[enderilluminatus]

I met them both online. I started talking with one of them a while ago but she flaked on the date. Then I started talking with her roomie last night and we actually have a lot in common and started setting up a future date. Then this morning I woke up to the first girl eager to set up a coffee date. So I'm guessing there is some level of competition here but I'm not sure what to do, I've never been in this situation before. Ideally, of course, I would fuck both of them. Oh and they're both obsessed with fitness so they have hot bodies. They're both hot body sevens but I think the latter of the two is slightly more attractive.

How do I do this?

Edit: I forgot to mention that I am currently living at home with my parents while I pay off debt so I can't bring them back to my place. I figure that complicates the situation slightly. Although they do have different work schedules.

[FrenchCanadian]

when Roosh says to listen to Seinfeld, for it gives out wise advice, there's a actual reason behind that statement.

[enderilluminatus]

Yeah I've been watching an episode every day and actually learning a lot. So I pursue both of them openly? I don't want to switch, I want both lol.

[Engineer]

Game On!!!

My take is start with on the one who seems less into you. That makes the later invite to the second one easier, after you lock down the first. Whatever you do, make sure your fitness level is tiptop and improving.

Best of luck. Hope this ends with you banging both!

[brick tamland]

Get a two (them) on one (you). It will change your perspective

[enderilluminatus]

(11-24-2014 02:43 PM)Engineer Wrote:  

Game On!!!

My take is start with on the one who seems less into you. That makes the later invite to the second one easier, after you lock down the first. Whatever you do, make sure your fitness level is tiptop and improving.

Best of luck. Hope this ends with you banging both!

Thanks man. I'm about the same height as both and in okay shape. Kinda flabby but my work (in a metal factory) has made me much stockier since i started. Ive been putting off starting a new diet and convict conditioning but now is clearly the best time possible to start.

[enderilluminatus]

(11-24-2014 03:52 PM)brick tamland Wrote:  

Get a two (them) on one (you). It will change your perspective

Having a threesome would obviously be the best possible outcome. The girl who recently gave me her number wants to do rap karaoke with me and the girl who lost interest until her roomie became interested wants coffee. With the holiday weekend im not sure if i should try for karaoke this sunday and coffee the next weekend. This is the most intimidated I've ever been by a dating situation lol

[enderilluminatus]

I'm trying to get fit karaoke rapper girl on a date but she works a lot and our schedules kinda conflict. Maybe something this saturday, we'll see. I probably won't meet up with coffee girl first.

I seriously feel kinda awkward and unsure of myself with this. I'm afraid I'm gonna offend one of them and then blow this thing. It seems a lot more complicated trying to simultaneously game two girls who live together and probably know I have both of their numbers due to online dating lol.

Edit: scratch that, looks like she doesn't work on Saturday! One of the most important things I've learned from this website is waiting as long to text girls as it takes them to text you. I feel so powerful as opposed to needy like when I used to reply instantly to their text and wait by my phone for hours until they replied.

[Onto]

Could be worse, at least you don't live with them!

One summer, when I was 19 yrs old, I was subletting a room in a house with 3 other university girls. I tried banging all of them, but only got one. I was also bringing other girls over too and banging them. At the end of the summer I met the girl who I was subletting from for the first time and she was very hot so I made a go at her too, but I guess she got the heads up from her roommates because she said coldly, "What about Tammy?", What about all the other girls you've been bringing over here this summer?"

[WestIndianArchie]

You kids don't have access to illegal drugs anymore?

That's how you get the 3 screw happening.

If you want to bang 1, pursue that one.
If you want to bang both, pursue one and join the secret society with the other chick.

Lotta guys would say to play off their jealousy, I say play them off of their competitive natures.

TL;DR?

1) Pursue the hot one
2) wink at the not-as-hot one

WIA

[enderilluminatus]

Oh, that's awesome. Yeah I've got a date set up with the hotter of the two and the not as hot one still wants to meet for coffee, which would be rude to deny her. I just hope if i go back to her place on saturday i dont see not as hot.

Ok for future reference im gonna call date girl 8 and coffee girl 7.

[enderilluminatus]

Ugh. I find myself still obsessing over the mistakes i make and imagining them to be major deals. It makes me sick in the chest and gut and is the thing i find most difficulty about gaming women. I have anxiety in general but this kind seems worse in a way.

I know i have to stop getting emotionally invested in girls i havent even met. Easier said than done, but i think im getting better at it somewhat.

[enderilluminatus]

I feel negged and now i obsess over it. I know i shouldnt care, but i do. What the fuck. Why do i always assume and obsess over the worst possible outcome?

[Onto]

(11-26-2014 11:50 PM)enderilluminatus Wrote:  

I feel negged and now i obsess over it. I know i shouldnt care, but i do. What the fuck. Why do i always assume and obsess over the worst possible outcome?

Because it's something you can control. We have very little control over success.

[enderilluminatus]

(11-27-2014 12:17 AM)Onto Wrote:  

(11-26-2014 11:50 PM)enderilluminatus Wrote:  

I feel negged and now i obsess over it. I know i shouldnt care, but i do. What the fuck. Why do i always assume and obsess over the worst possible outcome?

Because it's something you can control. We have very little control over success.

Wow, that makes a fucking ton of sense. I never thought about it like that before.

[Frank Rook]

(11-26-2014 11:50 PM)enderilluminatus Wrote:  

I feel negged and now i obsess over it. I know i shouldnt care, but i do. What the fuck. Why do i always assume and obsess over the worst possible outcome?

Dude, you know your own value.
-You do metalwork (ticks the box for manliness).

-Convict Conditioning, when done right, is life changing gold. I'm speaking from personal experience here. But it's a slow burn type of physical & mental improvement. Don't expect instant results. Stick with it though & it shoots your physical presence & fitness beyond anything average.

-You're just feeling what most normal men go through. Don't be afraid to acknowledge that. You're here, asking the right questions. Give yourself some credit.
The typical woman does NOT have to do that. That's our burden as men. It's also the catalyst for how we men, will always seek to better ourselves. Trust the process.
-A lot very accomplished forum members will tell you to be outcome independent. Top corporate salesmen say the same thing. You may or may not get the outcome you want. You can only control putting the odds in your favor. A combination of things will take place & there will be an outcome though. What can you learn from that outcome?
-Have fun, brother. Whatever happens, make the score or crash & burn, you're gonna come out better. The chicks in question don't have that Hero Quest shit to overcome. That's a Man thing.
-

[enderilluminatus]

Thanks a lot for that post, it really cheered me up as she hasn't texted again. Any other day i would still be obsessing over that, but not today. Im happy with who i am and what i can do to get better. Im going to hang out with my grandpa, eat food, and finally finish Bang today. I feel a lot better.

[enderilluminatus]

8 hasnt texted but is online at the dating sites weve talked
I texted 7 and im trying to make jokes about bionic arms and legs and she's saying boring stuff about working out

UGH

Women

I'm reading Bang tho which is helping. I'll finish it tonight.

[enderilluminatus]

Just finished Bang.

Roosh youre a goddamn genius.

[enderilluminatus]

Im pretty close to dropping both of them and quitting online dating. At least i feel like i want to. like online dating holds me back.

[enderilluminatus]

So they're hanging out tonight and the one who was going to go on a date with me ditched me. Apparently my flattering online dating pic was good but my two facebook pics were not, she "felt she would not find me physically attractive but maybe we could hang out sometime you can never have too many friends" so I told her no thanks and good luck.

I'm seriously considering quitting online dating permanently. I'm not interested in her roomie, she's boring as fuck.

EDIT: To be completely fair, after seeing her facebook it quickly became clear that both girls were transitioning from being really chubby to being obsessed with fitness. Both were in their late mid twenties too. so very low value and single for a reason.

I finished Bang so I'm not really stung by the rejection either. They don't know a fucking thing about me and I don't give a shit about her opinion, I never have to interact with her again and in five years I doubt I would want to spend any time with her at all. Time to focus on myself and continue with my self-improvement and realizing that I dont really want girls like that in my life, i just wanted the easy way out.

[Dr. Howard]

bang the not attractive one, it will at least get this out of your system and realize that it was no big deal either way.

[Latan]

Sounds like you're quitting online dating because of 1 fail.

To me, you've invested too much in 1 or 2 girls: transitionning to Facebook was an unnecessary step and was time consuming.
Women are always looking for excuses to discard you, show as little as possible to keep your chances up.

"Want to see what I look like? Let's have a drink".
If she says no, she isn't that into you from the beginning, so next her.
I don't think I ever invest more than 5 messages before proposing a drink.

Whatever you do next, I wish you the best of luck .

[enderilluminatus]

(12-01-2014 04:17 AM)Latan Wrote:  

Sounds like you're quitting online dating because of 1 fail.

To me, you've invested too much in 1 or 2 girls: transitionning to Facebook was an unnecessary step and was time consuming.
Women are always looking for excuses to discard you, show as little as possible to keep your chances up.

"Want to see what I look like? Let's have a drink".
If she says no, she isn't that into you from the beginning, so next her.
I don't think I ever invest more than 5 messages before proposing a drink.

Whatever you do next, I wish you the best of luck .

I can see how you would think that, but I've been doing online dating for years now and I think it is how I justify putting off approaching woman in public, because I can usually bang a low quality girl every other month or so.

I appreciate your advice. I think that providing a link to my facebook is a pretty stupid idea.