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Using pity/guilt to get laid
12-02-2014, 04:29 PM
Has anyone ever successfully used guilt or pity to get laid?
Imagine you're in a foreign city, you don't know many people. You're on a date and tell a girl it's your birthday the next day, you don't have any plans, you don't know many people, you'll just spend it alone, blah blah you get the picture. My initial thought was this was a DLV and would just lower attraction, but there are plenty of bleeding-heart co-dependent women who might lap that shit up.
You could also take it a step further, like telling chicks you're an orphan or your father is dying of cancer/whatever.
I've never done this stuff but am keen to do so if it works.
Please do not complain about 'morality': I truly do not give a fuck. All is fair in love and war I say.
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12-02-2014, 04:38 PM
It's painting a very shaky circumstance (emotional) and showing your resolve (emotional).
Much like painting a very shaky circumstance (physical) and showing your resolve (physical), like telling the story of when you saved a girl getting mugged.
Regardless, in both cases, the emotional fortitude or bravery part of the story must be a subtle undertone. For instance, the mugging being completely about when you were most scared and how you were totally afraid for your life.
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12-02-2014, 04:42 PM
Super easy.
When you're in an LTR, build relationships with her friends and associates.
Display your alpha.
When the LTR falls apart, don't be surprised when them broads "reach out" and "you can talk to me"
Many of whom will slide you some puss out of pity and out of interest. They know nothing real can happen, but now they have an opportunity to "ease your pain".
But laying guilt on the big titty chick in your Organic Chemistry Lab Group WILL NEVER WORK.
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12-02-2014, 06:15 PM
I used a form of pity Game in my past.
Back then I was very passionate, but fully in Beta mode. Fortunately for me I also looked my very best in terrific shape, so when I spoke to some girls via my long intellectual melancholic monologues they consoled me with blowjobs and sex.
But it was in that case not really directed towards me trying to get them. I just had a high attraction value and talked to them about some inane philosophy in deep existential pain. I don't think that it was real DLV - more like the Game concept of Story Telling. My LTRs back then were not as successful.
In my opinion it works only in rare cases:
1. She is already attracted to you - good looks or some form of DHV - you fucked her friend, sister etc.
2. You are more a fallen Dark Triad guy - drunk, drug addict, drunken Alpha poet (Bukowski, DeliciousTacos etc.), ex-con - women lap up that shit and try to save that kind of man
I don't think that it works in straight out pity Game with a man they have no attraction for. Otherwise suicidal World of Warcraft Incel Fatties would only have to waltz up to a bar and tell a girl their sad pathetic life story.
But what works for a very good looking guy who appears sad and distant as he talkss about his lonely birthday in a foreign city will likely not work for average Joe.
But hey - you may try it out in a few approaches and let us know. In my opinion women lack that kind of empathy.
As far as morality is concerned - saying it's your birthday, your father died or something like that is not much of a big lie. Even if she becomes your happy LTR - she will not care about a small lie like that.
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12-02-2014, 07:58 PM
Super fucking Beta depending on what you do
However, pretending to be lost/unsure about directions/what grocery item to purchase can definitely be an opener- but the second you have her attention and trust, "pity game" needs to end.
Though I'll admit, I'll use slight pity game with girls I'm banging. "(My name), why have you only texted me at night?"
"Why can't you understand how hard I work? It's like you don't even make an effort to be my friend sometimes"
It doesn't exactly wet their panties, but it will make them try harder.
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12-02-2014, 10:37 PM
Heavy, can you elaborate on what you mean please? Sounds interesting, but I don't quite get the meta-concept. cheers.
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12-02-2014, 11:30 PM
Hell yeah pity works. They say pity is akin to love. I see all the time here in South Africa. Hotties from Europe fucking homeless dudes because the feel sorry for them.
Try working at charities and homeless shelters. Pussy will rain from the sky.
Don't debate me.
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12-03-2014, 08:07 PM
Homeless shelters. Now THAT'S an "ecosystem" I never considered.
To fuck the bleeding heart lib-tard girls that is, not the crazed heroin-addict crack whores.
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12-04-2014, 05:57 AM
Pride male are you serious lol!? Hotties fucking bums lol! Working at a shelter could definetly work!
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12-04-2014, 06:25 AM
^^ I am dead serious. You have to see it to believe it. Guess Western women are really fucked in the head. It's summer here so cute Swedish girls and Germans are out here hunting dick. No 8s and 9s just average 6s looking for fun fun fun.
I stay near a homeless shelter and see some things first hand. Its not like the dudes sleep outside, they stay at the shelter but are unemployed. The girls come to give a helping hand and one thing leads to the next.
Some Norwegian chick funded a dude who slept under a bridge last year. She knew about it. They are getting married.
There was shoemaker whose office was a plastic tent. Now he is in Germany.
Remember the dude from Gambia who married lots of Austrian women? Charles Manson? Pity game for the win!
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12-08-2014, 04:51 PM
Women are trecherous cunts. Namely they allocate their pussy on the basis of tingle rather than social justice, damn them! A homeless street-poet smack-head has way more chance of banging that bleeding heart libtard girl than say, the banker or engineer paying $70,000 a year in tax to support the said parasite.
Tingle is everything. Fair enough I say: I couldn't give a fuck how good a person a girl is if she's fat and ugly. Same same.