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11-29-2014, 06:06 AM
Hey guys so I went out with this girl id met at uni a few years back. I thought the date was going well and my intention was to get a makeout at the end of the night. At the end of the night I pulled in and she turned her head somewhat and said "Wow, I didn't know this was supposed to be a date". A fuck up on my part I guess. The following texts went like this:
her: hi. I just wanted to say that i had a good time the other night but i have realised that it doesn't feel right for me for this relationship to go any further than friends. You are a nice guy and I'm sure you will make someone very happy. I can understand if you don't want to talk to me again but I didn't want to lead you on. Sorry, hope you understand.
me: thats cool it was good catching up good luck with your career.
me: (a couple days later) Are you still up for bowling?
her: hi, I am really busy at the moment sorting stuff out before I go back to school so I can't really say yes at the moment. Sorry Ill let you know if things change.
Ok so on my part I really fucked up but this chick does seem LTR which is what I'm looking for so if you have any suggestions on a restart text and any tips on where I went wrong and how to improve itd be great. Thanks
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11-29-2014, 06:39 AM
She turned you down. #next
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11-29-2014, 06:44 AM
Your frame was wrong from the beginning. Maybe you werent sexual enough, thats why she were surprised that it was a date.
I think you should forget about her and get other girls. There is a good chance that you can find other girls with LTR potentiel
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11-29-2014, 12:12 PM
Quote: (11-29-2014 06:39 AM)Swedreams Wrote:
She turned you down. #next
I'd have to agree. Maybe OP can send a restart text in a few months.
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11-29-2014, 12:20 PM
Restart texts are for chicks who fell off, not for ones who out right rejected you.
Don't let a girl reject you twice, move forward. The only way you get this chick is if you happen to run into her in a year with a hotter girl on your arm, at which point - why bother?
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11-29-2014, 12:38 PM
U have been shot down. Your options now:
1) NEXT
2) NEXT
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3) NEXT
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11-29-2014, 12:45 PM
Accept that she is not interested in and move onto other girls. I give her respect for being upfront and honest. Most girls will just ignore you or give you some lame excuse. She told you like it is, clearly. Forget about a strategy on how to get this girl. It is game over..Next
You won't even remember her name if you meet someone hotter than her.
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11-29-2014, 06:46 PM
She flat out rejected you once and politely rejected you a second time (when you asked to go bowling).
To echoing everyone else who has read or will read this thread: N..E..X..T...........
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11-30-2014, 04:09 AM
The weird thing was a few years ago at uni we had set up a "date" for the movies but I dogged it because I didn't think anything of it I thought it was just to chill and she was really offended by that. I guess this is her way of getting back at me. So on a final note there really is no chance of a restart?
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12-01-2014, 08:29 PM
Look...If you want one more Hail Mary pass, text her to invite her out somewhere neutral (e.g. "Hey, going to XXXX house party. There'll be awesome margaritas and me. Drop by."). The point is to get her at the same place you are, and hopefully alone. You have a 1/17450 chance that it works.
Again, it will most likely NOT work.
If it doesn't (which it likely won't), move (the f!) on.
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06-19-2017, 06:58 AM
Hey guys, there was this girl who I met about a year and a half ago. She was interested but I kind of hesitated and didnt go for the kill when the time was right but we kind of still hung out. Then she moved on to another city. So, if you happened to be in her city for a weekend,
1. When would you send the re-start text? When you are in the city, say friday afternoon for a weekend meet or friday night itself or earlier in the week?
2. What can the restart text contain to stimulate maximum interest to meet?
Will be great to hear your opinions and experiences.
Cheers
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06-20-2017, 07:47 PM
Have some pride, she rejected you.
Go find another (of the billions) woman who doesn't reject you.
Have some pride. Do not hang out, do not become orbiter.
She should be dead to you now.
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06-21-2017, 11:07 PM
^ This.
When you're not sure what a girl means, put things the other way and put yourself in her shoes: Would you tell one of your plates that gives you awesone BJs that "you'll let her know what things change because you're busy"? I think not, but if you're genuinely busy, you might do something like "This week is hard for me - how about we try next week?" or something to let her know that you're interested. What she did was a weak response that means that she's not interested.
You have 3 choices at this point:
1) Next
2) Next
3) Next
If you really want to see her, there MIGHT be a 4th option, if your game was weak the first time - that 4th option is: Next.