[bud heavy]

(12-12-2018 08:45 AM)purple18 Wrote:  

I'm only a couple days in here, but I could much more easily score a quality date with a born woman (ladyboys EVERYWHERE) in the USA than I can in Cebu.

Mid 30s, and I slay on Bumble/Tinder back home with quality women a decade younger than me, easily. More than I could possibly have time for. Always have had pretty girlfriends. I'm relatively wealthy, tall, and classically attractive. I can get dozens of first messages in a day on Bumble. I thought it would be absurd coming here, but I can't even find people with vaginas here without paying. Could have infinite dates with ladyboys. 0/10 so far. It's a hit to the ol' ego for sure which was pretty strong based on my western world success.

Is everyone in the Philippines born a man? Should I get over the ladyboy thing and embrace the fact I can have basically infinite prostate orgasms? (a whole other topic very, very, VERY, VERY!!!!!!!!(!!!++++!!!+!+!) much worth discussing)

Unfortunately sir ur a incel life forever now. Better just fuck those ladyboys since that all you can get. and try to be happy about it too u know

[purple18]

(12-12-2018 09:02 AM)bud heavy Wrote:  

(12-12-2018 08:45 AM)purple18 Wrote:  

I'm only a couple days in here, but I could much more easily score a quality date with a born woman (ladyboys EVERYWHERE) in the USA than I can in Cebu.

Mid 30s, and I slay on Bumble/Tinder back home with quality women a decade younger than me, easily. More than I could possibly have time for. Always have had pretty girlfriends. I'm relatively wealthy, tall, and classically attractive. I can get dozens of first messages in a day on Bumble. I thought it would be absurd coming here, but I can't even find people with vaginas here without paying. Could have infinite dates with ladyboys. 0/10 so far. It's a hit to the ol' ego for sure which was pretty strong based on my western world success.

Is everyone in the Philippines born a man? Should I get over the ladyboy thing and embrace the fact I can have basically infinite prostate orgasms? (a whole other topic very, very, VERY, VERY!!!!!!!!(!!!++++!!!+!+!) much worth discussing)

Unfortunately sir ur a incel life forever now. Better just fuck those ladyboys since that all you can get. and try to be happy about it too u know

Well, no. I can always go home and call my two FWBs. Or call up my beautiful ex who would take me back in a second. Or any of dozens of women who message me first on dating apps. Which is why I'm bewildered at how badly I am doing so far. For me so far I can't even find real women, at least on Tinder. I'm not being turned down, rather I cant find suitable prospects who don't surprise me with "I'm trans btw" right before we meet.

[bud heavy]

It's good that you rely on tinder exclusively in a city of over 1m with tons of girl in the late teens and twenties. Sounds like winning strategie friend

[purple18]

(12-12-2018 10:01 AM)bud heavy Wrote:  

It's good that you rely on tinder exclusively in a city of over 1m with tons of girl in the late teens and twenties. Sounds like winning strategie friend

It's always worked for me before, even in places where it's supposedly a lot more difficult to get a date. I had more than I could ever handle in places all over Latin America and the Caribbean, even with a language barrier.

I get a pile of likes, responses, etc too. They just all wind up being ladyboys in the end. Or respond super slow, live 50 miles away, etc.

[Il Bersagliere]

(12-11-2018 07:42 PM)reekayinasia Wrote:  

(02-03-2015 06:44 AM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  

(02-03-2015 06:29 AM)RawGod Wrote:  

I've watched a few of this guy's YouTube videos. Picture is apparently with his current girlfriend. He's over 50, maybe 5'5", has a paunch and is non-white (he could pass for Filipino although he's probably Hispanic). He's not wealthy and dresses like a slob. What kind of women do you think he'd get in the States? In the Philippines he's able to date cute girls 25 years younger.

He has some kind of Game, looks fine for his age, he is basically an American regardless of his heritage - for Filipino standards he is solid upper middle class - essentially he almost retired there - also he expands to provider Game. If you do that then other factors come to play with women - you don't need to be the hottest bastard and get the pussy gushing - she will marry you and find you reasonably attractive. Also note his creative business model - he already has 9 patrons dishing out 65$/month each to finance his lifestyle - hehe. It's not much, but it goes much further there. https://www.patreon.com/reekay

Here he meets the parents - dad of his girl being around his age, but looks more used. Also you note that the parents don't mind, since the guy wants a relationship and is no pump-and-dump schemer. If the guy tried running short-term tingle-focused r-selected Game, then it would be more difficult. Your points are valid though - it's very very very unlikely that he would get any girl as hot as that in the US - neither short-term nor long-term.

SNIP

So if you are dating multimillionaires in the Philippines, Reekay, why are you leaving?

You aren't being completely forthcoming here about your background and I, for one, know better.

Your reputation precedes you.

[reekayinasia]

Quote:

So if you are dating multimillionaires in the Philippines, Reekay, why are you leaving?

You aren't being completely forthcoming here about your background and I, for one, know better.

Your reputation precedes you.

See, this is what happens when you listen to unfounded gossip. You get totally duped into making wrong statements like you just did.

I dated the first wealthy Filipina from 2009 into early 2013. The only reason we didn't finally get married is that her separated husband became terminally ill and she let him back in the house to care for him until he passed away 4 years later. by that time we'd decided to go our own ways.

The 2nd wealthy woman (a) has not completed her annulment and (b) has 2 kids. The kid issue is a deal-breaker for me so, we stayed at good friends.

And neither of these instances have ANYTHING to do with me leaving the PH. I'm interested in seeing more of Southeast Asia. It's as simple as that.

So, the answer is, "No. You don't know better." You know whatever 3rd-hand gossip you got from people who obviously have either no clue about my life or have some grudge to forward that you blindly believed, hook-line-and-sinker.

Anyone who wants direct info, from me personally, about my future travels can hear it for themselves here; Going Beyond the Philippines

[Il Bersagliere]

(12-12-2018 06:45 PM)reekayinasia Wrote:  

Quote:

So if you are dating multimillionaires in the Philippines, Reekay, why are you leaving?

You aren't being completely forthcoming here about your background and I, for one, know better.

Your reputation precedes you.

See, this is what happens when you listen to unfounded gossip. You get totally wrong conclusions.

I dated the first wealthy Filipina from 2009 into early 2013. The only reason we didn't finally get married is that her separated husband became terminally ill and she let him back in the house to care for him until he passed away 4 years later. by that time we'd decided to go our own ways.

The 2nd wealthy woman (a) has not completed her annulment and (b) has 2 kids. The kid issue is a deal-breaker for me so, we stayed at good friends.

And neither of these instances have ANYTHING to do with me leaving the PH. I'm interested in seeing more of Southeast Asia. It's as simple as that.

So, the answer is, "No. You don't know better." You know whatever 3rd-hand gossip you got from people who obviously have either no clue about my life or have some grudge to forward that you bought, hook-line-and-sinker.

Anyone who wants direct info, from me personally, about my future travels can hear it for themselves here; Going Beyond the Philippines

Everything you write is complete bs and reads like sales copy and you're on a part of the internet where your silver tongue Tony Robbins act isn't going to save you. You are not talking to pinays. You've forgotten that a lot people here aren't just spectators but live in Phils fulltime. And you and I are both acquainted with the same people, a very very tiny group. None of my information is 3rd hand gossip, as you put it.

I'm letting you know this before you start getting excited and shilling your course and channel. I'll leave it at that...for now.

[reekayinasia]

(12-12-2018 07:06 PM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  

(12-12-2018 06:45 PM)reekayinasia Wrote:  

Quote:

So if you are dating multimillionaires in the Philippines, Reekay, why are you leaving?

You aren't being completely forthcoming here about your background and I, for one, know better.

Your reputation precedes you.

See, this is what happens when you listen to unfounded gossip. You get totally wrong conclusions.

I dated the first wealthy Filipina from 2009 into early 2013. The only reason we didn't finally get married is that her separated husband became terminally ill and she let him back in the house to care for him until he passed away 4 years later. by that time we'd decided to go our own ways.

The 2nd wealthy woman (a) has not completed her annulment and (b) has 2 kids. The kid issue is a deal-breaker for me so, we stayed at good friends.

And neither of these instances have ANYTHING to do with me leaving the PH. I'm interested in seeing more of Southeast Asia. It's as simple as that.

So, the answer is, "No. You don't know better." You know whatever 3rd-hand gossip you got from people who obviously have either no clue about my life or have some grudge to forward that you bought, hook-line-and-sinker.

Anyone who wants direct info, from me personally, about my future travels can hear it for themselves here; Going Beyond the Philippines

Everything you write is complete bs and reads like sales copy and you're on a part of the internet where your silver tongue Tony Robbins act isn't going to save you. You are not talking to pinays. You've forgotten that a lot people here aren't just spectators but live in Phils fulltime. And you and I are both acquainted with the same people, a very very tiny group. None of my information is 3rd hand gossip, as you put it.

I'm letting you know this before you start getting excited and shilling your course and channel. I'll leave it at that...for now.

Hey.. you're free to consider gossip as 'information' all you want. It doesn't change reality at all. The more you focus on it, the more misinformed you'll remain.

Bottom-line, while you're busy getting your panties into a twist over fake stories about my life... I'll be busy actually having a life.

[Killarmy]

(12-11-2018 07:42 PM)reekayinasia Wrote:  

(02-03-2015 06:44 AM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  

(02-03-2015 06:29 AM)RawGod Wrote:  

I've watched a few of this guy's YouTube videos. Picture is apparently with his current girlfriend. He's over 50, maybe 5'5", has a paunch and is non-white (he could pass for Filipino although he's probably Hispanic). He's not wealthy and dresses like a slob. What kind of women do you think he'd get in the States? In the Philippines he's able to date cute girls 25 years younger.

He has some kind of Game, looks fine for his age, he is basically an American regardless of his heritage - for Filipino standards he is solid upper middle class - essentially he almost retired there - also he expands to provider Game. If you do that then other factors come to play with women - you don't need to be the hottest bastard and get the pussy gushing - she will marry you and find you reasonably attractive. Also note his creative business model - he already has 9 patrons dishing out 65$/month each to finance his lifestyle - hehe. It's not much, but it goes much further there. https://www.patreon.com/reekay

Here he meets the parents - dad of his girl being around his age, but looks more used. Also you note that the parents don't mind, since the guy wants a relationship and is no pump-and-dump schemer. If the guy tried running short-term tingle-focused r-selected Game, then it would be more difficult. Your points are valid though - it's very very very unlikely that he would get any girl as hot as that in the US - neither short-term nor long-term.

A friend of mine mentioned that I'd been mentioned here so I figured I'd give some more background to the situation in the PH.

I've lived in the PH for 6 years now. Had 3 major, meaningful relationships. (2 of which were for over 2 years each.) The g/f in the video here is Lyn. An amazing, wonderful woman (age 21 when we met, 25 now) who is as true-blue a woman a man could ever want or hope to meet in a lifetime. However, I decided to part ways and she then found a good-guy she's been happy with the last 2 years.

In response to other items, I see myself as an American. 3rd generation American, in fact. (a 'mexican-american is a person who comes from mexico and 'gains' citizenship) But yes, in the PH, we 'foreigners' are seen as good-providers with a stable income. What kind of women would I get in the States? Very simple; the kind of women I do not want.

I don't want a woman my age who comes with massive emotional baggage and a list of demands so that I can have the opportunity to treat her as my 'queen'. I don't want a woman who says 'No' more than 'Yes' when it comes to sex.

Could I get a younger, hot woman in the USA, California to be precise. It would take a LOT of searching but I could eventually find one. But she'd still be infected with a western mindset that doesn't come close to the wonderful playfulness and joy I easily find with Filipinas. So.. 'american woman.. get away from me'. (to quote lenny kravitz)

As for 'game', I'm not as rich as some of my buddies so I've always had to rely on this thing called, 'Personality'. It's amazing what comes your way when you can make a woman smile, laugh and feel good about herself and her goals. I've dated 2 women in the PH, one of them for over 3 years and she was was wealthy enough to give me her Mercedes for a year while flying to USA every 3 months to spend time with me. (not your average filipina) The last wealthy Filipina I dated, about 2 months ago, is a multi-millionaire (in USD, not pesos), who owns her own resort, string of homes, travel agencies and an import/export business that sells everything from jewelry to motorcycle internationally.

I mention this because not every Filipina is out for our money and not every Filipina is poor and desperate. Many are, true. But the ones who have their own money, what they want from a man is a genuine personality. They already have money.

The Patreon site has 2 focuses;
Helping guys find a good woman among all the bad ones. (Marriage Minded Expats)
Helping guys stay out of trouble being a 'chixboy'. (Committed Bachelors)

It's grown steadily over the last year.

Finally, with regard to the OP on the PH not being what he'd expected...

It doesn't get any easier than the PH. If a guy can't find a solid or flippant relationship in the PH, it's his fault. There are good-girls and bad-girls by the millions there. And they are predisposed to dating older expats. Can't ask for more than that.

I was asked to consult a friend-of-a-friend in Cebu, so I met with him over dinner. I'll admit, the guy was more 'gwapo' than I am. He worked out, blue eyes, blondish hair.. exactly what any Filipina would hope for. Yet he'd spent 3 weeks in various parts of the PH and bemoaned that he STILL hadn't gotten any leads to having a date. (WTH !!!!!!)

After hearing him go on for awhile about how either the women he saw, "weren't his type", "didn't seem friendly enough", "might have a b/f", etc., I finally asked him, "How many Filipinas have you chatted and asked for their phone number?

"None."

The problem wasn't a lack of Filipinas. The problem was not that they are not approachable. The problem is that his own head was cock-blocking him from doing what's needed; Get her phone number... Make the date.

I am NOT exaggerating when I say I've seen guys dragging along an oxygen tank with a hot Filipina on their arm. Anybody... Any-body can find a Filipina for a long or short relationship in the PH. Truly, any guy can do it if he is willing to walk up to a Filipina and say, "Hi." and then chat her up. Problem is, some guys freeze up like they did back home and talk themselves out of talking to her.

So, my position after 3 great relationships and (many) short-term flings between relationships is that if a guy as homely as myself can have constant female companionship in the PH, steadily for 6 years... the only guys not able to do that are in fact the guys not getting their game together.

But for anybody willing to break the ice with these women, the PH has only the potential problem of having too-many women to manage in a week.

Living in Cebu City for a few months.
This is the best post I have ever seen regarding PH since I am in Rooshv, no more no less. Cheers man

@purple18
To be honest, there is NO way you are not a troll. But if a miracle makes you being actually serious then... wow. lol

[purple18]

@purple18
To be honest, there is NO way you are not a troll. But if a miracle makes you being actually serious then... wow. lol

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Not a troll, but I feel like I am one in Cebu. It's like an invisibility cloak - no eye contact from girls, shopkeepers and such are noticeably less friendly to me than they are back in the USA. Zero friendliness, not even a simple thank you after I bought something. In Chicago I often remark to friends how people will go out of their way to ask me for directions, ask me if I need help in a store, etc. I get lots of eye contact just on the street in the USA. I feel like a lamppost walking down the street here. I do get little kids begging for money and the occasional guy trying to sell me something. That's it. Meanwhile I see guys who are in much worse shape with pretty girls.

I get lots of Tinder matches but like I said earlier - most turn out to be ladyboys and the rest live 50+ miles away or respond so slowly that it's pretty impossible to make plans to meet.

I totally agree with the notion that coming here won't make you amazing if you have zero game back home. But I never imagined I would find it harder here than anywhere else I have ever been except Egypt. I can show up in any major American city and have a date that night...I know, because I've done it with my job. In the DR and Puerto Rico and stuff I was literally running from date to date and my phone blowing up. Here...crickets.

Perhaps I'm too reliant on online game but people say on this forum and elsewhere it works here. Works everywhere else in the world for me. My cold approach skills are not great because I never have to use them in the USA, because I've always got plenty from other sources. What do you guys use as an opener here?

[Vladimir Poontang]

If anyone has any accusation or criticism towards Reekay, say it. Otherwise stop wasting everyone's time with innuendos. If you want to engage in that kind of thing, start your own forum for women.

[Il Bersagliere]

(12-13-2018 07:34 AM)Vladimir Poontang Wrote:  

If anyone has any accusation or criticism towards Reekay, say it. Otherwise stop wasting everyone's time with innuendos. If you want to engage in that kind of thing, start your own forum for women.

Why don't you get down and suck his dick while you're at it?

Have you even been to the Philippines before? All I see are your autistic ass posts.

[Poo Poo Pumper]

Is that an actual photo of reekay??
He’s an ugly fat bald boomer?
God.

That makes his post completely pointless.
No comparison to hot types of pinays most RVF guys will be after.

The Mercedes thing was my first clue.
The pic proves it.
He’s talking about post wall Pinays.

We might as well discuss the latest marvel movie.
Not interested in that bullshit.
Oh but for you boomers yeah it’s great.
Eat it up.

Purple are you by chance a sun ravaged boomer too?

[Vladimir Poontang]

(12-13-2018 07:40 AM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  

(12-13-2018 07:34 AM)Vladimir Poontang Wrote:  

If anyone has any accusation or criticism towards Reekay, say it. Otherwise stop wasting everyone's time with innuendos. If you want to engage in that kind of thing, start your own forum for women.

Why don't you get down and suck his dick while you're at it?

Have you even been to the Philippines before? All I see are your autistic ass posts.

Well I wasn't expecting such a mature response. Please, tell me more.

[RodStewart420]

(12-12-2018 07:06 PM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  

Everything you write is complete bs and reads like sales copy and you're on a part of the internet where your silver tongue Tony Robbins act isn't going to save you.

(12-12-2018 08:38 PM)reekayinasia Wrote:  

while you're busy getting your panties into a twist over fake stories about my life... I'll be busy actually having a life.

Come on now amerimutts be nice to each other

[Killarmy]

(12-12-2018 11:34 PM)purple18 Wrote:  

@purple18
To be honest, there is NO way you are not a troll. But if a miracle makes you being actually serious then... wow. lol

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Not a troll, but I feel like I am one in Cebu. It's like an invisibility cloak - no eye contact from girls, shopkeepers and such are noticeably less friendly to me than they are back in the USA. Zero friendliness, not even a simple thank you after I bought something. In Chicago I often remark to friends how people will go out of their way to ask me for directions, ask me if I need help in a store, etc. I get lots of eye contact just on the street in the USA. I feel like a lamppost walking down the street here. I do get little kids begging for money and the occasional guy trying to sell me something. That's it. Meanwhile I see guys who are in much worse shape with pretty girls.

I get lots of Tinder matches but like I said earlier - most turn out to be ladyboys and the rest live 50+ miles away or respond so slowly that it's pretty impossible to make plans to meet.

I totally agree with the notion that coming here won't make you amazing if you have zero game back home. But I never imagined I would find it harder here than anywhere else I have ever been except Egypt. I can show up in any major American city and have a date that night...I know, because I've done it with my job. In the DR and Puerto Rico and stuff I was literally running from date to date and my phone blowing up. Here...crickets.

Perhaps I'm too reliant on online game but people say on this forum and elsewhere it works here. Works everywhere else in the world for me. My cold approach skills are not great because I never have to use them in the USA, because I've always got plenty from other sources. What do you guys use as an opener here?

I am still feeling like ''what the fuck''.
So far Cebu has been the easiest place I have ever been although BKK/Kiev/Medellin/Buenos Aires and Rio (the 5 places i lived in the last 3 years) werent that difficult for me either. I did bang more from nightgame than online game though (only used tinder).
I actually now found a regular so probably no much more bangs to come although nightgame is so easy that I never can say no.

So.. yeah, unless you are 50 (+) not taking care of your looks/not fit with personality problems ... there is no reason why Cebu City would be hard for you.

[Tyler White]

(12-12-2018 11:34 PM)purple18 Wrote:  

@purple18
To be honest, there is NO way you are not a troll. But if a miracle makes you being actually serious then... wow. lol

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Not a troll, but I feel like I am one in Cebu. It's like an invisibility cloak - no eye contact from girls, shopkeepers and such are noticeably less friendly to me than they are back in the USA. Zero friendliness, not even a simple thank you after I bought something. In Chicago I often remark to friends how people will go out of their way to ask me for directions, ask me if I need help in a store, etc. I get lots of eye contact just on the street in the USA. I feel like a lamppost walking down the street here. I do get little kids begging for money and the occasional guy trying to sell me something. That's it. Meanwhile I see guys who are in much worse shape with pretty girls.

I get lots of Tinder matches but like I said earlier - most turn out to be ladyboys and the rest live 50+ miles away or respond so slowly that it's pretty impossible to make plans to meet.

I totally agree with the notion that coming here won't make you amazing if you have zero game back home. But I never imagined I would find it harder here than anywhere else I have ever been except Egypt. I can show up in any major American city and have a date that night...I know, because I've done it with my job. In the DR and Puerto Rico and stuff I was literally running from date to date and my phone blowing up. Here...crickets.

Perhaps I'm too reliant on online game but people say on this forum and elsewhere it works here. Works everywhere else in the world for me. My cold approach skills are not great because I never have to use them in the USA, because I've always got plenty from other sources. What do you guys use as an opener here?

Have been a long time lurker, but I just signed up to this forum to tell you that my experiences in the Philippines have been the exact same. Well done.

[Killarmy]

5 different accounts banned in the last 24 hours from the last 10 messages in this Thread.

Damn, this is getting slightly out of control lol. I wouldn't want to be a Moderator lately.

[cyclistfromhell]

(12-12-2018 11:34 PM)purple18 Wrote:  

@purple18

I get lots of Tinder matches but like I said earlier - most turn out to be ladyboys and the rest live 50+ miles away or respond so slowly that it's pretty impossible to make plans to meet.

Perhaps I'm too reliant on online game but people say on this forum and elsewhere it works here. Works everywhere else in the world for me. My cold approach skills are not great because I never have to use them in the USA, because I've always got plenty from other sources. What do you guys use as an opener here?

Honestly you're probably younger and better looking than me but in my experience you just walk up to them in a friendly manner. Don't overthink it. I'm not sure it has anything to do with "game", just go up and start talking to a girl if you're interested in her. What's the worst that could happen? ... she doesn't want to talk or just turns on her heel and walks away. You can handle that, it's not the end of the world. And there are soooo many others who will be delighted to talk to you.

It's kind of like jumping off the high dive -- don't overthink it, just do it and in no time it will become second nature. You don't have to be skeevy "hey baby ..." about it, just totally normal. I think it can be so, so, so much better to meet girls IRL rather than online. For heaven's sake, if it does work out and turn into a real relationship, and somewhat asks, "Wow you guys are a cute couple, how did you meet?" you won't have to say, "Ummmmm, on Date in Asia" ....