[Phoenix]

(12-27-2014 04:11 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  

I have no idea how to set game goals for myself.

Any pointers?

Serious question.

Right now I am happy with my sex life. Sure there is always room for improvement, but I don't know how to quantify that. I barely know if the last girl I banged was an 8, or was she a 9? Maybe some guys would say she's a 7.

Don't get me wrong - my sex drive is incredibly high, and my dick can barely keep up with me most of the time.

But how do I set goals around that? I'm going to actively pursue sleeping with new and good looking girls in the coming year, but beyond that I'm conflicted with setting a specific direction for myself.

I have a list of goals in a 'stack', and a list of goals for this coming year.
As said before, the goals must be specific.

With sex goals, you are correct that the popular 1-10 scale is too difficult to apply objectively.

Hence, I just set goals for specific attributes I want to cover. This will include nationalities or races I want to cover, or specific body or face attributes etc. It is much harder to bullshit around a girl having a big bum or blue eyes or being Korean or being 5'10.

I also include relationship goals and number goals if I am going for that, and also sex achievements/experiences that I haven't attained but want to.

[Th0r]

I'm divided as to whether I pursue quality or quantity.

Maybe I should continue to choose quantity over quality and keep improving myself, knowing the quality of the girls I'm banging will increase...

[General Mayhem]

I've got a lot of things I would like to focus on outside of game. I want to get ripped instead of just being huge(195 down to 178-180ish) and I want to work on my writing and making money.

I've got a new LTR and she is a pretty fly girl. I think the best play for me is to ride out the final semester of my senior year of uni just playing taken guy game. I'm not worried about getting rusty. This girl keeps me sharp, and allows me to focus on other pursuits.

One of my more concrete goals is to keep seeking out higher quality women to surround myself with. Having an abundance of mediocre 7s doesn't do it for me. I want an abundance of quality girls who really get my dick hard(8s with frontal lobe capacity). Consider it an insurance policy in case my LTR goes south. Going into 2014 I didn't have anything built up. Right now I have some fly girls in my life that I am going to continue to add to. Essentially, I'm going to experiment with having some hot female friends for once.

Aside from that I want to keep working on my inner game. I've come a long way in the past year in terms of not being a raging asshole, but I've still got work to do.

[RealityCheck]

Here are my goals for 2015:
-At least 20 notches. 2013 was my zero year of game. 2014 was when I put in the foundational work in the trenches, still learning the ropes. I still have a lot to learn, but, to use an analogy, I feel like I've finished the shit-eating phase of basic training. I'm ready to step it up to the next level and truly start getting the notch count of a player. I don't consider 20 especially high in comparison to where I want to get to, but I believe that at least 20 or so a year is what separates the average from the players.
-Keep night gaming, albeit on my limited budget, and keep improving my game.
-Get into day gaming. I've neglected this. Straight up, it takes balls to approach during the day and even though my approach anxiety is conquered at night, during the day I feel like I'm in handcuffs. I've done day game in limited instances in the past, but this year it's time to step it up and quit being a pussy.
-Build and manage a harem, have girls on the go, and never have to suffer through dry streaks.
-Have a MFF threesome. This will be tough, but if I can manage a harem and pitch the idea to girls over the course of the entire year I might be able to pull it off.

[Hedonistic Traveler]

Game Goals
12 new notches: I'd like to shoot for higher, but I'll be in Korea until at least May, which might hinder things.

3 new "flags": I have loose plans to visit 5 countries in 2015, might even do more.

100 daytime approaches: I'm not sure if I'll start this in Korea, I might have to wait until the next country.

General Lifestyle Goals

Monthly budget: I've done well in the past without one, but I'd like to set one and stick to it.

Start a martial art: Set to start Judo on 1/12. I'm going to commit to 3-months no matter what.

Stick with gym routine: I'm only a month in but I'm already feeling stronger. I want to stick with it through 2015.

[Stratos]

RealityCheck - MFF is way easier than you think; way more girls are down for it then they let on. It's usually just gaming 2 of them at the same time and moving along if they are getting along. The usual routine i.e. invite them out for a drink, back to your place to hang out, and start getting snuggly, if one of them blows out it's just like if it's 1 of them and lots of times both will stick around to "compete" for you and because it's "hot". Don't overthink it just make invitations and keep things moving along. Don't "pitch" the girls on the idea just get the rodeo going.

[TXH]

My Game Goals (in order of priority):
- Approach 10-50 college girls at least 10 weeks of the spring, and 10 weeks of the fall. Focus on 19-20yo, 100% daygame, on and around college campuses (aka Giovanni style). This should net roughly 500 approaches, and 4-15 bangs depending on my ratio
- Drop the time wasting with old flames, with my free time, my internet time, and my headspace
- Maintain as many FB's as possible in summer and winter (stay in during extreme weather)
- Practice daygame on tourists during the summer (around hotels, the hour before sunset, etc)
- Jerk it only on Sunday nights
- Field test and collect lines/replies which exude a chill, passionate, accomplished, dominant vibe

Body:
- Lose 2" of my love handles by May 15th (measure before every workout). Mainly through eating more paleo, and going from see-food diet to regular fit meals with known calorie counts
- Do full body workouts 3x/wk in spring and summer. Experiment with arm/shoulder muscle gaining (measure before every workout)

Mind:
- Pass the next level certification in my career
- Read hard for 30 minutes, 6 nights per week

Spirit (deep psychology)
- Meditate 5-10 minutes every day for self acceptance, self love, being in the present (watching the breath)

[The_CEO]

I will be more specific with mine.

Gonna do the 100 approach thing (day focus). Started last week.

[Ryan James]

Goals for 2015.

Jan 1st 2015 I'm starting off the year with "30 Days of Discipline"
Approach at least one girl everyday in 2015 even if it's just asking for the time I will approach everyday 365 days to keep the habit up.
Get 12 lays from Daygame.
Get a blue belt in BJJ.
Lift weights in the gym at least 2x per week.
Earn $3000 per month from online poker.
Meditate everyday for 1hr with Holosync.
Move to London.

[Richiavelli]

-Smash 4 new girls this year. One more than last year.
-Start online company
-Try investment banking
-Girls I find attractive to I must at least say "Hi"

[-eWf]

I have no girls in my rotation atm (all dumped me), so this year im gonna go hard.

- get at least 15 day game lays
- limit the alki right down
- get to 200 notches
- travel end of year
- constant gym every second day
- meet some beautiful women that sweep me off my feet


I like to focus my goals on a more month to month basis than year to year, makes me more likely to succeed and stick to them

[The_CEO]

More:

-100 approaches.
-Eliminate any fear or hesitation in approach (as Gio says)...speak up, talk to anyone etc... the most beautiful women.
-By July, learn basic portuguese for work reasons (I already speak spanish).
-Complete at least 3 tough endurance races in my sport. One should be a longer distance than the others.
-Complete a major project pertinent to my field (as Roosh rec's)

[8ball]

The past 2 years havn't been easy. After finally adjusting to a new city and with a stable career i have very high hopes for 2015.

Game
-Come out of the shadows and Build my online presence. Would like to get 2 new bangs strictly from this. Document the interesting parts of my life. Take professional photos.
-Fix my tinder game, i actually get a ton of matches(good looking) but i have a terrible date conversion ration.
- Fix my text game, i don't have much of a problem getting numbers from online but i waste too many opportunities.
- Be a little more patient and don't give a fuck. My problem is i delete numbers as soon as they say "i can't (insert date and time)." Will have to start being a little more persistent.
- Get at least 1 bang from my night classes.
- Get at least 1 bang from network functions
- Get at least 1 bang from Day-game
- Get 18 new bangs.

Physique/look
-Start vigorously taking care of my skin
- Consistant grooming.
- purchase 3 new going out clothes.
- Would like to bench 1.5* what i do now.
- Cut Drinking to only important social functions
- No more
-Join Sports league and play consistently(prob Soccer)
-Join Yoga

Finance Career
-Get 6 digit income(i am already close to achieving this)
-Finish my Certificate
-Start new Certificate
-Restart my online business(it failed the last time)
-Make at least 4 new industry connections.


Travel
It's not really important right now but i have the following plans.
-Santa Barbara
-San Francisco
-New Orleans
-Miami
-Book Vegas long weekends(5 in total) well in advance(i over-payed this year)

[Cobra]

My goal is to post in this thread soon once I figure out what my game goals should be. That'll honestly be a huge step for me and will get me over the first fear which is accountability. I've realized lately that holding myself accountable and setting achievable goals can do wonders at work.

It has been tough lately at a philosophical, inner game, and also lifestyle level. So, I've been sort of ignoring game and related goals. But coming to this thread today and reading all of the above is motivating.

[The_e_man]

I have written this up in a word document for myself and a good friend of mine today and I figured it would be perfect to add to this thread.

2015 Game Plan

General
-Read at least 30 minutes every day
-On weekdays, be in bed by a reasonable hour and get an early start to the day
-Never let school slip behind. Stay on top and spend at least one hour a day on studying.

Gym
-Be more consistent with working out. Get into a rhythm and stay in it.
-100% focus at the gym, no joking around, laughing, talking shit, etc. Plenty of time for that in the steam room, only focus on the workout.
-Always ensure macros are met for the day. At least 100g protein, 250g carbs, 3000 calories
-Legs twice a week

Game
-See an attractive girl? Approach her, no excuses
-Only approach high caliber women (7+), leave the trolls for the betas
-Be outcome independent, don’t worry too much about notch count, and have fun in the moment
-That being said, still aim for 50 notches by the end of the year, but don’t make this a strict quota that must be pursued
-Take absolutely no disrespect from a broad
-Tired? Nervous? None of your friends want to go out tonight? Still go out anyway. Roll solo if needed. 90% of success is just showing up.
-No more alcohol. Stop being a pussy and just approach. This is what separates the alphas from the betas.
-Stop relying so much on asshole game – only attracts bottom of the barrel girls that offer nothing
-Be more genuine
-Don’t allow the girl to experience buyer’s remorse from SNL’s, try and build some comfort with her. This will help with building a harem.
-Leave comfort zone as much as possible. Instead of rolling out with your boys, roll solo. Be comfortable in your own skin.

[Switch]

These aren't only my game goals but my goals in general. 2015 will be considered a successful year for me if I...

Fitness
- Achieve 8% bodyfat from 17% or so (5'10 170 presently)
- Increase Bench Press from 155 lbs to 225 lbs x 3 reps
- Increase OHP from 75 lbs to 110 lbs x 3 reps
- Increase Squat from 175 lbs to 250 x 3 reps
- Do 25 consecutive dead-hang pullups (12 current)

Other Health
- Drink a gallon of water every day (will accomplish by
- Completely cut out soda, even diet soda, and milk too
- Take a multivitamin every day

Mind
- Read 15 non-fiction books
- Write a few philosophical essays, don't even have to publish just get thoughts onto paper
- Stop procrastinating
- Outline my whole week on every Sunday

Money
- Get part-time job ASAP, save 75% of each paycheck
- Get all financial accounts organized into personalcapital.com (I love to track shit)
- Get a credit card to start building credit
- Begin building freelance writing portfolio and get clients

Game
- Get girlfriend to enjoy bountiful fornication

Life in general
- Enter a University
or
- Visit every country in South America

That's all for now. I have plans to achieve each of these goals.

[MikeD]

1- first day-game bang
2- traveling
3- deal my salary with my boss. The game brought back the confidence I had before. Time to step up and bring my life to an other level!
4- get laid with Europeans.

[TheFinalEpic]

I like how this has transformed from just a game goals thread to overall goals for the year.

I'll bite, to make myself accountable. Always write the goals for the year ahead the night of new years eve to have a whole year to look forward to.

Mind Goals:
-Read 10 books
-Learn a difficult Metallica song on guitar in it's entirety
-Study a language 3+hours a week
-Graduate in December from University
-Begin Real Estate license

Body Goals:
-190 lbs at sub 10% bf
-300 lbs bench press
-135 lbs squat (returning from breaking my back, this would be a huge step in my recovery process).

Business goals:
-Make $100k through combined alleys of sales, new business, and online store that I am working on.
-$2-5k profit in the stock market (would be about a 25% performance in my portfolio.)
-Purchase one investment property

Finally, Game Goals:
-Approach one new girl every single day, even if it is literally asking for the time.
-5 quality notches (8+/10) from day game
-10-15 notches on the year.
-Start rolling solo one-two nights a month (currently don't go out frequently at all and generally day game at university or when I'm running errands).

[brick tamland]

Deleted (phone troubles)

[brick tamland]

(11-28-2014 08:55 AM)Redwood Wrote:  

1. Stay single. No exceptions.

2. Increase my payload. No exceptions.

3. Approach any girl that passes the boner test, regardless if I'm nervous or not. No exceptions.

4. Travel and build connections. No exceptions.

That's about all I can think of.

#3 would make a big difference for me.

[GreenLion]

- Approach at least 10 girls / week
- Being completely fluent in Norwegian
- Start learning how to trade forex

[Earl Grey]

Game:

- 12 new notches by the end of the year. Must be at least a 6+ to count
- Build a harem of at least two girls
- Read and study the approach thread on RVF
- Do 100 daytime approaches and log them all in a thread in the newbie forum
- Get high quality photos of myself to help increase the passive pussy stream from online dating

Personal:

- Learn to cook nutritious, quick meals (at least 3 dishes)
- Limit sleep to 6 hours during weekdays, 8 hours during weekends
- Limit masturbation to once a week, Sundays only
- Decide on whether to go get my MBA or use the cash to start a business
- Read at least 12 books
- Do a minimum of 30 minutes of high intensity exercise (bodyweight and cardio) at least 5 days a week
- Commute to work with my bicycle as long as temperature is above freezing, no rain in the forecast, or no snow/ice on the roads
- Upgrade my wardrobe with at least 3 sets of high quality clothes (thinking of using Trunkclub)

[LAX]

Motto for 2015 - 8s or Late's

Epic goal
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2-3 Santa Monica/Westside post-sorority type 8+s
2-3 Venice type 8+s
2-3 Hollywood actress types 8+s
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Measurable goal
10-15 notches ~ 2/month
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Quantifiable goals
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• 1 approach a day. If going out at night min 2 approaches
• Guitar lessons once a week
• Duolingo/rosetta stone spanish
• push myself into bigger waves when its big
  

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Self-improvment
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identify game transition weaknesses and focus on improvement techniques

[ElJefe]

I have a huge list of self-improvement goals. I still have some basic stuff I need to master.

The specifically game related goals are

Looks:
Drop 25lbs of pudge
Upgrade wardrobe
Implement a grooming routine

Emotional state
Meditate daily (just 5-10 minutes). I miss the time when I was young and carefree and unconcerned
Set aside resources specifically for "fun" stuff, like traveling
Finish up renovating bachelor pad, get it set up

Bankroll
Increase income 100%
Implement financial plan

Women
Talk to women. A lot. Just 3 genuine approaches weekly outside of night-game.
Go out at least twice a month, but no more getting smashed.

[Phoenix]

Added:
- At least 7 days of sex in a row