[Pinocchio]

Every girl is pretty much the same to me.

[Sourcecode]

Random theory.. Is it possibly that you think less attractive women are better at sex... because of your performance in bed?

I can admit to picking up a random busted chick every now and then that a 5 or 6.
And usually....Since I have no fucks to give, minus busting my nut...and I care less about the girl and probably look down on her.......Im more prone to throw out the freaky shit like fuck outside on the first date, try new thing in bed, be more forceful, ect.
I generally try to have as much fun as I can for my own sake.
One girl... I was banging for a while years ago. I would go to the bar and get drunk with other friends and if I didnt pick another girl. I would call her to pick me up ( I never went out with her) She would pick her up.. and drive somewhere..And I would have her get on her knees and blow me.. bust on her face in a park..
ect ect.

On the other hand..When I would me a banging chick 8+ for the first time.. Im usually less experimental. I fuck just as rough..but I admit to putting a little more into getting her off(So they come back for repeat bangs)
Since I use my standard bang routine..Its less random excitement and such... thus.. I may assume that she wasnt as good.

Ive talked to a couple friends about this also..
Long story short.. When the girl is much better looking and you value her more...You have less fun because of the perceived status difference.
You don't give a fuck about uglier girls.. and uglier girls are in it for the fun..Thus sex is more fun the first time.



But...Ive long gotten over that though.
Now I feel like its the opposite.. The 8+s ive banged have been much more fun in bed.
The first bangs with model quality girls ive been with, have been the best bangs I've ever had
.. because Im not placing them higher in my mind.
Now I fuck them with all the enjoyment and if they aren't starfish..they fuck back..

The uglier girls.. I put much less energy into now...
I put much less work into getting the bang... and by time im even in bed with them.. I just wanna get my nut and move on.


Usually the man leads the pace in the bed...and if you are high energy..she will usually reciprocate

[BadgerHut]

(12-04-2014 11:34 AM)The Great Basilisk Wrote:  

BONUS POINT FOR BEST BLOWJOB:
One of my current plates. Only one who has made me come from a blowjob.

I thought I was the only one who had trouble with that.

[Nascimento]

I think it's a function of how attractive the girl is AND how attracted she is to you. The more she is into you the better the sex will be, regardless if she is good in bed or not. Her wanting to please you more than herself is an ingredient of sex that is often overlooked in my opinion.

[HighSpeed_LowDrag]

(12-05-2014 12:27 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:  

(12-04-2014 11:34 AM)The Great Basilisk Wrote:  

BONUS POINT FOR BEST BLOWJOB:
One of my current plates. Only one who has made me come from a blowjob.

I thought I was the only one who had trouble with that.

Nope, same here. Only once have I ever been able to (it was my ex-girlfriend).

Weird, that.

HSLD

[Menace]

(12-05-2014 12:27 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:  

(12-04-2014 11:34 AM)The Great Basilisk Wrote:  

BONUS POINT FOR BEST BLOWJOB:
One of my current plates. Only one who has made me come from a blowjob.

I thought I was the only one who had trouble with that.

Almost always have trouble. Only time it happens is if I haven't banged for a while and am super turned on. Otherwise, no.

As for the topic at hand, the reality is that there is no way to know until your dick goes in. Plus, the thing that makes women better isn't really their fucking skills per se. I mean unless she's on top, you're doing 90% of the physical work, and there's not much skill in laying on your back or arching your back in doggy.

What I have found that makes women good in bed, is really a combination of their attitude, the way they touch you (aside from your dick area), familiarity with their own body, and the X factor of chemistry (pheromones or whatever it may be).

Of course certain pussies are also better than others, and that too you also can't predict. I used to think all pussies are the same, but the more you're in the game, the more you realize that they all have their peculiarities and pluses and minuses. They do not all feel the same. We are pussy sommeliers.

[Phoenix]

Have found no correlation.

[hardman]

I've found that the more comfortable she is in bed, the better the sex. I've also found that women in their late 20s/early 30s are usually better at sex than women in their early 20s, although there have been some notable exceptions. But without doubt, the more attractive (to me) the girl is, the better the sex.

Combine all three -- best sex ever.

[Kieran]

(12-05-2014 09:04 AM)Nascimento Wrote:  

I think it's a function of how attractive the girl is AND how attracted she is to you. The more she is into you the better the sex will be, regardless if she is good in bed or not. Her wanting to please you more than herself is an ingredient of sex that is often overlooked in my opinion.

Good point. Additionally, I tend to read a reluctance to give blowjobs as her not being all that attracted to me. Women that I know were very attracted to me, loved to give head, and would initiate sex all the time.

[jariel]

(12-07-2014 01:48 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

Have found no correlation.

Right, hot girl doesn't automatically equal good pussy.

[Grange]

As in most things in life, YOUR attitude is key. The best sex I ever had was with the hottest girl I ever laid, and the worst was with the ugliest...I was really into the hot chick so I brought my A game and she responded in kind. With the ugly chick I was only barely able to perform and she responded in kind. There is natural variation in "skill" among women, but your performance goes upward (linearly? exponentially? definitely upward) as the girl gets better looking.

[Mister X]

I think a lot of it is sexuality based. I mean I guess you can argue that, a girl will turn into a freak with the right guy, but at the same time, some girls are naturally more sexual and comfortable with themselves than others. More open to trying new things and getting involved and whatnot.

I think it's as some have said -- how much she wants you personally, but also how sexual she is as an individual. I don't think any of it is based on how physically attractive she is.

[WestIndianArchie]

aka "Lies that men tell themselves"

The visual rarely correlates with the behavioral.

WIA

[AneroidOcean]

(12-08-2014 04:45 PM)Mister X Wrote:  

I think a lot of it is sexuality based. I mean I guess you can argue that, a girl will turn into a freak with the right guy, but at the same time, some girls are naturally more sexual and comfortable with themselves than others. More open to trying new things and getting involved and whatnot.

I think it's as some have said -- how much she wants you personally, but also how sexual she is as an individual. I don't think any of it is based on how physically attractive she is.

A girl's sexuality and how deft she is in handling your cock of course have a lot to do with it, but all other things being equal (or at least close to it), how attractive she is will push a girl over the edge in terms of being better in bed by a guy's judgement. It's like taking out a shitbox beat up car on the race track that does the same lap time as a Ferrari. Driver will choose the Ferrari for all the visual excitement it brings.

[draketton]

Every man's standards for "hot" are different.

My standards include as a major factor athleticism, which is a clue that she's physically capable of holding my favorite sexual positions for an extended period of time.

Based on that standard, hotter = better sex.

[sandman972]

This is an interesting thread. Does a 6 who sucks cock like a champ and is game for anything in the sack better than a 8+ that's just mediocre in the

sack, but the access to that kind of pussy already makes the experience that much better (in turn is putting her pussy on a pedestal which is tough

to avoid). Me personally, id rather the mediocre sex and walk away with the solid notch under my belt. Everyone is different i guess

[Sonsowey]

I have found no correlation in skill at all.