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[bojangles]

I think Argentinian girl game sounds very similar to girls in Eastern Europe.

Fractionation is key, you've got to obliterate that hamster, all you did here was change how you act to basically do as her hamster asked.

She even gave you a clue, "she's liberal but at the same time comes off as very conservative at times. It's confusing." <- this is her gaming you. That's a push and pull. The liberal bit is the push giving you the thought 'I can go for it', the conservative is the pull 'No you can't matey, I'm a lovely virgin etc'. There's no disinterest there, she wants you to be socially savvy. A social savvy man would understand what she means. What she says and what she does is different of course.

You've got to be doing this to her constantly throughout the date and there's nothing wrong with getting sexual nor triggering an ASD. The ASD is something you'll have to overcome at some point anyway, better to overcome it on the date than her showing heavy LMR whilst she's in your bed naked.

You say you normally get a first date bang, I think you compromised yourself on this occasion.

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(11-17-2014 05:12 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

I think Argentinian girl game sounds very similar to girls in Eastern Europe.

Fractionation is key, you've got to obliterate that hamster, all you did here was change how you act to basically do as her hamster asked.

She even gave you a clue, "she's liberal but at the same time comes off as very conservative at times. It's confusing." <- this is her gaming you. That's a push and pull. The liberal bit is the push giving you the thought 'I can go for it', the conservative is the pull 'No you can't matey, I'm a lovely virgin etc'. There's no disinterest there, she wants you to be socially savvy. A social savvy man would understand what she means. What she says and what she does is different of course.

You've got to be doing this to her constantly throughout the date and there's nothing wrong with getting sexual nor triggering an ASD. The ASD is something you'll have to overcome at some point anyway, better to overcome it on the date than her showing heavy LMR whilst she's in your bed naked.

You say you normally get a first date bang, I think you compromised yourself on this occasion.

What is fractionation? what do I have to do to obliterate the hamster in this situation? What is it that I have to do constantly?

Thanks bojangles

[bojangles]

It's basically push and pull but you're showing contrast constantly, whether it's looking away at other things happening around you for a moment or two or whether it's with words. This is key and creates attraction, you've also got to drop in comfort and be sexual. Every now and then drop in a sexual spike, comfort is what will help you get over the ASD. Showing that you're a normal cool guy is key and the best way to do that is to show how sociable you are.

Plan of action whilst with her could be

Tell a story - look away for a second - go back to the story (whilst talking, look into her eyes sexually, bring her into your world) - drop in a comment about her breasts 'Oops, got a little distracted" - finish off story. That's just an example