Get to a stage where I run active game as opposed to 'don't fuck up game'. At the moment I am basically playing stand up and be counted game (which isnt really game at all), where I'm mainly dealing with slutty girls who are below me in SMV (5s and 6s) approaching me or being overly friendly off indirect approaches and banging them but not really feeling great about it.
In more actionable language:
- Get 12 notches.
- Go on dates with at least 6, and have repeat bangs with 4 girls. (My notch count is 10, but I have probably busted my nut in/ on a girl around 30 times- I almost never get repeat bangs, and have never been in a situation where I'm consistently having sex).
- Completely work through my boner problems (been having a lot of problems getting it up for ONS). I think that alot of this comes from relying too much on pulling girls on ONS (you've often been drinking and the quality is often pretty low). I know it sounds soft, but I feel like I'd have better sex with girls I'd spoken with a little pre bang and who make me work for it a little bit. (I don't even know the name of some of the girls I fuck). Also, I find there is too much pressure when having sex with sluts, as you know they have seen it all before.
- Get a girl who is into me. Instead of fucking girls once and basically pulling a hit and run, I want to have at least one hot girl (7 or above) actually looking for the dick.
- Fuck two girls who genuinely 'never do this'. I'm tired of banging sluts and want to have sex with a couple of good girls.
- Make girls (and guys laugh) a lot more.
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Thats my active game (which is really lagging).
I also want some improvement in my passive game (physique, style, etc).
I hope to hit 230lbs @ 10bf next year, train on 120 kgs on the bench, 190 kgs on squat. I'm already reaching the point of diminishing returns from fitness and am getting a little bored, but feel like I might as well press home my advantage here.
I know it sounds like I'm trying to improve a million different things, but its basically a lot of measurable facets of the same goal and should be achievable.
In more actionable language:
- Get 12 notches.
- Go on dates with at least 6, and have repeat bangs with 4 girls. (My notch count is 10, but I have probably busted my nut in/ on a girl around 30 times- I almost never get repeat bangs, and have never been in a situation where I'm consistently having sex).
- Completely work through my boner problems (been having a lot of problems getting it up for ONS). I think that alot of this comes from relying too much on pulling girls on ONS (you've often been drinking and the quality is often pretty low). I know it sounds soft, but I feel like I'd have better sex with girls I'd spoken with a little pre bang and who make me work for it a little bit. (I don't even know the name of some of the girls I fuck). Also, I find there is too much pressure when having sex with sluts, as you know they have seen it all before.
- Get a girl who is into me. Instead of fucking girls once and basically pulling a hit and run, I want to have at least one hot girl (7 or above) actually looking for the dick.
- Fuck two girls who genuinely 'never do this'. I'm tired of banging sluts and want to have sex with a couple of good girls.
- Make girls (and guys laugh) a lot more.
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Thats my active game (which is really lagging).
I also want some improvement in my passive game (physique, style, etc).
I hope to hit 230lbs @ 10bf next year, train on 120 kgs on the bench, 190 kgs on squat. I'm already reaching the point of diminishing returns from fitness and am getting a little bored, but feel like I might as well press home my advantage here.
I know it sounds like I'm trying to improve a million different things, but its basically a lot of measurable facets of the same goal and should be achievable.