, in all, more than 50 girls, most of them multiple times and quite a few as regulars for several months. I compared my 2014 stats with the summaries of luminaries like Krauser and Kaotic, and I actually did better in terms of quantity and only slightly worse in quality than them. By contrast, I had only ever banged ONE girl above a 5 before coming to Africa. It was incredible, life-changing. I could barely believe my eyes and my dick as I entered young, pretty girls with perfect bodies. Location, location, location.
African girls are very approachable. They are taught from an early age that it is natural for men to approach women, and they will treat you with respect almost regardless of your age, status, looks, etc, (It is not considered normal for women to approach men. If a girl approaches you, she is most likely a prostitute or a nutcase.) African girls are easy to talk to and won't try to shame or humiliate you for saying hi. They also give out their number very freely, I can only remember a handful of times when I told a girl to give me hers and she refused.
That being said, it does get more tricky after the number-close. If you have not built enough rapport, they will most likely not pick up the phone, or tell you that they will be ready for a date when they are "free," or flake on the date. They are notoriously flaky and virtually always late if they happen to show up, often several hours late (this is normal in Africa). They will shit-test vigorously, especially girls 8 and up who are approached constantly or 5s who rightly suspect that you see them only as pump-and-dump material. They can have strong anti-slut defenses, meaning you have to spend a lot of time building comfort. You frequently have to battle LMR as well; this is one area in particular where this forum has helped me understand how women work and in many cases equipped me with the knowledge I needed to bang a girl or at least reduce the TTB (time to bang). What all this means is that going after one specific girl may very well be difficult and frustrating. The smart play, then, is to take advantage of the unparalleled ease of approaching and getting numbers to make it a numbers game. Your conversion rate doesn't even have to be very high, and keep in mind that most of the girls will also be coming back for more if you want them to.
In order to understand why they tend to come back, you have to understand what I would call the African, or at least Ghanaian, "theory of sex." In principle, there is no such thing as casual sex according to this theory. It states that men like sex more than women, so that women can only be induced to have sex with money or commitment. In other words, if you sleep with a girl who is not a prostitute, she more or less automatically becomes your girlfriend, and will even refer to herself as your "fiancee" or "wife." Scary shit, I know, and you will even find that many girls ask "are you going to marry me?" as a combination shit-test and LMR-tactic, often seconds before the bang. You have to learn to ignore this nonsense and treat is as a mere formality. There is no need to agree and amplify, just say yes and assume that it is ASD and not a serious question.
It is not a good idea to have sex with a girl the same day you meet her. This is perhaps a shocking statement, but a one-night stand will far too often turn out to be a pro. Any late-night bar or club approach should feature a brief interrogation to ascertain whether or not the target is there to sell sex. Even if she denies it, she might try to charge you in the morning, under duress, or she might be a semipro who is either hoping you will "dash" her some money in the morning or possibly become her husband. Either way, you are basically shoring, which I know some people see as a triumph but in my opinion is much better avoided. HIV is less prevalent in Ghana than most other countries in Africa, but very common among prostitutes. In addition, the pros are often fucked-up in the head and/or connected to drug dealers and other thugs. I largely transitioned from night game to day game because there are just too many whores in the bars and clubs.
Even if you are "dating" a girl, or just fucking her regularly, there will still be an expectation of resource transfer, and more often than not this will be straight up cash for "transportation" or "chop money" (money for food). To the African mind, this has nothing to do with prostitution, it is just the way the world works. The man provides money, the woman cooks, cleans, and puts out. Beware that some girls have one guy they are fucking while entertaining numerous suitors, supplicants, and orbiters who are showering them with attention, praise, gifts, and money with no real prospect of ever getting anywhere. Don't be that sucker. On the other hand, there is also not a need to be a dick and never give them anything. Consider that the girl who just gave you a blowjob and washed all your clothes by hand makes 50 bucks a month trying to stay out of prostitution because of her pride, morals, and religious beliefs. Giving her 10 - 15 bucks for a taxi, some call time and a decent meal won't make you a beta loser. In the very rare case that a girl has her own money you don't have to give her cash, but you still have to expect to pay her way anywhere you go. There are of course girls who will refuse money or even buy you things, but don't hold your breath.
Alpha fucks, beta bucks is to some extent a valid presentation of sexual realities in Africa as well. However, the window for alpha fucks is in most cases much more limited, essentially to the periods just before and after high school graduation. At this time they will often date guys their own age, classmates, etc., and they are very difficult to get to for people outside relevant social circles. Essentially girls 18 - 21 are still seen as children by the powerful elders and cannot go out and meet men. If you prefer girls that age you might have a difficult time, possible solutions include online game if you are young and attractive, or girls with daddy issues if you are older (the issue often being that the dad is dead).
Girls aged 22-24 are a different story. These girls are old enough to go out and to date openly, while at the same time being at the peak of their fertility and beauty. Needless to say, they are the most sought after of all, making them especially difficult and spoiled by African standards. In the beginning these girls were my bread and butter, but over time I got a little frustrated and included more girls 25-29. These girls can show tremendous devotion and loyalty to you, and treat you like a king in every respect. They are also more realistic about men seeing other girls than the young and naive (in general, African girls are quite jealous, but at the same time they fully expect you to cheat and will more or less always forgive you). Unfortunately, they will also beg you to marry and impregnate them. In addition, as Roosh has pointed out in the case of EE women in this age group, there is usually a reason why they are not yet married. Too often they are damaged in some way, often because of the men they have unwisely dated. It is also worth noting that in Africa rape culture is a real thing rather than a rhetorical device, and that a vast percentage of women have been raped or otherwise fucked over in sick ways. The same thing goes for women over 30, but to an even greater extent. I didn't game the over-30 girls much; when I did it was either extremely easy or hopeless.
I have forgotten to say something about the quality of the women. Almost all African girls perform heavy manual labor from a very early age, meaning that most young girls are slim, fit and strong. Their bodies are, for the most part, amazing, especially the asses. Virtually every African girl has a spectacular ass. The breasts are more variable. Although I got to fondle some that were very nice, there was also a tendency for sagginess (even among the young), push-up bras that promised more than they could keep, and too many cases where the disproportion between tits and ass was a little jarring. Faces were most often the disqualifying feature, typical problems being bad skin or fucked-up teeth - I don't think I ever saw anyone with braces the whole time I was there. There were several occasions where I encountered the difficult dilemma of a girl with a stunning body but a diastema so big she whistled when she talked, or something like that. Overall, there are many beautiful, sexy girls in Africa, but perhaps due to poverty 9s are relatively rare outside elite venues.
The sex is not the same wild, perverted monkey sex I used to have with fatties and uglies in Europe and America. Remember that African women are not really supposed to like sex, and especially not deviancy like anal and threesomes. Some will even show reluctance to suck your dick (and will often refuse to do so as a punishment for fucking other girls, even if they still let you fuck them). I prefer having normal sex with a beautiful girl with a great body to having kinky sex with a fugly, but it is something to keep in mind. Nigerians and Liberians tended to be less uptight than Ghanaians. As to the question of African girls having bigger pussies, I cannot give a definitive answer. There is certainly a great deal of variation, but it is worth pointing out that Kegel exercises are generally unknown. Since many girls have an oops-kid in their early twenties, this is bad news if you like it tight.
They expect little of white men in bed, especially someone who is not young and fit. Especially towards the end several of the girls were shocked by the way I fucked their brains out, and kept going on and on about it. They didn't think a white guy could be "strong" or have a "strong dick" (admittedly, by this time I had had a lot of practice and gained access to incredibly cheap sildenafil). However, don't think you can match the sheer aggression and brutality of many African men. At any rate, it is not what the girls want. They have no welfare state to lean on, and crave security and stability more than any thing else. They prefer older men because they think they lie and cheat less, have more money and spend it more wisely, and because they are less interested in sex (young African men are always described as sex maniacs). Basically, white men are popular for the same reasons. I know, it sounds beta. But be very aware that you can never show any sign of weakness. They will pounce on you, ridicule you and start a relentless regimen of shit-testing. "Haha! When you smile, you look like a girl." Don't think that African girls are submissive and pliant They can in fact be quite bitchy, although fortunately I have learned enough from this forum to next anyone exhibiting a domineering personality.
I have a lot more I could tell you, but this first post is getting long. There are of course many downsides to living in Africa which make it a real challenge. However, if you want to apply the concept of geo-arbitrage to game and quickly elevate your SMV, there are probably few places where you can do better, especially if you are white or black.
I say "African Game" because even though I basically stayed in Ghana the whole time, I also gamed a lot of girls from other African countries, especially from Nigeria and Liberia, but also from Guinea, Ivory Coast, Togo, Benin*, Cameroon, Congo-Brazzaville (flags), Burkina Faso, Niger, Gabon (no bang), Sierra Leone, and Senegal (passed on banging in the end). There are some minor differences between the various nationalities, but they are not so big that I will go into it here.
As for me, I am tall and white but have few other obvious advantages in the sexual market - below average facial symmetry, overweight and out of shape, past 40, little money, etc. I would put my SMV at 4 in a Western context. The white god factor is very high in West Africa, however, you do not have to be white to clean up. In fact, from my observations it was obvious that any normal guy with the balls to approach and a minimum of swagger, storytelling ability or money could get laid on the reg with attractive women. Nevertheless, being a foreigner is a kind of superpower, especially if you are white or black. You can add a number of points to your SMV, dependent on your background (simplification alert):
White: 4 points
Black and Western: 3 points
Black and African, but have spent many years "outside": 2 points
Other foreigners: 1 point. Even Chinese and Indian guys, although generally despised, can sometimes be seen with quite decent girls.
What does this mean in practice? In my case - a 4, remember - it meant a steady poosy stream of young girls in the 6 - 8 range, in all, more than 50 girls, most of them multiple times and quite a few as regulars for several months. I compared my 2014 stats with the summaries of luminaries like Krauser and Kaotic, and I actually did better in terms of quantity and only slightly worse in quality than them. By contrast, I had only ever banged ONE girl above a 5 before coming to Africa. It was incredible, life-changing. I could barely believe my eyes and my dick as I entered young, pretty girls with perfect bodies. Location, location, location.
African girls are very approachable. They are taught from an early age that it is natural for men to approach women, and they will treat you with respect almost regardless of your age, status, looks, etc, (It is not considered normal for women to approach men. If a girl approaches you, she is most likely a prostitute or a nutcase.) African girls are easy to talk to and won't try to shame or humiliate you for saying hi. They also give out their number very freely, I can only remember a handful of times when I told a girl to give me hers and she refused.
That being said, it does get more tricky after the number-close. If you have not built enough rapport, they will most likely not pick up the phone, or tell you that they will be ready for a date when they are "free," or flake on the date. They are notoriously flaky and virtually always late if they happen to show up, often several hours late (this is normal in Africa). They will shit-test vigorously, especially girls 8 and up who are approached constantly or 5s who rightly suspect that you see them only as pump-and-dump material. They can have strong anti-slut defenses, meaning you have to spend a lot of time building comfort. You frequently have to battle LMR as well; this is one area in particular where this forum has helped me understand how women work and in many cases equipped me with the knowledge I needed to bang a girl or at least reduce the TTB (time to bang). What all this means is that going after one specific girl may very well be difficult and frustrating. The smart play, then, is to take advantage of the unparalleled ease of approaching and getting numbers to make it a numbers game. Your conversion rate doesn't even have to be very high, and keep in mind that most of the girls will also be coming back for more if you want them to.
In order to understand why they tend to come back, you have to understand what I would call the African, or at least Ghanaian, "theory of sex." In principle, there is no such thing as casual sex according to this theory. It states that men like sex more than women, so that women can only be induced to have sex with money or commitment. In other words, if you sleep with a girl who is not a prostitute, she more or less automatically becomes your girlfriend, and will even refer to herself as your "fiancee" or "wife." Scary shit, I know, and you will even find that many girls ask "are you going to marry me?" as a combination shit-test and LMR-tactic, often seconds before the bang. You have to learn to ignore this nonsense and treat is as a mere formality. There is no need to agree and amplify, just say yes and assume that it is ASD and not a serious question.
It is not a good idea to have sex with a girl the same day you meet her. This is perhaps a shocking statement, but a one-night stand will far too often turn out to be a pro. Any late-night bar or club approach should feature a brief interrogation to ascertain whether or not the target is there to sell sex. Even if she denies it, she might try to charge you in the morning, under duress, or she might be a semipro who is either hoping you will "dash" her some money in the morning or possibly become her husband. Either way, you are basically shoring, which I know some people see as a triumph but in my opinion is much better avoided. HIV is less prevalent in Ghana than most other countries in Africa, but very common among prostitutes. In addition, the pros are often fucked-up in the head and/or connected to drug dealers and other thugs. I largely transitioned from night game to day game because there are just too many whores in the bars and clubs.
Even if you are "dating" a girl, or just fucking her regularly, there will still be an expectation of resource transfer, and more often than not this will be straight up cash for "transportation" or "chop money" (money for food). To the African mind, this has nothing to do with prostitution, it is just the way the world works. The man provides money, the woman cooks, cleans, and puts out. Beware that some girls have one guy they are fucking while entertaining numerous suitors, supplicants, and orbiters who are showering them with attention, praise, gifts, and money with no real prospect of ever getting anywhere. Don't be that sucker. On the other hand, there is also not a need to be a dick and never give them anything. Consider that the girl who just gave you a blowjob and washed all your clothes by hand makes 50 bucks a month trying to stay out of prostitution because of her pride, morals, and religious beliefs. Giving her 10 - 15 bucks for a taxi, some call time and a decent meal won't make you a beta loser. In the very rare case that a girl has her own money you don't have to give her cash, but you still have to expect to pay her way anywhere you go. There are of course girls who will refuse money or even buy you things, but don't hold your breath.
Alpha fucks, beta bucks is to some extent a valid presentation of sexual realities in Africa as well. However, the window for alpha fucks is in most cases much more limited, essentially to the periods just before and after high school graduation. At this time they will often date guys their own age, classmates, etc., and they are very difficult to get to for people outside relevant social circles. Essentially girls 18 - 21 are still seen as children by the powerful elders and cannot go out and meet men. If you prefer girls that age you might have a difficult time, possible solutions include online game if you are young and attractive, or girls with daddy issues if you are older (the issue often being that the dad is dead).
Girls aged 22-24 are a different story. These girls are old enough to go out and to date openly, while at the same time being at the peak of their fertility and beauty. Needless to say, they are the most sought after of all, making them especially difficult and spoiled by African standards. In the beginning these girls were my bread and butter, but over time I got a little frustrated and included more girls 25-29. These girls can show tremendous devotion and loyalty to you, and treat you like a king in every respect. They are also more realistic about men seeing other girls than the young and naive (in general, African girls are quite jealous, but at the same time they fully expect you to cheat and will more or less always forgive you). Unfortunately, they will also beg you to marry and impregnate them. In addition, as Roosh has pointed out in the case of EE women in this age group, there is usually a reason why they are not yet married. Too often they are damaged in some way, often because of the men they have unwisely dated. It is also worth noting that in Africa rape culture is a real thing rather than a rhetorical device, and that a vast percentage of women have been raped or otherwise fucked over in sick ways. The same thing goes for women over 30, but to an even greater extent. I didn't game the over-30 girls much; when I did it was either extremely easy or hopeless.
I have forgotten to say something about the quality of the women. Almost all African girls perform heavy manual labor from a very early age, meaning that most young girls are slim, fit and strong. Their bodies are, for the most part, amazing, especially the asses. Virtually every African girl has a spectacular ass. The breasts are more variable. Although I got to fondle some that were very nice, there was also a tendency for sagginess (even among the young), push-up bras that promised more than they could keep, and too many cases where the disproportion between tits and ass was a little jarring. Faces were most often the disqualifying feature, typical problems being bad skin or fucked-up teeth - I don't think I ever saw anyone with braces the whole time I was there. There were several occasions where I encountered the difficult dilemma of a girl with a stunning body but a diastema so big she whistled when she talked, or something like that. Overall, there are many beautiful, sexy girls in Africa, but perhaps due to poverty 9s are relatively rare outside elite venues.
The sex is not the same wild, perverted monkey sex I used to have with fatties and uglies in Europe and America. Remember that African women are not really supposed to like sex, and especially not deviancy like anal and threesomes. Some will even show reluctance to suck your dick (and will often refuse to do so as a punishment for fucking other girls, even if they still let you fuck them). I prefer having normal sex with a beautiful girl with a great body to having kinky sex with a fugly, but it is something to keep in mind. Nigerians and Liberians tended to be less uptight than Ghanaians. As to the question of African girls having bigger pussies, I cannot give a definitive answer. There is certainly a great deal of variation, but it is worth pointing out that Kegel exercises are generally unknown. Since many girls have an oops-kid in their early twenties, this is bad news if you like it tight.
They expect little of white men in bed, especially someone who is not young and fit. Especially towards the end several of the girls were shocked by the way I fucked their brains out, and kept going on and on about it. They didn't think a white guy could be "strong" or have a "strong dick" (admittedly, by this time I had had a lot of practice and gained access to incredibly cheap sildenafil). However, don't think you can match the sheer aggression and brutality of many African men. At any rate, it is not what the girls want. They have no welfare state to lean on, and crave security and stability more than any thing else. They prefer older men because they think they lie and cheat less, have more money and spend it more wisely, and because they are less interested in sex (young African men are always described as sex maniacs). Basically, white men are popular for the same reasons. I know, it sounds beta. But be very aware that you can never show any sign of weakness. They will pounce on you, ridicule you and start a relentless regimen of shit-testing. "Haha! When you smile, you look like a girl." Don't think that African girls are submissive and pliant They can in fact be quite bitchy, although fortunately I have learned enough from this forum to next anyone exhibiting a domineering personality.
I have a lot more I could tell you, but this first post is getting long. There are of course many downsides to living in Africa which make it a real challenge. However, if you want to apply the concept of geo-arbitrage to game and quickly elevate your SMV, there are probably few places where you can do better, especially if you are white or black.
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