Quote: (12-16-2014 06:48 AM)Ensam Wrote:
.........Although I find the term PUA a little grotesque there is a bit of a parallel to being an artist. First you have to learn how to follow the rules (e.g. be an asshole) then you can strategically break them (find a way to still be assertive and attractive without going against your sense of self) when it suits you. But if you never learn the rules you wont know why you're breaking them and it'll just be a mess.
Yes good analogy. It's like playing rock guitar, you learn the basic chord vocabulary is I-ii-iii-IV-V-vi-viiDim
But when you listen to songs that are all like that it sounds like standard boring stuff-- just like "in-demand frat-style guy who's marginally amiable but makes sure to strongly hint you're expendable"
It's the basic VOCABULARY for gaming Anglosluts, but it's really pretty formulaic and boring to be that guy. But you should know that guy,and those chords.
Than on TOP of that you can add jazzy cool stuff, "..and I can do all this other stuff!!"