I've been experimenting with throwing house parties since 2011, but I was finally in the position to take it seriously this past summer, when for the first time in my life, I not only had my own apartment, but also surplus funds to finance these events.
When I was in university, I went to many house parties, in fact, I lived in two party houses. This datasheet concerns a different type of house party than those typical of the college party scene.
Most college house parties are an opportunity to get drunk with other people. In the USA, where I completed my undergraduate degree, the legal drinking age is 21, which means that college students 20 and younger cannot go out to restaurants, bars and clubs to drink. With the possession and use of alcohol on campus strictly prohibited by my school and two years of on-campus residence required, house parties were one of the few opportunities for freshmen, sophomores and juniors to drink.
Generally, in my experience with such house parties, they were characterized by:![[Image: Girls-In-Bikini-Hot-Tub.jpg]](http://www.mycoloradolife.com/Pictures/Index/Smeeze/Girls-In-Bikini-Hot-Tub.jpg)
The house parties you've seen in movies.
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Reality.
This is not the sort of house party that I discuss in this datasheet.
Rather than a college-esque party, this datasheet is aimed at learning to host a different kind of house party -- type that gets your dick wet. The house party discussed here fits the following characteristics.
A finalized count revealed that 70 people showed up. It was clear that I was the host to all who attended, but being an amateur at house party game, I didn't turn the event into numbers and eventual bangs. Even so, months later attendees were still raving talking about the great food and snacks that I served.
While it was an absolutely blast hosting such a party and being the center of attention as the host, the real possibilities of planning social events in your home didn't become clear to me until more than a month later when I was in Hong Kong.
I was in Hong Kong to get a new visa for mainland China and community guy who I had never met, but communicated with a bit online offered to let me stay in his spare bedroom during my stay, rent free.
We ended up gaming together on many occasions during my two and a half week stay. On my last weekend, we collected a great deal of numbers Friday and Saturday night. My host suggested that we throw a BBQ Sunday afternoon.
Since time was limited for my stay in Hong Kong, I simply invited every girl I'd number closed the last two nights. While only 1/4rd ended up showing up, those that did brought one or two friends, who were mostly attractive young ladies as well.
We invited a couple of game friendly guys as well, so in the end the ratio was 4 attractive guys to 12 attractive ladies and one fat girl who knew her place and spent the whole afternoon in the kitchen washing dishes.
At the party, I was free to mingle from girl to girl. If I got tired of talking to one, I just moved onto another or helped out with BBQing for a bit. As the afternoon wore on, I ended up surrounded by about 5 girls, who competed for my attention as we conversed as a group.
As things were winding down, my friend and host covertly texted me telling me to keep my main target and the friend she'd brought liquored up while he led the rest of the guests back to the ferry.
I kept them occupied with wine until he returned, at which point he invited the friend into the kitchen to "help him clean up."
I made out with my target in the living room, while her friend pulled down my buddy's pants in the kitchen and sucked his dick.
Things would probably have gone even further if the dick sucker wasn't late to meet some beta she'd agreed to go to dinner with. Poor guy.
While I didn't get laid during that trip to Hong Kong, the potential of the small house party was revealed to me. When I came back to Hong Kong the next summer to get a new visa again, one of the girls I'd met at the party and I ended up making out heavily in a MTR station. I never closed it, but I probably would have if I didn't need to catch a flight back to Tianjin the next morning.
Nevertheless, the thing that stuck out to me was that the girl who'd I'd made out with at the BBQ in February told me that the moment she wanted me was when she realized that the second girl, the one I made out with in July, was competing for my attention. It's no surprise that she was happy to stay behind after everyone else left to "help clean up."
With various jobs, my limited budget and finally the need to spend time finishing up my education each cockblocking me in turn, I didn't get back to the house party game until this past summer.
Since I didn't have tons of cash to spare, I threw just two birthday parties for friends over the summer, followed by a Halloween party in the fall. Every time I threw a party, I got laid.
This is how I did it.
The Venue
If you just want to throw a fun party, the exact setup you have to offer at your apartment or house matters somewhat. If you are looking to get laid, it matters a whole lot more.
We've discussed tips for how to get laid when you bring a girl back to your place, but for house parties, you're playing at a whole new level.
Unlike one-on-one activities, when you have 15 hot women in your apartment for an evening, you're only going to be able to give each a minimum of time. Therefore, you're living space's setup is going to have to demonstrate your value as effectively as possible.
I'll discuss later what activities you'll need to engage in during the actual event to express your value to your maximum ability, but before we get to that, let's make sure that you're living space itself can do enough talking on its own.
Exhibit A: Your Hobby
If you don't have a hobby, get one. It stands to reason that women enjoy men who enjoy life and if you haven't acquired a hobby in the many years of your life so far, it's time you did that.
Every man needs something to pass the time with and, no, there's no way to increase your value with women if your hobby is video games.
For me, it's the guitar. For another man, it could be one of dozens of options. Here's a partial list of manly hobbies. If you don't currently pursue one of these, it might be time to start.
Marksmanship
Martial Arts
Survival Courses
Classic Car Restoration
Connoisseur (of whiskey, beer, wine, coffee, tea, cheese, etc)
Brewing Beer
Sports
Hiking/Bungee Jumping
Rock Climbing
Glacier Surfing
Wingsuit Flying
Combine Demolition Derby
Chess
Woodworking
Collecting
Hunting
Geocaching
Painting
Model Building
Bowling
Photography
Pool/Billiards
Flying
Paintball
Fencing
Adventure Races
For our purposes cooking, bartending and travel are not included in the hobby section. We'll come to those later.
Once you've identified a hobby that isn't video games, find some way to display the artifacts of the hobby in your living space. You can do this through either formal or informal display.
For example, I can informally display a guitar by leaving it laying on my bed (where guests will just happen to notice it) or I could formally display a whole rack of backlit guitars in my living room. My choice, depending on how obvious I wish to be.
Depending on the hobby, you might need some photographs to help you display your interest. Geocaching, for example, might be hard for people to innocuously pick up on, but you can display photographs and a map of your finds.
The goal here is not to expect women to be impressed by the fact that you make model airplanes. The goal is to ensure that the aspects of who you are as a well-rounded, interesting person are clear and obvious to anyone who steps foot inside your house.
Exhibit B: Travel
As a wall display in one room, you'll want to show off some photographs and/or souvenirs from some of the places you've travelled to. If you haven't travelled anywhere, it's time to get off your ass.
You don't need to have left the country to do this (although it wouldn't hurt). There's probably some beautiful place within 100 km that you like, that'd like to share with others.
You only need a few photos/souvenirs. Less is more in this case. Don't cover your wall in clutter. Go with a few tastefully chosen photos/items.
Exhibit C: The Kitchen
While the kitchen will not be the main place that your guests hang out, they will see the kitchen at some point, so the closer you are to having a well organized work space as you prepare finger foods for cocktail parties or several courses for dinner parties, will help to sell you as a skilled, established man.
Since this datasheet is not really about interior decorating, I will not go into detail about kitchens, but here are a few pointers regarding offering a kitchen that is the best that it can be.
Not mandatory, but smart. Consider having at least one example of art displayed somewhere, even if it is the bathroom. Make sure that it is original art and not some print.
If you love art, that's even better, but if you don't you should still try to find something that you really like, so that if any one mentions it, you can share a few sentences about it and why you like it. If you can share this genuinely, you'll be well on your way to better rounding out their positive impression of you.
Exhibit E: The Facilities
The bathroom is going to need to be really clean, no exceptions. Unless you want to make your place look unlived in, don't be afraid to casually display your shaving supplies were people will see them. It doesn't hurt for women to be reminded that you are a man.
Be sure to hide the hundreds of bitch kits (toothbrush, toothpaste, comb, etc) that you have stocked for when women stay over at your place for a night of f#cking.
Also, get a trashcan with a lid, because it's likely that at least 1/4 of your female guests will be on the rag and nobody wants to look at the horrible mess that they leave behind. And yes, that trashcan is going to need a bag inside.
Women are disgusting.
Mandatory Furniture
There is very little mandatory furniture required to throw most parties, but whether it is a sit down dinner party or a standing room only cocktails affair, you're going either need a full dining room table or the equivalent table space of that offered by a dining room table.
Basically, if you plan on entertaining regularly, having a dining room table with a suitable number of chairs is a smart investment.
While definitely don't need to spend a thousand dollars to acquire such a table and chairs set, you may need to spend a couple hundred, even on the used market. Impressions count, so just getting a table that does the job won't cut it. You need one that works well and displays well.
A nice wood table is a given. An attractive, but not overly flashy finish helps a lot. Matching chairs won't be necessary for a cocktail party, but since you'll need them if you ever throw a dinner party, they'll also come in handy as seating when you have twenty people over. You never want to have enough seats for everyone if you are throwing a party larger than a dinner party, because having ample seating will encourage guests to settle in and they will fail to mingle, which is the whole point of a party.
However, having enough seating for 50% of your guests is perfect, because folks do tire of standing on the their feet for hours and hours. Since, this guide doesn't recommend having parties with more than 20 guests (with 30 as absolutely maximum, the 4-8 chairs that come with a dining room table will get you pretty close to the 10-15 seats you need. With just one couch or loveseat and one or two easy chairs, you'll hit about the right number without needing to borrow extra chairs from your neighbour.
While the necessity of a dining room table makes sense for dinner parties, having one dining room table's worth of table space is actually even more essential for non-dinner parties. Since you'll be serving both alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks at such a function, you need somewhere to conveniently display your beverage related supplies.
Just having drinks isn't enough, you want to maximize the added value that providing drinks to your guests can bring you. The surface where you keep your beverages, drink pitchers and assorted glassware is also a stage, where you'll show off your skills as a bartender. We'll discuss this a little later.
Of course, it's also a “display case” where you can display your carefully arranged collection of glassware. The next sub-section of this guide goes into more detail about the importance of glassware.
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Having table covered in neat rows of wine glasses creates a powerful impression.
Glassware
There's no point in throwing a party to impress women and get laid if you are just going to serve drinks in plastic cups or a collection of random coffee mugs you've acquired during your years as a college student.
While many aspects of throwing parties that get you laid are flexible and easily left up to the preference of the party-thrower, there are a few essentials that can't be ignored. If you're going to scrimp on these basic requirements, you might as well skip throwing parties altogether.
First among these is enough classic glassware for twenty people. In all, you want to have about sixty-eighty glasses. During the course of a party, people are going to lose the glass they started with. When you mix up some cocktails for distribution, you'll want to have some fresh glasses on hand. And having a table full of carefully arranged glassware counts as de facto decoration. It makes a powerful visual image, sets the mood and guests will conclude that you are well organized and prepared. You want this de facto decoration and impression to last through to the end of the party, so even if half of your glasses are never used, that fine. Better to have plenty on hand, anyway.
As for the exactly glassware that you should be purchasing, this is entirely flexible. The glassware in your collection should reflect both your personality as well as the nature of the parties you intend on throwing.
If you're just a down-to-earth guy who enjoys hunting and driving an obnoxiously loud pick-up trucks and wine and cheese events reflect and image that is the absolute opposite of who you are as a person, you probably shouldn't be investing in too many wine glasses. Sure, you'll want to have enough wine glasses to properly serve red or white to your majority female party guests, but wine glasses should not compose most of your collection. Nor will you need much variety in glasses. Just some standard large to medium sized wine glasses will do.
If you are the opposite end of the spectrum and wine and cheese events perfectly define the cultivated image that you are trying to present, wine glasses should form the bulk of your collection. This isn't because all of your guests will or should be drinking wine, but because there are few symbols of classiness as iconic as the wine glass.
To wit, you are not going to stock up on wine glasses simply to serve wine. To offer parties with the atmosphere you are looking to achieve, your purpose should be to put stem-handled glassware in as many hands as possible. Other than breakage costs (which will happen from time to time), glassware is a one-time purchase that will last you a life time. The wine glass styles that were in vogue 100 years ago are still being used today. There's nothing faddish about wine glasses.
It's a fact that how a beverage is presented is as important (if not more important) than what you're actually serving. Restaurants and bars know this. It's even been proven that having bar stools that look heavier (they don't actually need to be heavier) significantly increase how much a patron will happily spend on the drinks they are purchasing.
As the host of a party, you want to achieve that maximum demonstration of value at the minimum financial investment. Stem glassware is one of the easiest short cuts to doing this.
A serving of orange juice prepared in a recyclable plastic cup isn't going to impress anyone. If you get served such a drink at a bar or restaurant, you'll consider spending your money better next time.
However, exactly the same beverage served in a tall, thin wine glass creates another powerful impression. Fill a room with people drinking out of such glasses, whether it's apple juice, water, beer or actually wine in those glasses and the people at your party will feel like they are living in a movie. It's a powerful emotional manipulation that can be funded at the cost of a $150 one time investment.
If it's class you are looking to portray, wine glasses are your ticket. Don't use them to serve drinks that have no place being served in a wineglass (like most mixed cocktails), but don't be afraid to use them for other beverages that will display attractively in that type of a glass.
Yes
But let's say that jeans and flannel is your typical daily outfit. Provided that your clothes fit properly there's no reason to change any of that to impress women. They'll notice if you're trying to be something that you aren't. Better to invite women into your world than to try to fit into a world where you don't feel comfortable and therefore don't present well.
While the rule remains that wine itself should only be served in wineglasses (and therefore you'll need to have a dozen or so glasses available, in case one of your guests is kind enough to arrive with a bottle as a gift), if jeans and flannel is your look, it's reasonable to conclude that throwing a party where everyone is standing around with a wineglass in their hand is going to come off a little funny.
But, perhaps beer is more your thing? There's nothing wrong with that, especially if you have both an interest and knowledge in the subject.
However, what you can't do is simply stock the fridge full of beer.
As explained earlier, two of the purposes of hosting at party at your places is to avoid a sausage-fest and to positively display as many aspects of your identity to a whole batch of women within a relatively short period of time. Given that the male-female ratio of party guests will be favorable, women are going to be the majority of the attendees.
Even if beer is your favourite party beverage, that doesn't mean that it is something women will want to drink much of. And financially speaking, there are more affordable drinks you can get women liquored up on.
So if you love beer and enjoy sharing it with others, invest in flights. Flights are small beer glasses arranged in a row on a small tray. Invest in some good imported or local beer that you find unique and delicious and use the flights to allow guests to sample beer. Even if the women have no interest in the beer itself, the male guests probably will and you'll gain value with the women when they see you knowledgeably sharing information with the other men on the subject. Women don't just want a handsome man. They want the leader of other men.
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A flight next to a standard glass of beer.
If beer is your thing, beer mugs and beer sampling flights will collectively form the centerpiece of your glassware collection.
But at the same time, you'll still need to have plenty of stemware/cocktail glasses, because the main beverages that the ladies will be drinking will be cocktails, not full pints of beer. The beer mugs and flights are the centerpiece, in terms of how your run your events, but not the majority of your collection.
Plateware and Silverware
Unless you are throwing food centric events, such as afternoon BBQs, your plate-ware and silverware collections don't need to contain anywhere near the variety that your glassware collection does. With the exception of BBQs and diner parties, the focus at your parties should be 100% on finger food. With that in mind, the plate-ware requirements at most parties are limited to 30-40 small matching plates. You'll also need just a few large serving plates or platters. There is no need for silverware.
The purpose of throwing BBQs and dinner parties is to provide a more intimate opportunity to get to know a smaller number of people better. As such, the guest lists for these parties should not exceed 10 people. You'll need a complete place setting for no more than ten people, with some matching spares thrown in just in case of breakage.
The maximum plate-ware and silverware requirements that you'll ever need for any of the activities described in this guide are 40 small plates (for appetizer finger food) and 15 complete place settings. All in all, this probably costs less than your iPhone and demonstrates far more value than being yet another guy with an iPhone. The value of this type of investment should easily last you ten to twenty years, which is a much longer time than your new iPhone 6 will impress girls who probably also have an iPhone 6, because they are girls.
Food and Beverage
You won't be serving food and beverage to your guests because it's a nice thing to do. You're going to do it because this area of hospitality offers dozens of opportunities to demonstrate higher value to women.
Pitchers
As host, you are going to be busy at times, so you want to have beverages available that can be prepared in advance, present well and can fill plenty of glasses over the course of the party without requiring any attention.
The obvious solution is to offer drinks in pitchers. These can range from a single beverage (Coke or Sprite) to complex punches, such as sangria. You can prepare them early, place them in the refrigerator to remain cool until guests arrive and then display them on your beverage and food table when they are needed. Any yes, by using nice matching glass pitchers, you are adding to the de facto decoration in the room and therefore boosting the positive impression you are creating.
Just like you can add value by serving plain old water in a wine glass, you can elevate ubiquitous products like standard fair soft drinks by serving them in an eye pleasing pitcher. If you serve orange soda in the plastic bottle you purchased it in, you are in no way differentiating your party from every lame social gathering your guests have been to. By recycling the everyday plastic bottle that the orange soda arrived in before your guests have even arrived, you've elevated the experience for them.
Maintain this allusion. If you've got a pitcher serving nothing more interesting than coke, take the empty pitcher to the kitchen to refill, rather than doing so where your guests will see the plain, boring bottle of Coca-cola.
Also, having pitchers reduces your responsibility as a host. While guests may be apprehensive about helping themselves to bottled beverages and mixers, nothing says help yourself like a pitcher.
Cocktails
While serving beverages in an eye pleasing pitcher may elevate your those drinks and your party as a whole, they don't do that much to showcase your own personal mastery of useful skills as a host.
When you've got time to do so, in between your other responsibilities as a host, you can significant boost your value by demonstrating your bartending skills. To do this, you'll have to learn how to produce beautiful cocktails.
As a host and not a professional bartender, you should not be taking orders from your guests. There are literally thousands of cocktails in existence and even preparing all the ingredients necessary to serve the most popular dozen is too much trouble.
Most people won't know what they want if you ask them, anyway, so the best course of action as a host is to simply master four or five beautiful cocktails. These can't be plain. Your primary goal is to impress women, so these will need to be colourful, delicious and ideally, fruity.
Instead of taking orders when people want a drink (and women are usually too shy to make requests), simply starting making up five or six matching drinks at a time. This is a performance art in it's own right and if you are proficient, you'll attract a lot of positive attention.
However, since providing guests with something to drink is a completely normal thing for the host of a party to do, it'll sell better than insisting that everyone listen to you perform show tunes and play the piano.
Once you've made up the drinks, just start handing them to girls who don't already have a drink in their hands. Have at least one non-alcoholic cocktail (mocktails) prepared just in case you have some party guests who absolutely refuse to drink alcohol for whatever medical or religious reason they might have. They'll very much appreciate you giving them a beautiful, fruity drink to hold instead of pressuring them to drink.
Food
There's a wide variety of possibilities in what you can offer for food, but if you are running a larger, non-food oriented cocktail party, you'll generally want to stick to finger food.
Cocktail Party Food
Don't be a dumbass and just crack open a couple bags of potato chips, in fact, stay the hell away from potato chips altogether. Just like with the drinks and cocktails, the purpose of serving food is to showcase you, not to fill your freeloading guests' stomachs.
The only food that you should be serving that did not personally create should be a cheese board. Everything else should be something you cook or bake from a recipe.
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If the party food features a cheese board, you'd better at least be able to b.s. about wine-cheese pairings. Few women know anything of value about this, but they'll act impressed and interested anyway, because it'll make them feel sophisticated to nod along and agree with all the lies you are telling them. Of course, it wouldn't hurt to read up on the topic and actually know what you are talking about.
The number one winning option I've shared with guests are sliders. These mini-burgers get snatched up fast and people just love them.
They are packed with flavour and they sell you very well if you present them properly.
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For top-notch presentation, garnish these with a block of cheese, an olive or both. Just shove the garnish on top of the toothpick that's holding everything together.
Another great option (that I haven't personally field-tested yet, but will use at my next party) is mini-pizzas. These have the advantage that they can be prepped before the party and simply need to be tossed in the oven 15 minutes before you want to serve them. This leaves you with more time to run game on attractive female guests.
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Present them with different toppings to add colour and variety.
Other top finger food ideas include sausage bacon rolls, deviled eggs and shish-kebabs, but the sky's the limit. The food you choose to offer will be a big part of portraying a part of the picture you are presenting of yourself, so serve food that you love to eat and love to cook. If you don't know how to cook, the time to begin learning is now.
Dinner Parties
If you are hosting a dinner party of no more than ten guests, you will be serving an entrée at minimum. Generally, your party invitation should say something like "cocktails at 6, dinner served at 7." When people arrive, greet them, get a drink in their hand and then head back to the kitchen.
Ideally, your dinner should offer several courses, because you are looking to impress. The main course, the entrée, will be a protein. Steak is always a leading choice, but depending on your skillset as a cook, fish, chicken, pork, etc are also options. The protein will be the star of the dish, but it should come with sides that suit it.
You should also try to offer an appetizer (either cold, hot or both) and if you are daring, a desert.
If you are serving more than two courses, keep portion sizes small, because you don't want people filling up and missing out on the entrée or dessert you've worked so hard on. I've had guests fill up on my appetizers and were really shocked when I suddenly pulled out the main dish. Ooops.
Of course, then they felt bad about laughing barely having enough too eat when I was presenting the soup and hot appetizer courses.
How You Get Laid
Although it's not unheard of for female guests who want to suck your dick to stay behind to “help you clean up,” your goal shouldn't necessarily be to get laid the same night of the party.” In fact, in some cases, it's better if you don't.
These parties are an opportunity to line up attractive pussy for future bangs in a manner that not only is efficient and affordable for you, but also proactively brings new pussy to your door step without you needing to try to hard.
You simply aren't going to bang every girl who comes to a party that you organize. But that's OK, because you probably are going to bang at least one of their friends.
Imagine this scenario. You cold approach a girl at a vegetable market one warm spring day. You get her number easily, but she shows resistance to meeting you one-on-one. She eventually reveals that she has a boyfriend she's been going steady with for three years. Normally, in this situation, you'd have to decide if you have any moral problems with continuing to pursue her, but even if you don't, you're going to be fighting an uphill battle to get her to go out with you.
Not to worry. This is the perfect type of woman to invite to your next house party. Once she mentions her boyfriend, just let her know that you totally understand and wouldn't want to mess up her relationship with her boyfriend. Instead, you invite her to come over for wine and cheese tasting night next Friday. You tell her to bring her boyfriend and a couple girlfriend if she wants.
While the girl that you originally number closed is a mere 6, it turns out that her best friend is a solid 7.5. After two hours displaying value without speaking a word to her at the party, you stop for a short conversation with the 6's friend, number close her and then move onto the other attractive women at the party.
Her friend has now already been to your apartment for the party, so getting her to come over for a movie night isn't a hard sell. She shows up at 8PM the next Wednesday and you tear off her panties and pound her senseless with your dick. Huzzah!
Girls usually like to show up to parties with two or three friends, so the scenario above isn't much of a stretch. In fact, it's worked for me over and over again. I haven't banged a single girl that I invited to a party. However, I've repeatedly banged the women that the women I already knew brought with them to a party I threw, because strong, empowered woman can't handle the thought of arriving alone to an event. “I mean, what if no one talks to me?”
Out of the twenty guests at each of your house parties, five-six guests should be other guys, all of whom know the deal and contribute women they haven't banged to the mix. Four to six guests need to be women that you know and the rest should be women that other people brought with them.
None of the women at your party should be women you work with, women that know you family or women who are in any way connected to your life. Ideally, they will be women that you met through online dating or cold approaches. The risk with traditional social circle game, is that if you bang (or piss off) the wrong woman, she could irreversibly damage your professional network, your familial relations and possibly your entire social life. So therefore, while social circle does lead to advantageous results, especially in environments with ice cold pussy, like Toronto, taking it too far could be damaging to your quality of life.
The house party model is a cut above, because it allows you to quickly build new social circles out of thin air in short periods of time. It isn't a substitute for the street approach, the cold approach in the club or online game. Rather, it's a supplement. When you meet women who are DTF, there is absolutely no reason to invite them to a party. Just follow Tuth's first date bang recipe, remove their panties and thrust away with abandon.
The house party model is a means of making use of those approaches, number closes and connections that aren't going to lead to easy sex any time soon. It's a good way to keep leads that you can't currently pursue warm. It's a good way to meet an ugly girl's hot friends. It's a good way to increase a lukewarm girl's buying temperature, by placing her in an environment where she sees a more complete picture of who you are, instead of just relying on text game and hoping to get lucky.
And, more importantly, for those who don't absolutely hate human interaction (Cardguy), parties are just plain fun.
Do invite girls who have stopped letting you bang them to house parties. Seeing you interacting with other attractive women may cause their legs to snap back open for you. It's worked for me.
Never invite a girl you are currently banging to a house party. There is no utility to be found in making them jealous. Once you've banged a girl, if you want to keep banging her, keep her away from any people or environment that might make her suspect that you are running the same game on other women. You can still invite her to smaller intimate gatherings, like dinner parties, but never put her in a situation where you are actively prowling for new pussy. She won't like it at all.
The Method
When the party is in full swing, you'll have to dedicate a certain amount of time to seeing to it that your guests have enough food and drink, but if plan ahead correctly, you will absolutely have free time to talk up your guests. With 15 female guests to meet and greet, you'll only have so much time to dedicate to each woman. This works in your favour, because it artificially increase your appearance of value, relative to theirs. You'll notice that this is the opposite of how things work in a club environment.
During the course of the party, I select the top three to five candidates, depending on how much top quality contenders there are. I might only speak with each of them for a few minutes, but that's all in generally takes.
You can give them more of your time, especially if they stay later while the party winds down and other guests depart, but given all the value boosting activities that you've already performed in their presence, generally all you need to do is lock down their number and get in touch over the courses of the next week. In fact, giving one or two girls too much attention may cause other girls to go cold or give you tons of anti-slut defense treatment when you try to bang them, because they assume you are sleeping with lots of other women.
You don't want this. What you want is for the women to realize that you could be banging a lot of women if you wanted to, but give them reason to believe that you aren't an ice cold player. Maintain the potential boyfriend illusion, unless you are dealing with a common whore, in which case it shouldn't matter so much.
Generally, for text game, all you need to do is start things off by thanking them for attending and letting them know that it was nice meeting them. Go from there, with standard text game.
Your goal is fill up the next weekend with the top three contenders. Any other women worth number closing at your party can be fit in before or after the next weekend, but you'll schedule the top three for Friday night, Saturday night and Sunday afternoon. At this point, run standard game on them and shoot for the panties. If the connection sizzles before you've even escalated to a kiss and they just aren't showing interest, keep in contact and invite them to the next party. Have them bring their cute friends.
If you bang them, move them permanently off the party roster (unless you have need of some added jealousy factor to get them back on the bang roster) and isolate them from every other woman that you plan on pounding snatch with.
The Math
The ideal for this setup is that you run the game in congress with your game friendly male associates. It costs about $100-200 to throw a party with plenty of food and drinks for 20 people, so if five of those guests are guys, best case scenario is that they'll not only be RVF members, but they'll split the cost of the party supplies and through another party using the same model in three weeks so that all the hosting responsibility doesn't fall on one guy.
While this might seem like a lot of money to shell out if you're financing the party solely yourself, if you are living somewhere where a night of drinks is so expensive that you feel compelled to spend 12 pages arguing about whether you should let chicks order appetizers, $5 a guest isn't bad when you consider what throwing a party like this every two months can do for your social life.
Why It Works
What I've noticed so far in my adult life, is that modern women are socially incompetent. Unless they are meeting people in an artificially easy environment (SEE: elementary school, high school and college), they suck at making friends and building relationships. Unless you are living somewhere where most people are still hanging out with their friends from high school, you'll find that once university graduation has come and gone, most girls absolutely suck at building a stable social life.
While if they aren't a 350 LB blob, they'll always have men lined up to bang and possible date them, it's a lot harder for them to develop lasting relationships, probably because even after completing a four year degree (or not), they really have little of value to offer other people, other than their vagina.
While women in past eras easily increased their value by developing homemaking skills (which meant that not only could they make their husband the happiest man in the world, but also could offer hospitality to those outside their own nuclear family), modern women have no such abilities. Instead they've wasted their time acquire useless degrees and pursuing careers as personal assistants to people who have real skills.
As such, there's a big gaping hole in the social market place for people who can offer others the gift of hospitality. Hospitality goes far beyond just access to food and beverage. It is the opportunity to meet others and building relationships in a comfortable, friendly environment.
I've noticed something since I started throwing parties with 20-30 guests last summer. The women who are coming to these parties (mostly met through online dating and cold approaches in the Beijing subway system or at large social networking events) end up consistently forming a social life WITH OTHER GUESTS AT THAT ONE PARTY. They are so starved for friends that when I see them again in two months, their current social arena is entirely composed of other guys and girls they met at my party.
So, while a man attempting to get women to agree to one-on-one meetings may have to deal with flakes, bad attitudes and radio silence as a matter of course, the same women will jump at the opportunity to socialize like normal human beings – mainly because they lack the social skills to give themselves the same experience organically.
And when throwing a party, even if some women do flake or aren't interested, it doesn't matter. This just filters out the useless women anyway. Others will show up and be grateful for the opportunity. Leverage this to your advantage and get your dick wet.
Throw more than twelve 20 guest parties per year. Once a month is plenty, because throwing one party is enough work already and you should be saving the rest of your time each month to follow up on leads from the last party and generate new ones for the next party.
If you want to schedule more events each month, just because you like to socialize, do some dinner parties, movie nights or BBQs with ten or fewer people. Keep the male-female ratio even at these parties. Invite your main girl to reward her for sucking your dick five times a week. Invite your player friends and have them bring their regular girls too. Make these smaller events about developing a lifestyle that extends beyond just trying to get laid.
If you're like me, you'll receive more value from building strong friendships with the male friends in your life than an extra ten notches each year, provided you're already getting laid regularly enough.
When I was in university, I went to many house parties, in fact, I lived in two party houses. This datasheet concerns a different type of house party than those typical of the college party scene.
Most college house parties are an opportunity to get drunk with other people. In the USA, where I completed my undergraduate degree, the legal drinking age is 21, which means that college students 20 and younger cannot go out to restaurants, bars and clubs to drink. With the possession and use of alcohol on campus strictly prohibited by my school and two years of on-campus residence required, house parties were one of the few opportunities for freshmen, sophomores and juniors to drink.
Generally, in my experience with such house parties, they were characterized by:
- An excess of males and disproportionately few females.
- General classlessness.
- Not necessarily knowing who the hell the hosts were.
- More than twenty participants.
- Group activities being limited to stupid drinking games, such as beer pong.
The house parties you've seen in movies.
Reality.
This is not the sort of house party that I discuss in this datasheet.
Rather than a college-esque party, this datasheet is aimed at learning to host a different kind of house party -- type that gets your dick wet. The house party discussed here fits the following characteristics.
- No more than 20-30 guests.
- A pleasing male-female ratio (minimum 1-3).
- The guests will absolutely know that you are hosting the party.
- Stupid drinking games replaced by friendly conversation and socializing.
- Reasonably classy to exceptionally classy.
A finalized count revealed that 70 people showed up. It was clear that I was the host to all who attended, but being an amateur at house party game, I didn't turn the event into numbers and eventual bangs. Even so, months later attendees were still raving talking about the great food and snacks that I served.
While it was an absolutely blast hosting such a party and being the center of attention as the host, the real possibilities of planning social events in your home didn't become clear to me until more than a month later when I was in Hong Kong.
I was in Hong Kong to get a new visa for mainland China and community guy who I had never met, but communicated with a bit online offered to let me stay in his spare bedroom during my stay, rent free.
We ended up gaming together on many occasions during my two and a half week stay. On my last weekend, we collected a great deal of numbers Friday and Saturday night. My host suggested that we throw a BBQ Sunday afternoon.
Since time was limited for my stay in Hong Kong, I simply invited every girl I'd number closed the last two nights. While only 1/4rd ended up showing up, those that did brought one or two friends, who were mostly attractive young ladies as well.
We invited a couple of game friendly guys as well, so in the end the ratio was 4 attractive guys to 12 attractive ladies and one fat girl who knew her place and spent the whole afternoon in the kitchen washing dishes.
At the party, I was free to mingle from girl to girl. If I got tired of talking to one, I just moved onto another or helped out with BBQing for a bit. As the afternoon wore on, I ended up surrounded by about 5 girls, who competed for my attention as we conversed as a group.
As things were winding down, my friend and host covertly texted me telling me to keep my main target and the friend she'd brought liquored up while he led the rest of the guests back to the ferry.
I kept them occupied with wine until he returned, at which point he invited the friend into the kitchen to "help him clean up."
I made out with my target in the living room, while her friend pulled down my buddy's pants in the kitchen and sucked his dick.
Things would probably have gone even further if the dick sucker wasn't late to meet some beta she'd agreed to go to dinner with. Poor guy.
While I didn't get laid during that trip to Hong Kong, the potential of the small house party was revealed to me. When I came back to Hong Kong the next summer to get a new visa again, one of the girls I'd met at the party and I ended up making out heavily in a MTR station. I never closed it, but I probably would have if I didn't need to catch a flight back to Tianjin the next morning.
Nevertheless, the thing that stuck out to me was that the girl who'd I'd made out with at the BBQ in February told me that the moment she wanted me was when she realized that the second girl, the one I made out with in July, was competing for my attention. It's no surprise that she was happy to stay behind after everyone else left to "help clean up."
With various jobs, my limited budget and finally the need to spend time finishing up my education each cockblocking me in turn, I didn't get back to the house party game until this past summer.
Since I didn't have tons of cash to spare, I threw just two birthday parties for friends over the summer, followed by a Halloween party in the fall. Every time I threw a party, I got laid.
This is how I did it.
The Venue
If you just want to throw a fun party, the exact setup you have to offer at your apartment or house matters somewhat. If you are looking to get laid, it matters a whole lot more.
We've discussed tips for how to get laid when you bring a girl back to your place, but for house parties, you're playing at a whole new level.
Unlike one-on-one activities, when you have 15 hot women in your apartment for an evening, you're only going to be able to give each a minimum of time. Therefore, you're living space's setup is going to have to demonstrate your value as effectively as possible.
I'll discuss later what activities you'll need to engage in during the actual event to express your value to your maximum ability, but before we get to that, let's make sure that you're living space itself can do enough talking on its own.
Exhibit A: Your Hobby
If you don't have a hobby, get one. It stands to reason that women enjoy men who enjoy life and if you haven't acquired a hobby in the many years of your life so far, it's time you did that.
Every man needs something to pass the time with and, no, there's no way to increase your value with women if your hobby is video games.
For me, it's the guitar. For another man, it could be one of dozens of options. Here's a partial list of manly hobbies. If you don't currently pursue one of these, it might be time to start.
Marksmanship
Martial Arts
Survival Courses
Classic Car Restoration
Connoisseur (of whiskey, beer, wine, coffee, tea, cheese, etc)
Brewing Beer
Sports
Hiking/Bungee Jumping
Rock Climbing
Glacier Surfing
Wingsuit Flying
Combine Demolition Derby
Chess
Woodworking
Collecting
Hunting
Geocaching
Painting
Model Building
Bowling
Photography
Pool/Billiards
Flying
Paintball
Fencing
Adventure Races
For our purposes cooking, bartending and travel are not included in the hobby section. We'll come to those later.
Once you've identified a hobby that isn't video games, find some way to display the artifacts of the hobby in your living space. You can do this through either formal or informal display.
For example, I can informally display a guitar by leaving it laying on my bed (where guests will just happen to notice it) or I could formally display a whole rack of backlit guitars in my living room. My choice, depending on how obvious I wish to be.
Depending on the hobby, you might need some photographs to help you display your interest. Geocaching, for example, might be hard for people to innocuously pick up on, but you can display photographs and a map of your finds.
The goal here is not to expect women to be impressed by the fact that you make model airplanes. The goal is to ensure that the aspects of who you are as a well-rounded, interesting person are clear and obvious to anyone who steps foot inside your house.
Exhibit B: Travel
As a wall display in one room, you'll want to show off some photographs and/or souvenirs from some of the places you've travelled to. If you haven't travelled anywhere, it's time to get off your ass.
You don't need to have left the country to do this (although it wouldn't hurt). There's probably some beautiful place within 100 km that you like, that'd like to share with others.
You only need a few photos/souvenirs. Less is more in this case. Don't cover your wall in clutter. Go with a few tastefully chosen photos/items.
Exhibit C: The Kitchen
While the kitchen will not be the main place that your guests hang out, they will see the kitchen at some point, so the closer you are to having a well organized work space as you prepare finger foods for cocktail parties or several courses for dinner parties, will help to sell you as a skilled, established man.
Since this datasheet is not really about interior decorating, I will not go into detail about kitchens, but here are a few pointers regarding offering a kitchen that is the best that it can be.
- A nice set of knives. Having a professional looking set of cooking knives at your disposal will sell you as a skilled guy who knows what he is doing in the kitchen.
- Somewhere to put dishes to dry. This goes a long way it making you seem organized and women appreciate this.
- Three different cutting boards, if you are cooking a larger quantity of food. It allows you to spread out the work and feel like you have room to move around if you need to stop midway through a cutting task.
Not mandatory, but smart. Consider having at least one example of art displayed somewhere, even if it is the bathroom. Make sure that it is original art and not some print.
If you love art, that's even better, but if you don't you should still try to find something that you really like, so that if any one mentions it, you can share a few sentences about it and why you like it. If you can share this genuinely, you'll be well on your way to better rounding out their positive impression of you.
Exhibit E: The Facilities
The bathroom is going to need to be really clean, no exceptions. Unless you want to make your place look unlived in, don't be afraid to casually display your shaving supplies were people will see them. It doesn't hurt for women to be reminded that you are a man.
Be sure to hide the hundreds of bitch kits (toothbrush, toothpaste, comb, etc) that you have stocked for when women stay over at your place for a night of f#cking.
Also, get a trashcan with a lid, because it's likely that at least 1/4 of your female guests will be on the rag and nobody wants to look at the horrible mess that they leave behind. And yes, that trashcan is going to need a bag inside.
Women are disgusting.
Mandatory Furniture
There is very little mandatory furniture required to throw most parties, but whether it is a sit down dinner party or a standing room only cocktails affair, you're going either need a full dining room table or the equivalent table space of that offered by a dining room table.
Basically, if you plan on entertaining regularly, having a dining room table with a suitable number of chairs is a smart investment.
While definitely don't need to spend a thousand dollars to acquire such a table and chairs set, you may need to spend a couple hundred, even on the used market. Impressions count, so just getting a table that does the job won't cut it. You need one that works well and displays well.
A nice wood table is a given. An attractive, but not overly flashy finish helps a lot. Matching chairs won't be necessary for a cocktail party, but since you'll need them if you ever throw a dinner party, they'll also come in handy as seating when you have twenty people over. You never want to have enough seats for everyone if you are throwing a party larger than a dinner party, because having ample seating will encourage guests to settle in and they will fail to mingle, which is the whole point of a party.
However, having enough seating for 50% of your guests is perfect, because folks do tire of standing on the their feet for hours and hours. Since, this guide doesn't recommend having parties with more than 20 guests (with 30 as absolutely maximum, the 4-8 chairs that come with a dining room table will get you pretty close to the 10-15 seats you need. With just one couch or loveseat and one or two easy chairs, you'll hit about the right number without needing to borrow extra chairs from your neighbour.
While the necessity of a dining room table makes sense for dinner parties, having one dining room table's worth of table space is actually even more essential for non-dinner parties. Since you'll be serving both alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks at such a function, you need somewhere to conveniently display your beverage related supplies.
Just having drinks isn't enough, you want to maximize the added value that providing drinks to your guests can bring you. The surface where you keep your beverages, drink pitchers and assorted glassware is also a stage, where you'll show off your skills as a bartender. We'll discuss this a little later.
Of course, it's also a “display case” where you can display your carefully arranged collection of glassware. The next sub-section of this guide goes into more detail about the importance of glassware.
Having table covered in neat rows of wine glasses creates a powerful impression.
Glassware
There's no point in throwing a party to impress women and get laid if you are just going to serve drinks in plastic cups or a collection of random coffee mugs you've acquired during your years as a college student.
While many aspects of throwing parties that get you laid are flexible and easily left up to the preference of the party-thrower, there are a few essentials that can't be ignored. If you're going to scrimp on these basic requirements, you might as well skip throwing parties altogether.
First among these is enough classic glassware for twenty people. In all, you want to have about sixty-eighty glasses. During the course of a party, people are going to lose the glass they started with. When you mix up some cocktails for distribution, you'll want to have some fresh glasses on hand. And having a table full of carefully arranged glassware counts as de facto decoration. It makes a powerful visual image, sets the mood and guests will conclude that you are well organized and prepared. You want this de facto decoration and impression to last through to the end of the party, so even if half of your glasses are never used, that fine. Better to have plenty on hand, anyway.
As for the exactly glassware that you should be purchasing, this is entirely flexible. The glassware in your collection should reflect both your personality as well as the nature of the parties you intend on throwing.
If you're just a down-to-earth guy who enjoys hunting and driving an obnoxiously loud pick-up trucks and wine and cheese events reflect and image that is the absolute opposite of who you are as a person, you probably shouldn't be investing in too many wine glasses. Sure, you'll want to have enough wine glasses to properly serve red or white to your majority female party guests, but wine glasses should not compose most of your collection. Nor will you need much variety in glasses. Just some standard large to medium sized wine glasses will do.
If you are the opposite end of the spectrum and wine and cheese events perfectly define the cultivated image that you are trying to present, wine glasses should form the bulk of your collection. This isn't because all of your guests will or should be drinking wine, but because there are few symbols of classiness as iconic as the wine glass.
To wit, you are not going to stock up on wine glasses simply to serve wine. To offer parties with the atmosphere you are looking to achieve, your purpose should be to put stem-handled glassware in as many hands as possible. Other than breakage costs (which will happen from time to time), glassware is a one-time purchase that will last you a life time. The wine glass styles that were in vogue 100 years ago are still being used today. There's nothing faddish about wine glasses.
It's a fact that how a beverage is presented is as important (if not more important) than what you're actually serving. Restaurants and bars know this. It's even been proven that having bar stools that look heavier (they don't actually need to be heavier) significantly increase how much a patron will happily spend on the drinks they are purchasing.
As the host of a party, you want to achieve that maximum demonstration of value at the minimum financial investment. Stem glassware is one of the easiest short cuts to doing this.
A serving of orange juice prepared in a recyclable plastic cup isn't going to impress anyone. If you get served such a drink at a bar or restaurant, you'll consider spending your money better next time.
However, exactly the same beverage served in a tall, thin wine glass creates another powerful impression. Fill a room with people drinking out of such glasses, whether it's apple juice, water, beer or actually wine in those glasses and the people at your party will feel like they are living in a movie. It's a powerful emotional manipulation that can be funded at the cost of a $150 one time investment.
If it's class you are looking to portray, wine glasses are your ticket. Don't use them to serve drinks that have no place being served in a wineglass (like most mixed cocktails), but don't be afraid to use them for other beverages that will display attractively in that type of a glass.
Yes
- Wine
- Golden coloured beers
- Virtually and type of juice
- Anything fruity
- Sprite
- Water
- Bright, simple cocktails, such as screwdrivers
- Coke
- Porters and any dark beer
- Any other dark beverage
But let's say that jeans and flannel is your typical daily outfit. Provided that your clothes fit properly there's no reason to change any of that to impress women. They'll notice if you're trying to be something that you aren't. Better to invite women into your world than to try to fit into a world where you don't feel comfortable and therefore don't present well.
While the rule remains that wine itself should only be served in wineglasses (and therefore you'll need to have a dozen or so glasses available, in case one of your guests is kind enough to arrive with a bottle as a gift), if jeans and flannel is your look, it's reasonable to conclude that throwing a party where everyone is standing around with a wineglass in their hand is going to come off a little funny.
But, perhaps beer is more your thing? There's nothing wrong with that, especially if you have both an interest and knowledge in the subject.
However, what you can't do is simply stock the fridge full of beer.
As explained earlier, two of the purposes of hosting at party at your places is to avoid a sausage-fest and to positively display as many aspects of your identity to a whole batch of women within a relatively short period of time. Given that the male-female ratio of party guests will be favorable, women are going to be the majority of the attendees.
Even if beer is your favourite party beverage, that doesn't mean that it is something women will want to drink much of. And financially speaking, there are more affordable drinks you can get women liquored up on.
So if you love beer and enjoy sharing it with others, invest in flights. Flights are small beer glasses arranged in a row on a small tray. Invest in some good imported or local beer that you find unique and delicious and use the flights to allow guests to sample beer. Even if the women have no interest in the beer itself, the male guests probably will and you'll gain value with the women when they see you knowledgeably sharing information with the other men on the subject. Women don't just want a handsome man. They want the leader of other men.
A flight next to a standard glass of beer.
If beer is your thing, beer mugs and beer sampling flights will collectively form the centerpiece of your glassware collection.
But at the same time, you'll still need to have plenty of stemware/cocktail glasses, because the main beverages that the ladies will be drinking will be cocktails, not full pints of beer. The beer mugs and flights are the centerpiece, in terms of how your run your events, but not the majority of your collection.
Plateware and Silverware
Unless you are throwing food centric events, such as afternoon BBQs, your plate-ware and silverware collections don't need to contain anywhere near the variety that your glassware collection does. With the exception of BBQs and diner parties, the focus at your parties should be 100% on finger food. With that in mind, the plate-ware requirements at most parties are limited to 30-40 small matching plates. You'll also need just a few large serving plates or platters. There is no need for silverware.
The purpose of throwing BBQs and dinner parties is to provide a more intimate opportunity to get to know a smaller number of people better. As such, the guest lists for these parties should not exceed 10 people. You'll need a complete place setting for no more than ten people, with some matching spares thrown in just in case of breakage.
The maximum plate-ware and silverware requirements that you'll ever need for any of the activities described in this guide are 40 small plates (for appetizer finger food) and 15 complete place settings. All in all, this probably costs less than your iPhone and demonstrates far more value than being yet another guy with an iPhone. The value of this type of investment should easily last you ten to twenty years, which is a much longer time than your new iPhone 6 will impress girls who probably also have an iPhone 6, because they are girls.
Food and Beverage
You won't be serving food and beverage to your guests because it's a nice thing to do. You're going to do it because this area of hospitality offers dozens of opportunities to demonstrate higher value to women.
Pitchers
As host, you are going to be busy at times, so you want to have beverages available that can be prepared in advance, present well and can fill plenty of glasses over the course of the party without requiring any attention.
The obvious solution is to offer drinks in pitchers. These can range from a single beverage (Coke or Sprite) to complex punches, such as sangria. You can prepare them early, place them in the refrigerator to remain cool until guests arrive and then display them on your beverage and food table when they are needed. Any yes, by using nice matching glass pitchers, you are adding to the de facto decoration in the room and therefore boosting the positive impression you are creating.
Just like you can add value by serving plain old water in a wine glass, you can elevate ubiquitous products like standard fair soft drinks by serving them in an eye pleasing pitcher. If you serve orange soda in the plastic bottle you purchased it in, you are in no way differentiating your party from every lame social gathering your guests have been to. By recycling the everyday plastic bottle that the orange soda arrived in before your guests have even arrived, you've elevated the experience for them.
Maintain this allusion. If you've got a pitcher serving nothing more interesting than coke, take the empty pitcher to the kitchen to refill, rather than doing so where your guests will see the plain, boring bottle of Coca-cola.
Also, having pitchers reduces your responsibility as a host. While guests may be apprehensive about helping themselves to bottled beverages and mixers, nothing says help yourself like a pitcher.
Cocktails
While serving beverages in an eye pleasing pitcher may elevate your those drinks and your party as a whole, they don't do that much to showcase your own personal mastery of useful skills as a host.
When you've got time to do so, in between your other responsibilities as a host, you can significant boost your value by demonstrating your bartending skills. To do this, you'll have to learn how to produce beautiful cocktails.
As a host and not a professional bartender, you should not be taking orders from your guests. There are literally thousands of cocktails in existence and even preparing all the ingredients necessary to serve the most popular dozen is too much trouble.
Most people won't know what they want if you ask them, anyway, so the best course of action as a host is to simply master four or five beautiful cocktails. These can't be plain. Your primary goal is to impress women, so these will need to be colourful, delicious and ideally, fruity.
Instead of taking orders when people want a drink (and women are usually too shy to make requests), simply starting making up five or six matching drinks at a time. This is a performance art in it's own right and if you are proficient, you'll attract a lot of positive attention.
However, since providing guests with something to drink is a completely normal thing for the host of a party to do, it'll sell better than insisting that everyone listen to you perform show tunes and play the piano.
Once you've made up the drinks, just start handing them to girls who don't already have a drink in their hands. Have at least one non-alcoholic cocktail (mocktails) prepared just in case you have some party guests who absolutely refuse to drink alcohol for whatever medical or religious reason they might have. They'll very much appreciate you giving them a beautiful, fruity drink to hold instead of pressuring them to drink.
Food
There's a wide variety of possibilities in what you can offer for food, but if you are running a larger, non-food oriented cocktail party, you'll generally want to stick to finger food.
Cocktail Party Food
Don't be a dumbass and just crack open a couple bags of potato chips, in fact, stay the hell away from potato chips altogether. Just like with the drinks and cocktails, the purpose of serving food is to showcase you, not to fill your freeloading guests' stomachs.
The only food that you should be serving that did not personally create should be a cheese board. Everything else should be something you cook or bake from a recipe.
If the party food features a cheese board, you'd better at least be able to b.s. about wine-cheese pairings. Few women know anything of value about this, but they'll act impressed and interested anyway, because it'll make them feel sophisticated to nod along and agree with all the lies you are telling them. Of course, it wouldn't hurt to read up on the topic and actually know what you are talking about.
The number one winning option I've shared with guests are sliders. These mini-burgers get snatched up fast and people just love them.
They are packed with flavour and they sell you very well if you present them properly.
For top-notch presentation, garnish these with a block of cheese, an olive or both. Just shove the garnish on top of the toothpick that's holding everything together.
Another great option (that I haven't personally field-tested yet, but will use at my next party) is mini-pizzas. These have the advantage that they can be prepped before the party and simply need to be tossed in the oven 15 minutes before you want to serve them. This leaves you with more time to run game on attractive female guests.
Present them with different toppings to add colour and variety.
Other top finger food ideas include sausage bacon rolls, deviled eggs and shish-kebabs, but the sky's the limit. The food you choose to offer will be a big part of portraying a part of the picture you are presenting of yourself, so serve food that you love to eat and love to cook. If you don't know how to cook, the time to begin learning is now.
Dinner Parties
If you are hosting a dinner party of no more than ten guests, you will be serving an entrée at minimum. Generally, your party invitation should say something like "cocktails at 6, dinner served at 7." When people arrive, greet them, get a drink in their hand and then head back to the kitchen.
Ideally, your dinner should offer several courses, because you are looking to impress. The main course, the entrée, will be a protein. Steak is always a leading choice, but depending on your skillset as a cook, fish, chicken, pork, etc are also options. The protein will be the star of the dish, but it should come with sides that suit it.
You should also try to offer an appetizer (either cold, hot or both) and if you are daring, a desert.
If you are serving more than two courses, keep portion sizes small, because you don't want people filling up and missing out on the entrée or dessert you've worked so hard on. I've had guests fill up on my appetizers and were really shocked when I suddenly pulled out the main dish. Ooops.
Of course, then they felt bad about laughing barely having enough too eat when I was presenting the soup and hot appetizer courses.
How You Get Laid
Although it's not unheard of for female guests who want to suck your dick to stay behind to “help you clean up,” your goal shouldn't necessarily be to get laid the same night of the party.” In fact, in some cases, it's better if you don't.
These parties are an opportunity to line up attractive pussy for future bangs in a manner that not only is efficient and affordable for you, but also proactively brings new pussy to your door step without you needing to try to hard.
You simply aren't going to bang every girl who comes to a party that you organize. But that's OK, because you probably are going to bang at least one of their friends.
Imagine this scenario. You cold approach a girl at a vegetable market one warm spring day. You get her number easily, but she shows resistance to meeting you one-on-one. She eventually reveals that she has a boyfriend she's been going steady with for three years. Normally, in this situation, you'd have to decide if you have any moral problems with continuing to pursue her, but even if you don't, you're going to be fighting an uphill battle to get her to go out with you.
Not to worry. This is the perfect type of woman to invite to your next house party. Once she mentions her boyfriend, just let her know that you totally understand and wouldn't want to mess up her relationship with her boyfriend. Instead, you invite her to come over for wine and cheese tasting night next Friday. You tell her to bring her boyfriend and a couple girlfriend if she wants.
While the girl that you originally number closed is a mere 6, it turns out that her best friend is a solid 7.5. After two hours displaying value without speaking a word to her at the party, you stop for a short conversation with the 6's friend, number close her and then move onto the other attractive women at the party.
Her friend has now already been to your apartment for the party, so getting her to come over for a movie night isn't a hard sell. She shows up at 8PM the next Wednesday and you tear off her panties and pound her senseless with your dick. Huzzah!
Girls usually like to show up to parties with two or three friends, so the scenario above isn't much of a stretch. In fact, it's worked for me over and over again. I haven't banged a single girl that I invited to a party. However, I've repeatedly banged the women that the women I already knew brought with them to a party I threw, because strong, empowered woman can't handle the thought of arriving alone to an event. “I mean, what if no one talks to me?”
Out of the twenty guests at each of your house parties, five-six guests should be other guys, all of whom know the deal and contribute women they haven't banged to the mix. Four to six guests need to be women that you know and the rest should be women that other people brought with them.
None of the women at your party should be women you work with, women that know you family or women who are in any way connected to your life. Ideally, they will be women that you met through online dating or cold approaches. The risk with traditional social circle game, is that if you bang (or piss off) the wrong woman, she could irreversibly damage your professional network, your familial relations and possibly your entire social life. So therefore, while social circle does lead to advantageous results, especially in environments with ice cold pussy, like Toronto, taking it too far could be damaging to your quality of life.
The house party model is a cut above, because it allows you to quickly build new social circles out of thin air in short periods of time. It isn't a substitute for the street approach, the cold approach in the club or online game. Rather, it's a supplement. When you meet women who are DTF, there is absolutely no reason to invite them to a party. Just follow Tuth's first date bang recipe, remove their panties and thrust away with abandon.
The house party model is a means of making use of those approaches, number closes and connections that aren't going to lead to easy sex any time soon. It's a good way to keep leads that you can't currently pursue warm. It's a good way to meet an ugly girl's hot friends. It's a good way to increase a lukewarm girl's buying temperature, by placing her in an environment where she sees a more complete picture of who you are, instead of just relying on text game and hoping to get lucky.
And, more importantly, for those who don't absolutely hate human interaction (Cardguy), parties are just plain fun.
Do invite girls who have stopped letting you bang them to house parties. Seeing you interacting with other attractive women may cause their legs to snap back open for you. It's worked for me.
Never invite a girl you are currently banging to a house party. There is no utility to be found in making them jealous. Once you've banged a girl, if you want to keep banging her, keep her away from any people or environment that might make her suspect that you are running the same game on other women. You can still invite her to smaller intimate gatherings, like dinner parties, but never put her in a situation where you are actively prowling for new pussy. She won't like it at all.
The Method
When the party is in full swing, you'll have to dedicate a certain amount of time to seeing to it that your guests have enough food and drink, but if plan ahead correctly, you will absolutely have free time to talk up your guests. With 15 female guests to meet and greet, you'll only have so much time to dedicate to each woman. This works in your favour, because it artificially increase your appearance of value, relative to theirs. You'll notice that this is the opposite of how things work in a club environment.
During the course of the party, I select the top three to five candidates, depending on how much top quality contenders there are. I might only speak with each of them for a few minutes, but that's all in generally takes.
You can give them more of your time, especially if they stay later while the party winds down and other guests depart, but given all the value boosting activities that you've already performed in their presence, generally all you need to do is lock down their number and get in touch over the courses of the next week. In fact, giving one or two girls too much attention may cause other girls to go cold or give you tons of anti-slut defense treatment when you try to bang them, because they assume you are sleeping with lots of other women.
You don't want this. What you want is for the women to realize that you could be banging a lot of women if you wanted to, but give them reason to believe that you aren't an ice cold player. Maintain the potential boyfriend illusion, unless you are dealing with a common whore, in which case it shouldn't matter so much.
Generally, for text game, all you need to do is start things off by thanking them for attending and letting them know that it was nice meeting them. Go from there, with standard text game.
Your goal is fill up the next weekend with the top three contenders. Any other women worth number closing at your party can be fit in before or after the next weekend, but you'll schedule the top three for Friday night, Saturday night and Sunday afternoon. At this point, run standard game on them and shoot for the panties. If the connection sizzles before you've even escalated to a kiss and they just aren't showing interest, keep in contact and invite them to the next party. Have them bring their cute friends.
If you bang them, move them permanently off the party roster (unless you have need of some added jealousy factor to get them back on the bang roster) and isolate them from every other woman that you plan on pounding snatch with.
The Math
The ideal for this setup is that you run the game in congress with your game friendly male associates. It costs about $100-200 to throw a party with plenty of food and drinks for 20 people, so if five of those guests are guys, best case scenario is that they'll not only be RVF members, but they'll split the cost of the party supplies and through another party using the same model in three weeks so that all the hosting responsibility doesn't fall on one guy.
While this might seem like a lot of money to shell out if you're financing the party solely yourself, if you are living somewhere where a night of drinks is so expensive that you feel compelled to spend 12 pages arguing about whether you should let chicks order appetizers, $5 a guest isn't bad when you consider what throwing a party like this every two months can do for your social life.
Why It Works
What I've noticed so far in my adult life, is that modern women are socially incompetent. Unless they are meeting people in an artificially easy environment (SEE: elementary school, high school and college), they suck at making friends and building relationships. Unless you are living somewhere where most people are still hanging out with their friends from high school, you'll find that once university graduation has come and gone, most girls absolutely suck at building a stable social life.
While if they aren't a 350 LB blob, they'll always have men lined up to bang and possible date them, it's a lot harder for them to develop lasting relationships, probably because even after completing a four year degree (or not), they really have little of value to offer other people, other than their vagina.
While women in past eras easily increased their value by developing homemaking skills (which meant that not only could they make their husband the happiest man in the world, but also could offer hospitality to those outside their own nuclear family), modern women have no such abilities. Instead they've wasted their time acquire useless degrees and pursuing careers as personal assistants to people who have real skills.
As such, there's a big gaping hole in the social market place for people who can offer others the gift of hospitality. Hospitality goes far beyond just access to food and beverage. It is the opportunity to meet others and building relationships in a comfortable, friendly environment.
I've noticed something since I started throwing parties with 20-30 guests last summer. The women who are coming to these parties (mostly met through online dating and cold approaches in the Beijing subway system or at large social networking events) end up consistently forming a social life WITH OTHER GUESTS AT THAT ONE PARTY. They are so starved for friends that when I see them again in two months, their current social arena is entirely composed of other guys and girls they met at my party.
So, while a man attempting to get women to agree to one-on-one meetings may have to deal with flakes, bad attitudes and radio silence as a matter of course, the same women will jump at the opportunity to socialize like normal human beings – mainly because they lack the social skills to give themselves the same experience organically.
And when throwing a party, even if some women do flake or aren't interested, it doesn't matter. This just filters out the useless women anyway. Others will show up and be grateful for the opportunity. Leverage this to your advantage and get your dick wet.
Throw more than twelve 20 guest parties per year. Once a month is plenty, because throwing one party is enough work already and you should be saving the rest of your time each month to follow up on leads from the last party and generate new ones for the next party.
If you want to schedule more events each month, just because you like to socialize, do some dinner parties, movie nights or BBQs with ten or fewer people. Keep the male-female ratio even at these parties. Invite your main girl to reward her for sucking your dick five times a week. Invite your player friends and have them bring their regular girls too. Make these smaller events about developing a lifestyle that extends beyond just trying to get laid.
If you're like me, you'll receive more value from building strong friendships with the male friends in your life than an extra ten notches each year, provided you're already getting laid regularly enough.
I'm the King of Beijing!
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