I started dating this girl 3 months ago. It was a good time. Lots of common interests, great sex, and I enjoyed her company. We both liked each other, and there was some good chemistry going on. I was seeing her maybe once a week or so, trying to keep things casual.
For the past week or so she had been slower than normal to respond via text and flaked on one of our plans with a bs excuse. I called her out on it and she kept apologizing but my gut told me something was up.
Today, she called me and told me that things need to end. Apparently she reconnected with an ex recently and they decided they wanted to give it another shot and go exclusive. I handled it pretty well, basically saying "Ok thats fine. I had a good time and I wish you the best".
I'm not gonna lie - right now I feel shitty. My ego is bruised. I am upset that another guy was basically chosen over me. I thought we had a good thing going on and now it is gone.
I know the usual advice - spin other plates, hit the gym, etc. I'm actively spinning plates (have accrued 7 new notches since I first met this girl), I'm setting new PRs in the gym constantly. Life is good. What stings about this is that despite routinely dating/banging other girls, I found myself catching feelings for the girl in question and often thinking about her - even while being inside of other girls.
Anyway, I'm going out with my boys and some girls tonight. Should be a good time and I'll prob try to meet up with one of my fuck buddies if I can. Regardless, I have a bad mindset right now, and I really want to get this fixed. I am hoping that this forum can give me some advice to get this shit out of my head and get me back on track. Also just needed to vent a little. Thanks guys
For the past week or so she had been slower than normal to respond via text and flaked on one of our plans with a bs excuse. I called her out on it and she kept apologizing but my gut told me something was up.
Today, she called me and told me that things need to end. Apparently she reconnected with an ex recently and they decided they wanted to give it another shot and go exclusive. I handled it pretty well, basically saying "Ok thats fine. I had a good time and I wish you the best".
I'm not gonna lie - right now I feel shitty. My ego is bruised. I am upset that another guy was basically chosen over me. I thought we had a good thing going on and now it is gone.
I know the usual advice - spin other plates, hit the gym, etc. I'm actively spinning plates (have accrued 7 new notches since I first met this girl), I'm setting new PRs in the gym constantly. Life is good. What stings about this is that despite routinely dating/banging other girls, I found myself catching feelings for the girl in question and often thinking about her - even while being inside of other girls.
Anyway, I'm going out with my boys and some girls tonight. Should be a good time and I'll prob try to meet up with one of my fuck buddies if I can. Regardless, I have a bad mindset right now, and I really want to get this fixed. I am hoping that this forum can give me some advice to get this shit out of my head and get me back on track. Also just needed to vent a little. Thanks guys