[Moma]

(04-19-2011 10:28 AM)Gringo Wrote:  

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Note that adult is someone who just turned 18. Is it also wrong in the head?

When I was 18 I certainly wasn't attracted to 15 year olds. Even though it's only 3 year difference the difference in maturity is usually vast.

You can all justify it as much as you like but I think it's very strange, especially if you're considerably older than 18. Anyone who's in their 20s or beyond wanting to get with 15 year old girls would disgust me.

Have you ever travelled outside of the United States and when I mean travelled, have you actually gone off of the sanctuary of the resort that you were staying at?

[Gmac]

When I was 18 I was most definitely attracted to 14-15 year olds. Who didn't think the freshman were hot? I think people are forgetting what high school was like, hell I remember a hot senior chick who dated a freshman kid... lucky bastard.

[Moma]

As a man, I am attracted to women with sexually mature bodies. Some people mature earlier than others. I have no way of knowing unless that person tells me their age.

I have met 37 year old women who act like kids and I have met 'kids' (16-19) that have blown me out of the water (figuratively speaking) with their maturity.

I have seen grown ass women with bodies that wouldn't get a semi out of me if I overdosed on a Viagra/Ciallis cocktail and I've seen teeny boppers that have made me run for life (jailbait) because they are so f........ hot.

Women are no better.

I showed a female friend of mine a picture of Greg Oden when he was 15. She said she'd fcuk him, sure. I told her he was 15. She was flabbergasted.

My point is, humans don't attribute age to attraction. They attribute physical development to attraction.

It's a bit like saying, would you fcuk a 30 year old woman with the body of <insert favourite female celebrity> but had the mind of a 8 year old?

Is that right seeing that she is chronologically and physically 30 years old?

Are we dealing with the mental or physical maturity here?

[oldnemesis]

(04-19-2011 10:28 AM)Gringo Wrote:  

When I was 18 I certainly wasn't attracted to 15 year olds.

Thank you for explanation. Now don't you think there is quite some difference between "I was not attracted to them" and "Everyone who is attracted to them is sick in the head"?

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You can all justify it as much as you like but I think it's very strange, especially if you're considerably older than 18.

You can think whatever you want, but a lot of men are attracted to women significantly younger than them, and vice versa. I know quite a few in their forties who are attracted to girls in their twenties, and the age/maturity difference between a 40yo and 20yo is significantly larger than between 15yo and 18yo.

[ManAbout]

I wonder if our caveman ancestors walked around with stone tablets engraved with their date of birth.

[Tuthmosis]

(04-20-2011 02:05 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  

I wonder if our caveman ancestors walked around with stone tablets engraved with their date of birth.

Nailed it.

[Duke Castile]

Bad Hussar nailed it too.

[rivelino]

(04-18-2011 06:50 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  

Posting this before the "P" word starts to fly...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ephebophilia

i learned a new word today. thanks.

[playa_with_a_passport]

I like PYT's as much as the next guy but they are nothing but trouble. Immaturity not withstanding, The problem with banging girls who have reached the AOC but are less than 18 is that if you get caught with pictures of her naked even if you didn't take them and somebody rats you out, you are going to be arrested and more likely convicted for possession of child pornography. Good luck explaining to people that you have to register as a sex offender because your iphone had a picture of a "17 3/4 old" . Also, there are strict rules about crossing state lines, checking into motels/hotels, dirty looks from old bitches, her dad and the list goes on and on. Just don't do it and check ID's if she looks too young.

[kerouac]

I think this thread needs to stop focusing on the ethics of the issue, and get back to the main point which is describing the qualities you notice of yourself that younger girls tend to find most attractive now that you're getting older. Let's talk about the game: Namely, how you change up your game with the under-21 crowd, etc.

[Olav]

I know this's a old thread im reviving, regardless thought I'd give my 2c:
For the 15-18 girls group, two of the most important attributes to have
-Looking physically attractive (decent face, good body)
-Being exciting (some say that's why drug dealers and junkies get pussy)

Im sure there's more, this was all I could think of for now

[samsamsam]

http://fivethirtyeight.com/datalab/whats...-a-couple/

Some gay guy asks about age differences. This chick mona replies. Ignoring the gay and chick answering part, I have never seen this data before, I saw it on Reddit front page and thought I should share it.

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The average age difference (for a heterosexual couple) is 2.3 years, with the man older than the woman. In 64 percent of heterosexual couples, the man is older. In 23 percent, the woman is older, and in the remaining 13 percent, the partners are less than 12 months apart in age.



This data comes from the 2014 Current Population Survey (CPS) and is based on information provided by 31,075 male-female couples. Those surveyed couples are supposed to represent the estimated 70 million heterosexual couples who live together in the U.S. It doesn’t matter whether they’re married or unmarried, parents or childless — all couples are counted in the CPS, unless they’re gay.

So, I’m sorry, Seth, but these numbers just don’t properly represent you. I ran into a similar problem when I wrote about the average height difference in couples. So I have to switch to a different data set if I want to include gay couples in my analysis (and I do!).

In this case, Facebook has some answers that might be of interest to you. Using anonymized data from U.S. users who say they are in relationships, Facebook found that the average age difference in gay couples tends to get bigger the older people get. Those in their early 20s have an average age difference in their relationships of about two to three years, but once people get into their 40s, that average age gap increases to about seven years. The age difference increases for older male-female couples, too (shown in red below), though not by as much. (Remember, this is self-reported data from people who make their relationship status public on Facebook.)



Your relationship probably is an outlier, Seth. But using these averages, it’s hard to say how much of one. There could be lots of couples who, like you and your partner, are increasing the average age difference but are still in the minority.

It’s easier to spot heterosexual outliers because I have the original data provided by the CPS. Of all those couples surveyed, the biggest age difference was 58 years. I took a closer look at that particular case and found a 21-year-old man married to a 79-year-old woman. The age gap in your relationship might not look so big now, especially when you consider that 1 percent of heterosexual couples have an age difference of 28 years or more.

[Ingocnito]

I'm 40. yup, old man age. In last 6 months I've had 23 yo DTF, and 29 yo who were DTF and discovered my age and it freaked out the 29 yo but not the 23 yo. I've banged 2 40+ women too in that time. And I've gotten heavily flirted with by 18-21 yo girls. I stay away from that young, but I'll let them use me to advance their flirting skills since boys their age are clueless. I also teach young cats how to deal with these girls so it's all in the name of social advancement.

My attitude re. the age gap theories is that despite what you read here, yes there are 35-40 yo broads that are very attractive and way bangable. Damaged goods? yes of course, but worth the time from my perspective. Then there are 24-34 yo who are not some pervert fuck at all, but they get more apprehensive fucking an older guy because they know you're more experienced and have better frame unlike they're used to manipulating. Its steals their power. Once they get over the fact that you're 100% in control, they're putty in your hands, and 40 becomes a very powerful milestone in game.

Bottom line too is, if you're older, and get the young pussy wet still, the step-ladder effect takes place. It simultaneously turns on the older sluts, and pisses them off in the same respect, all the while rallying the younger women as your social credibility as an aged man.

[Pinocchio]

Krauser is 39, think he said his 2014 average was 23.

[Dantes]

As I approach 40, I am much more cognizant of age differences when I read trip reports. My focus is not related to which city has a lot of hot young girls, but whether these girls are open to to a big age difference is more important.

I am 39. My last few bangs are as follows:

23-year old Asian: Knows my age and doesn't care. We are in a mini-relationship.

26-year old Asian: Does not know my age but has a general idea. The age difference has not been a problem. We had a mini-relationship.

26-year old Latina (Colombian): Knows my age and doesn't care

21-year old from DR: Loved the fact that I am older

Currently working on a hot 23 year old Asian girl. Also working on a 26 year old Russian (will be harder to close)

95% of my dates are with girls under 30. I have noticed in the last few years that it is easier for me to date/bang Asians and Latinas than White girls with a big age difference. The few girls over 30 have all been white girls, not foreign.

[Clint Barton]

Good shit Dantes.

It's great that as we age, these girls we can get are younger. Last 5 bangs (19, 40*, 24, 18, 18). I'm turning the big 35 this year. Ability to drink hard and stay out late really took a hit this past year, yet the quality/quantity of the girls have gone up.

*pr oldest girl ever. Looked 30, ONS.

Eastern European, Scandanavian/Baltics girls 18-25 have not cared about my age. Neither have Asian and Asian-American girls. In fact, I've had a harder time in the past gaming girls aged 28+ both domestically and abroad.

(01-24-2015 08:14 AM)Dantes Wrote:  

As I approach 40, I am much more cognizant of age differences when I read trip reports. My focus is not related to which city has a lot of hot young girls, but whether these girls are open to to a big age difference is more important.

I am 39. My last few bangs are as follows:

23-year old Asian: Knows my age and doesn't care. We are in a mini-relationship.

26-year old Asian: Does not know my age but has a general idea. The age difference has not been a problem. We had a mini-relationship.

26-year old Latina (Colombian): Knows my age and doesn't care

21-year old from DR: Loved the fact that I am older

Currently working on a hot 23 year old Asian girl. Also working on a 26 year old Russian (will be harder to close)

95% of my dates are with girls under 30. I have noticed in the last few years that it is easier for me to date/bang Asians and Latinas than White girls with a big age difference. The few girls over 30 have all been white girls, not foreign.

[Vaun]

Last year was a big turning point for me. Was in a mini-relationship with a girl 21 yo, 17 years younger than me, who I met randomly on the street. The only hard part of it was her energy and wanting to stay up all night and talk, she would literally talk her head off after sex when I tried to get some sleep. I think I can live with that over the plotting and scheming of a 30 yo trying to get pregnant.

[Clint Barton]

Do you find that women in NYC who are over 30 want to get pregnant? Most are career girls and I feel they still don't wanta baby.

(01-24-2015 11:22 AM)Vaun Wrote:  

Last year was a big turning point for me. Was in a mini-relationship with a girl 21 yo, 17 years younger than me, who I met randomly on the street. The only hard part of it was her energy and wanting to stay up all night and talk, she would literally talk her head off after sex when I tried to get some sleep. I think I can live with that over the plotting and scheming of a 30 yo trying to get pregnant.

[Vaun]

(01-24-2015 11:48 AM)Clint Barton Wrote:  

Do you find that women in NYC who are over 30 want to get pregnant? Most are career girls and I feel they still don't wanta baby.

(01-24-2015 11:22 AM)Vaun Wrote:  

Last year was a big turning point for me. Was in a mini-relationship with a girl 21 yo, 17 years younger than me, who I met randomly on the street. The only hard part of it was her energy and wanting to stay up all night and talk, she would literally talk her head off after sex when I tried to get some sleep. I think I can live with that over the plotting and scheming of a 30 yo trying to get pregnant.

Yup, they sure do. They all want to fulfill that NYC Carrie Bradshaw dream of meeting that guy. I would say it really kicks in after 26. 28 and on its serious. Over 33 and they get crazy. Much happier now that I date younger.

The problem I often have is that I meet a lot of high quality women that are 5-10 years younger than me. Not spoiled dumbos, but legit girls who started with nothing and built themselves up in their lives through hard work, separate of their families. They want marriage and kids like anyone else, but I walk away most of the time because I dont want that now.

[reco2100]

I had a pretty good year. 26,18,36,31,18,29,23,27,26 I am 52 and none of them ever complained about age. In fact I was in a mini relationship with the 31yo and we both used to joke that she was getting too old and I needed to find someone younger. Lol

I am really not looking for 18 yo and would prefer a hot early 30ish if I can find one. But they are all fucking crazy by that age. I came damn close on two 40 YO's back I. Sept and oct. but they got too crazy before I could get the bang.

I agree with Vaun completely the younger ones just seem more easy to deal with. Just have to find the ones that don't care about age. Which I find is a good percent.

[robreke]

(01-24-2015 11:52 AM)reco2100 Wrote:  

I had a pretty good year. 26,18,36,31,18,29,23,27,26 I am 52 and none of them ever complained about age. In fact I was in a mini relationship with the 31yo and we both used to joke that she was getting too old and I needed to find someone younger. Lol

I am really not looking for 18 yo and would prefer a hot early 30ish if I can find one. But they are all fucking crazy by that age. I came damn close on two 40 YO's back I. Sept and oct. but they got too crazy before I could get the bang.

I agree with Vaun completely the younger ones just seem more easy to deal with. Just have to find the ones that don't care about age. Which I find is a good percent.

reco, Where do you live? Or if you could, at least tell me what type of city it is?

I'm assuming a big metro area with more open minded ( read liberal/ "adventuresome) women.

[reco2100]

I travel a lot for work so my area of operation is large. I visit all the major cities in FL On a regular basis. It's a strange state with a mix of everything. Slut factor can be high.

And travel to other parts of the U.S. occasionally. I have not done anything since about November. Trying to work on more day approaches, and really get my game up to a better level. I want to be able to get the chicks I want. None of those girls above were fat or ugly. But not super hot either. Mostly 6 and 7. I just see the 29 YO every once in a while. I am still married so I have to be real careful.

[DonnyGately]

I'm 36 almost 37. The last two girls I've been having sex with were 20, I think one was 19 when we first met. One a 7 the other an 8, both love sex. I live in a big metro area so that helps. Both these girls want to keep it on the DL, which is exactly what I want. Plus they don't want kids or anything serious.

I find them easier to deal with than older women, although I have dated plenty of 30-35 year olds too.

[Dantes]

[quote='Clint Barton' pid='939412' dateline='1422116066']
Good shit Dantes.

It's great that as we age, these girls we can get are younger. Last 5 bangs (19, 40*, 24, 18, 18). I'm turning the big 35 this year. Ability to drink hard and stay out late really took a hit this past year, yet the quality/quantity of the girls have gone up.

*pr oldest girl ever. Looked 30, ONS.

Eastern European, Scandanavian/Baltics girls 18-25 have not cared about my age. Neither have Asian and Asian-American girls. In fact, I've had a harder time in the past gaming girls aged 28+ both domestically and abroad.


Those 18 and 19 year olds become sweeter as we age. I have also had a harder time closing girls roughly 30 plus. At 35 you are in your prime. I feel really good now, but I felt in my absolute peak in my early and mid 30s

[blacknwhitespade]

I'm a 33-year-old and I've noticed a trend that I connect a lot better with women who are moderately younger (5-10yrs) than me. I have automatic frame since I am older, I'm usually more attracted to them, and I have a youthful appearance that makes me appear mid-20s. The problem is, I'm now more socially removed from young 20s singles than ever before.