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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Female author goes to see a gyno at age 41 to see about getting pregnant. Doc tells her to hurry. Author gets upset, then rejoices when she gets pregnant. Faces reality after several miscarriages. Basically discovers that women are unaware of the biology of fertility.

Great quote:

"Women don't know there's a limit: the message is equal, equal, equal. But our biological clock is not."

http://aeon.co/magazine/society/why-do-w...fertility/
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

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Women in their 30s and 40s exhibit a mix of wishful thinking and woeful ignorance when it comes to their fertility. Why?

Hmmm....... points to ponder..............

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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

I have been angrily shouted down by a woman in her early 30s about fertility issues. I was commenting about something related to what your chances of conceiving are at different ages, and she lost it. I guess she was *triggered*. She told me "OK STOP, A WOMAN MY AGE KNOWS ALL THIS, YOU DO NOT NEED TO REMIND ME! YOU'RE JUST BEING A DICK!"

That was probably 3 years ago... Tick, Tock...
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Quote: (01-06-2015 11:50 AM)Sonsowey Wrote:  

I have been angrily shouted down by a woman in her early 30s about fertility issues. I was commenting about something related to what your chances of conceiving are at different ages, and she lost it. I guess she was *triggered*. She told me "OK STOP, A WOMAN MY AGE KNOWS ALL THIS, YOU DO NOT NEED TO REMIND ME! YOU'RE JUST BEING A DICK!"

That was probably 3 years ago... Tick, Tock...

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you bastard, you clearly "microaggressed" her. damn i love 21st century western culture.
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Quote: (01-06-2015 11:50 AM)Sonsowey Wrote:  

I have been angrily shouted down by a woman in her early 30s about fertility issues. I was commenting about something related to what your chances of conceiving are at different ages, and she lost it. I guess she was *triggered*. She told me "OK STOP, A WOMAN MY AGE KNOWS ALL THIS, YOU DO NOT NEED TO REMIND ME! YOU'RE JUST BEING A DICK!"

That was probably 3 years ago... Tick, Tock...

What'd you say to her after that?

"Men willingly believe what they wish." - Julius Caesar, De Bello Gallico, Book III, Ch. 18
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

This is a great song for this (in German):

This is the official video





Here is the same song where someone did a fairly decent translation in the video






Best lines of the song

man is nich so als wie man sich fühlt, sondern so alt wie man alt is.

one is not as they feel, they're as old as they're old

Mach dir keine Sorgen . . . deine Tochter Petra plötzlich Lara nennst

Don't be worried . . . [when] your daughter Petra is suddenly Lara

(talking about the effects of getting old- alzheimer's)
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Some sexism in the article from the author herself.

Her Doctor tells her like it is and her response? "She's a bitch"

Doctors are cold people, but even she accepts a man's aloofness over a woman's.
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Quote: (01-06-2015 12:50 PM)alexdagr81 Wrote:  

Some sexism in the article from the author herself.

Her Doctor tells her like it is and her response? "She's a bitch"

Doctors are cold people, but even she accepts a man's aloofness over a woman's.

Truth is to women as crucifixes are to vampires.

"Men willingly believe what they wish." - Julius Caesar, De Bello Gallico, Book III, Ch. 18
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Quote: (01-06-2015 12:52 PM)TheWastelander Wrote:  

Quote: (01-06-2015 12:50 PM)alexdagr81 Wrote:  

Some sexism in the article from the author herself.

Her Doctor tells her like it is and her response? "She's a bitch"

Doctors are cold people, but even she accepts a man's aloofness over a woman's.

Truth is to women as crucifixes are to vampires.

Logic is holy water.

"I have refused to wear a condom all of my life, for a simple reason – if I’m going to masturbate into a balloon why would I need a woman?"
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Just had a +30 yo chic friend (not interested) say "maybe kids aren't in the cards for me." To be fair, this she's already my one annoying feminist friend, but also the type of chic who would grow her own biz, etc.

My reply: "Yeah, I got allllll the time in the world."

“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

I don't have children. When women give me shit about this, my standard response is to tell them that I plan to have kids when I'm in my 60s with a woman in her 20s. This pisses them off, which I enjoy.

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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

They've spent their entire life delaying motherhood to pursue a career and aloof men. Now, at an age where some women are grandmothers, she wants to become a mother. The truth hurts, especially when you've built your life around ignoring it.
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Quote: (01-06-2015 09:42 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  

They've spent their entire life delaying motherhood to pursue a career and aloof men. Now, at an age where some women are grandmothers, she wants to become a mother. The truth hurts, especially when you've built your life around ignoring it.

I think the point of this article is that women raised since the advent of the birth control pill, those who were told to pursue degrees and careers, are realizing this (In fact, If you read the article, she holds feminism accountable for playing a role)

I think this article is a sign that a whole generation of women are coming to the conclusion that they were not told the truth, and are personally suffering for it.

She points out that sex ed is all about teaching kids how not to get pregnant, and that it should also include teaching girls the truth of fertility, and what those careers and degrees cost in the long run.

I think there is a real sense of being mislead, rather than just ignoring it. I mean, everything you hear in the media, everything they have been taught today pushes women toward believing they can have it all, and the is finally willing to admit it was a lie.

Now, will most younger women listen? Ehhhh... do young people EVER listen?[Image: smile.gif]
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Quote: (01-06-2015 11:50 AM)Sonsowey Wrote:  

I have been angrily shouted down by a woman in her early 30s about fertility issues. I was commenting about something related to what your chances of conceiving are at different ages, and she lost it. I guess she was *triggered*. She told me "OK STOP, A WOMAN MY AGE KNOWS ALL THIS, YOU DO NOT NEED TO REMIND ME! YOU'RE JUST BEING A DICK!"

That was probably 3 years ago... Tick, Tock...

I've had similar experiences, but in my case they seem to think it's a-ok to have their first kid later in life. They have zero ability to rationally analyze the situation from a proper medical perspective. It's as if you're the bad guy for merely bringing up that they might have missed the window.

My sister and mom and pretty much all female relatives are the same way. They've all been fed the Feminist Kool-Aid and buy it whether they realize it or not. And I'd classify most of them as somewhat "conservative" women re marriage, kids etc. (at least in terms of Western women). The more I come back the more I realize how ALL women in the US at least are infected with feminist doctrine, at least to a certain extent.

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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

I think of things like this when forum posters lament the irreversible decline of Western culture. At first it's one woman being shocked that she can't have a baby at her convenience. These kinds of accounts will pile up as the years go on. They will be as a warning to the fertile women of the future. Maybe not in New York City, but sure as hell in Peoria.

If civilization had been left in female hands we would still be living in grass huts. - Camille Paglia
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Quote: (01-06-2015 09:42 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  

They've spent their entire life delaying motherhood to pursue a career and aloof men. Now, at an age where some women are grandmothers, she wants to become a mother. The truth hurts, especially when you've built your life around ignoring it.

Is it really just the career and cock-carousel they are riding until their 30s? I think it's more than that. It's like they're living a disneyland fairytale of youth whereby they get to be responsibility-free, fun-loving, beer-drinking, Instagram photo shooting & Facebook-posting teenagers up until their 30s or later. Back in the day all males would be chastised as irresponsible cads for doing that but it's A-ok for women these days I guess.

That said, many certainly use their "career" as their ironclad rationale for "not settling down" and/or getting serious about life, but it's often just an easy excuse for their lame behavior.

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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Almost all the mid-20's women I know laugh at the idea of finding a husband, and say they don't really care about relationships at this point. It's so typical nowadays that we tend to forget what an insane mindset that is. These women have already peaked; their most attractive and fertile years are now entering the rearview mirror; yet they scoff at the idea of even beginning to utilize their attractiveness and fertility for its most meaningful purpose. It's sad, because many of them will probably slip through the cracks and end up old, lonely, and regretful. Feminism has brainwashed an entire generation of women that starting a family... probably the #1 source of joy and happiness for previous generations of women... should not be a priority, while forcing one's way into some mediocre career is the most important thing in the world and should never ever ever ever ever be sacrificed even a tiny bit for any reason, especially a man. This is already creating some nasty consequences, and it will only get worse.
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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Quote: (01-06-2015 10:35 PM)DrewP Wrote:  

Almost all the mid-20's women I know laugh at the idea of finding a husband, and say they don't really care about relationships at this point. It's so typical nowadays that we tend to forget what an insane mindset that is. These women have already peaked; their most attractive and fertile years are now entering the rearview mirror; yet they scoff at the idea of even beginning to utilize their attractiveness and fertility for its most meaningful purpose. It's sad, because many of them will probably slip through the cracks and end up old, lonely, and regretful. Feminism has brainwashed an entire generation of women that starting a family... probably the #1 source of joy and happiness for previous generations of women... should not be a priority, while forcing one's way into some mediocre career is the most important thing in the world and should never ever ever ever ever be sacrificed even a tiny bit for any reason, especially a man. This is already creating some nasty consequences, and it will only get worse.

What's sad is the last few girls 19-20 that I have dated banged are like this too. I have suspicions that one was even an alpha widow. If they haven't drank the koolaid already, they are holding a full glass, and it's on their lips. They're starting to taste the sweetness, then...

*sigh*

It's giving me motivation to focus on things other than the poonani though.
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t’s too painful to wonder what would have happened if that first gynaecologist had sat me down calmly and opened up some informative graphics to show how women’s fertility drastically declines with age – beginning at around 32, more rapidly after 37, then precipitously at 40. The way a doctor might explain to you the risk of smoking by showing you a picture of blackened lungs, or describe the effects fat has on arteries, often leading to heart attacks: simple medical facts, presented in an objective manner, without judgment or guilt or some hidden cultural agenda.

Sadly, all this is missing from the discussion on women’s fertility.

I don't think this is missing necessarily from these "discussions". The female ob/gyn seemed like an asshole but to be square she probably deals with a lot of barely fertile women trying to conceive. The doc was there dropping all kinds of truth bombs but the author was not paying attention.
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Many studies show that women are not only woefully ignorant when it comes to fertility, conception and the efficacy of assisted reproductive technologies (ART) – but they overestimate their knowledge about the subject.
Not surprised. I own a car but know precisely jack shit what a catalytic converter does. Women are the same way about their baby makers.

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Another way women might even out the fertility playing field is by focussing on the so-called male biological clock. But is there one? Although there have been recent news stories about how advanced age in men (over 40 or 50) increases time to conception and the incidence of autism and schizophrenia, the absolute risk is negligible. ‘When you look at the numbers, you have to separate what the absolute risk and the increased risk is,’ said Natan Bar-Chama, director of male reproductive medicine and surgery at Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York. ‘The absolute risk is still really very small.’

Just hazarding a guess here: older fathers most likely have children with older mothers, which could have skewed those results even further in a 'feminists' favor.

You don't see a lot of 70 year old men knocking up 20 year olds. You do, however, see a fair number of 50-55 year old men knocking up 30 year old women.
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Funny this thread got posted. I literally just had this conversation with an old fuck buddy of mine who lives on the other side of the country. We are both 29yo. She is an unabashed slut. Loves the cock. I asked her if she had plans for marriage or children. She said in "8 to 10 years" lol. I told her she really only has a couple years. Pregnancy complications become clinically significant starting at age 30. She immediately got pissed off and asked to change the subject.

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As for how/why American women don't know this, it's because their hamsters have been caffeinated with the you-go-girlisms of third wave feminism. They are willfully ignorant. I was in Manila a couple months ago and those broads know about their biological clocks. So how do Filipinas know this basic fact but American women don't? You would think being on their smart phones all the time they could Google it real quick. They have literally hamster rationalized away facts and truths because it allows them to keep doing what they are doing. They are not creatures of logic. That's why we say they think with their lizard brains. They are creatures of emotion.

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Author explores how little women know about their own fertility

Yes, the "carousel" is one reason women live in fantasyland about their fertility. But there is a bigger reason.

It's that women are being lied to on a mass scale, because that benefits a whole lot of people financially. Women are pawns in a larger game. Let me count the ways:

* Schools lie to them so girls can become future workers and consumers, not mothers.
* Parents lie to them because it's now a status symbol to have a "corporate daughter" instead of a grandkid.
* Corporations lie to them because they need them as worker bees.
* TV and radio lies to them because they want that valuable single-woman ad revenue.
* Churches lie to them because women are the main church-goers and they need them in the pews.
* Movies lie to them because women are the majority of movie-goers and they need the box office receipts.
* Older women lie to them because they religiously believe the messages of these movies and TV shows and don't know any better.
* Doctors lie to these women because if they don't, the women will throw tantrums and file complaints.
* Men lie to them because if men don't these women throw insane tantrums and the men won't get laid.
* Colleges can't tell them the truth because if they do, the women will scream and find the truth "triggering" and demand trigger warnings.
* Do I have to even say why all the feminist blogs and talk shows like "The View" lie to these women?

So America has developed a breed of woman who you can't talk to honestly about her own biology (this goes for obesity too). One step forward; ten steps back. All of our so-called progress, it seems, have landed us in the distant past, when women needed to be "shielded" from society.
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Quote: (01-07-2015 03:19 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

Yes, the "carousel" is one reason women live in fantasyland about their fertility. But there is a bigger reason.

It's that women are being lied to on a mass scale, because that benefits a whole lot of people financially. Women are pawns in a larger game. Let me count the ways:

* Schools lie to them so girls can become future workers and consumers, not mothers.
* Parents lie to them because it's now a status symbol to have a "corporate daughter" instead of a grandkid.
* Corporations lie to them because they need them as worker bees.
* TV and radio lies to them because they want that valuable single-woman ad revenue.
* Churches lie to them because women are the main church-goers and they need them in the pews.
* Movies lie to them because women are the majority of movie-goers and they need the box office receipts.
* Older women lie to them because they religiously believe the messages of these movies and TV shows and don't know any better.
* Doctors lie to these women because if they don't, the women will throw tantrums and file complaints.
* Men lie to them because if men don't these women throw insane tantrums and the men won't get laid.
* Colleges can't tell them the truth because if they do, the women will scream and find the truth "triggering" and demand trigger warnings.
* Do I have to even say why all the feminist blogs and talk shows like "The View" lie to these women?

So America has developed a breed of woman who you can't talk to honestly about her own biology (this goes for obesity too). One step forward; ten steps back. All of our so-called progress, it seems, have landed us in the distant past, when women needed to be "shielded" from society.

Pump and dump, comrade. That's all these 21st century western/westernized women are worth.
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I've always thought this - which is more contemptible, the pregnant teenager or the middle-aged childless woman?

It's definitely the latter. I actually feel respect now when I see a young girl with a child. At least she has reproduced. You won't see her moaning about being alone and pictures of her pets on facebook.
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Quote: (01-06-2015 10:35 PM)DrewP Wrote:  

Almost all the mid-20's women I know laugh at the idea of finding a husband, and say they don't really care about relationships at this point. It's so typical nowadays that we tend to forget what an insane mindset that is. These women have already peaked; their most attractive and fertile years are now entering the rearview mirror; yet they scoff at the idea of even beginning to utilize their attractiveness and fertility for its most meaningful purpose. It's sad, because many of them will probably slip through the cracks and end up old, lonely, and regretful. Feminism has brainwashed an entire generation of women that starting a family... probably the #1 source of joy and happiness for previous generations of women... should not be a priority, while forcing one's way into some mediocre career is the most important thing in the world and should never ever ever ever ever be sacrificed even a tiny bit for any reason, especially a man. This is already creating some nasty consequences, and it will only get worse.

If there is an evil shadowy Elite. They have just implemented a brilliant idea of depopulation. And if western society does not go extinct this will be the result:

I hear the boundless fainting of feminists once they realize this

The Return of Patriarchy

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