First and foremost i just want to warn you that this post may be rather long but this is my first post as a member of this community and i feel that it's only right that I introduce myself .
I know the rules here are rather strict and I have read all of the forum rules before posting however If I do make any infringements please alert me to them and i'll edit them immediately .
Now before a begin , I want to thank members of this forum as I have been reading countless threads on this forum for a while and you have gave me priceless experience/techniques that I probably would have never learned solo .
That being said , let me first tell you the life changes I have made after finally accepting the red pill , please feel free to give me advice on any of these :
Life changes made :
1. I have being reading and rereading the following books thoroughly : Bang , Day Bang , 48 Laws of Power
2. I have completely changed my diet . It now only consists of :
Peanut butter , Oats , Brown Rice , Tuna , Eggs , Spinach and Red Kidney Beans . Unfortunately as a student , financially times are extremely hard so I have been unable to add Whey Protein Powder to my diet .
3. Again due to my finances , I have being unable to join a gym , however I have weights ( 10 KG ) and I have been using them and my own body weight to exercise . I also run once per week . ( On Sundays )
4. I cut my hair . Now this may seem banal to you but let me bring some context to this . Ever since I was 14 , I always thought my hair was part of my success with girls . I never cut it as i thought it made me look bad . Me cutting my hair meant two things to me :
- A symbol of my change in lifestyle , of turning over a new leaf in my life and starting fresh . If I can be successful with girls ( and other aspects of life ) whilst knowing that I don't even look my best , this will increase my confidence ten-fold .
- To give me more motivation to work out . I believe that me being skinny and bald makes me unattractive , so it will give me incentive to work out harder .
5. I started my 100 approaches challenge .
These are the lifestyle changes I have made . Please feel free to critique . I am open and willing to try all suggestions to better myself as a young man .
Let me now move on to the second part of my post , I require some expert advice on my daygame.
Daygame analysis
I finally got my first number recently on my sixth approach . This was a big deal for me , not because of the girl but because , I studied very hard to improve my game and so any progress is a huge achievement .
However I would like to show you how the conversation went down and allow you to give me advice on how to improve . I have also self analysed myself in brackets but your analysis is priceless to me :
M - Excuse me , Where do you get that bag? ( I had to repeat myself three times and actually touch her to get her attention , i’ll need to work on that )
F - I don’t know i got it as a present ,
M - I’ve been looking for one similar to that for my sister but with a leopard print does it have a logo or something ?
F *Shows me logo*
M - Does it have a lot of pockets my sister fits a million things in her bag
F - Yeah i guess
My ramble is dying here so I decided to switch to GALNUC (maybe i should have waited but i literally ran out of gas early so i decided to risk it )
M - By the way are you half german?
F - She laughs and looks a bit offended, says something like “why would you think that “
M - I used to live in Germany when I did dance competitions and your face has a German bone structure , don’t be offended German girls look nice * with a cocky smile *
She laughs and looks a bit embarrassed, At this point her phone rings and she actually puts it in silent .. I know im in
M -How old are you ?
F - 21
M - Me too, so what do you do around here work ? uni ?
F - I just left work *points to the health care center*
M - Wow this early? you must have started around 7 in the morning right?
F - 6 am
M - That’s crazy i remember when i worked in London.. (More ramble about how long my journey to work was , I manage to make her laugh a few times )
M - So where do you usually hang out ?
F - I don’t go out much these days ..
M - Really ? Your 21 what’s going on ? You’ll regret this when your 35 ..
At this point im lightly teasing her about her lack of going out, ask her questions about what club she used to go to etc etc
M - You seem kinda cool , give me your number we’ll hang out sometime
F - My boyfriend will go mental
At this point I’m going purely of instinct as i haven’t really prepared any responses to a BF shit test
M - Why ? you’re not doing anything wrong , we’re just going to get to know each other
She says something about how she’s not allowed and at this point i get a flash of inspiration and say :
M - You deserve to be with someone who trusts you whilst touching her forearm and smiling
She laughs and says do you want to see my blocked list * shows me her blocked list * i make a couple jokes about how long it is *
I tell her “ he doesn’t have to know “
She laughs says he checks through her phone and that he might call
I tell her ill pretend I’m a new employee at her work place
I attempt to number close again ( I was a little too direct/aggressive here , next time i’ll number close by something something like “ it’ll will be okay, he won’t know , whip out my phone and say “ Go ahead “
She cedes
I eject by telling her i’ve got some shopping to do (I probably should have given her a hug to show my intentions even more)
As you can see I've attempted to analyse myself but as a game beginner I need points of view from more experienced members .
Also one last question :
Now I texted this girl the same day ( 3 hours later ) This is how the convo went :
M - hey natalie is creation , what's up ?
F - Hey you okay give me a text tomorrow I'm with my boyF x
No reply from me . The next day i text her :
M - you clear from the gestapo ?
No reply from her .
Now I know you should never insult the boyfriend as doing so insults her choices and it will always backfire , but in this situation I was making a joke about how possessive her boyfriend is and attempting to plant a seed in her mind that makes him seem beta . ( I learned this from Scorpion )
Was this too aggressive ? Should i have played it safer ?
Again I apologize for the long post . But it's my first post on in this community and I had many questions . Thank you for reading all this .
I know the rules here are rather strict and I have read all of the forum rules before posting however If I do make any infringements please alert me to them and i'll edit them immediately .
Now before a begin , I want to thank members of this forum as I have been reading countless threads on this forum for a while and you have gave me priceless experience/techniques that I probably would have never learned solo .
That being said , let me first tell you the life changes I have made after finally accepting the red pill , please feel free to give me advice on any of these :
Life changes made :
1. I have being reading and rereading the following books thoroughly : Bang , Day Bang , 48 Laws of Power
2. I have completely changed my diet . It now only consists of :
Peanut butter , Oats , Brown Rice , Tuna , Eggs , Spinach and Red Kidney Beans . Unfortunately as a student , financially times are extremely hard so I have been unable to add Whey Protein Powder to my diet .
3. Again due to my finances , I have being unable to join a gym , however I have weights ( 10 KG ) and I have been using them and my own body weight to exercise . I also run once per week . ( On Sundays )
4. I cut my hair . Now this may seem banal to you but let me bring some context to this . Ever since I was 14 , I always thought my hair was part of my success with girls . I never cut it as i thought it made me look bad . Me cutting my hair meant two things to me :
- A symbol of my change in lifestyle , of turning over a new leaf in my life and starting fresh . If I can be successful with girls ( and other aspects of life ) whilst knowing that I don't even look my best , this will increase my confidence ten-fold .
- To give me more motivation to work out . I believe that me being skinny and bald makes me unattractive , so it will give me incentive to work out harder .
5. I started my 100 approaches challenge .
These are the lifestyle changes I have made . Please feel free to critique . I am open and willing to try all suggestions to better myself as a young man .
Let me now move on to the second part of my post , I require some expert advice on my daygame.
Daygame analysis
I finally got my first number recently on my sixth approach . This was a big deal for me , not because of the girl but because , I studied very hard to improve my game and so any progress is a huge achievement .
However I would like to show you how the conversation went down and allow you to give me advice on how to improve . I have also self analysed myself in brackets but your analysis is priceless to me :
M - Excuse me , Where do you get that bag? ( I had to repeat myself three times and actually touch her to get her attention , i’ll need to work on that )
F - I don’t know i got it as a present ,
M - I’ve been looking for one similar to that for my sister but with a leopard print does it have a logo or something ?
F *Shows me logo*
M - Does it have a lot of pockets my sister fits a million things in her bag
F - Yeah i guess
My ramble is dying here so I decided to switch to GALNUC (maybe i should have waited but i literally ran out of gas early so i decided to risk it )
M - By the way are you half german?
F - She laughs and looks a bit offended, says something like “why would you think that “
M - I used to live in Germany when I did dance competitions and your face has a German bone structure , don’t be offended German girls look nice * with a cocky smile *
She laughs and looks a bit embarrassed, At this point her phone rings and she actually puts it in silent .. I know im in
M -How old are you ?
F - 21
M - Me too, so what do you do around here work ? uni ?
F - I just left work *points to the health care center*
M - Wow this early? you must have started around 7 in the morning right?
F - 6 am
M - That’s crazy i remember when i worked in London.. (More ramble about how long my journey to work was , I manage to make her laugh a few times )
M - So where do you usually hang out ?
F - I don’t go out much these days ..
M - Really ? Your 21 what’s going on ? You’ll regret this when your 35 ..
At this point im lightly teasing her about her lack of going out, ask her questions about what club she used to go to etc etc
M - You seem kinda cool , give me your number we’ll hang out sometime
F - My boyfriend will go mental
At this point I’m going purely of instinct as i haven’t really prepared any responses to a BF shit test
M - Why ? you’re not doing anything wrong , we’re just going to get to know each other
She says something about how she’s not allowed and at this point i get a flash of inspiration and say :
M - You deserve to be with someone who trusts you whilst touching her forearm and smiling
She laughs and says do you want to see my blocked list * shows me her blocked list * i make a couple jokes about how long it is *
I tell her “ he doesn’t have to know “
She laughs says he checks through her phone and that he might call
I tell her ill pretend I’m a new employee at her work place
I attempt to number close again ( I was a little too direct/aggressive here , next time i’ll number close by something something like “ it’ll will be okay, he won’t know , whip out my phone and say “ Go ahead “
She cedes
I eject by telling her i’ve got some shopping to do (I probably should have given her a hug to show my intentions even more)
As you can see I've attempted to analyse myself but as a game beginner I need points of view from more experienced members .
Also one last question :
Now I texted this girl the same day ( 3 hours later ) This is how the convo went :
M - hey natalie is creation , what's up ?
F - Hey you okay give me a text tomorrow I'm with my boyF x
No reply from me . The next day i text her :
M - you clear from the gestapo ?
No reply from her .
Now I know you should never insult the boyfriend as doing so insults her choices and it will always backfire , but in this situation I was making a joke about how possessive her boyfriend is and attempting to plant a seed in her mind that makes him seem beta . ( I learned this from Scorpion )
Was this too aggressive ? Should i have played it safer ?
Again I apologize for the long post . But it's my first post on in this community and I had many questions . Thank you for reading all this .