Trying to get her attention, do you tap a chick on the shoulder to start your rap?
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Quote: (11-14-2014 05:11 PM)jayyrod1 Wrote:
Only in this circumstance but quite often...
I'm standing to the right or left of a girl in a crowded venue. Say we are at the bar and I'm standing slightly behind her. Being In her blind spot I tap the opposite shoulder, causing hee to loom away from me. Upon seeing that no one wants her attention she looks in the other direction. Where I am. I'm looking forward but when I see her look my way, I look her way and <insert opener here>.
This also works well as a deliberate trick if you have positive eye contact from the friend she is facing/speaking to. Before hand, you can even throw a finger to your lip like a 'shhh' so only the friend sees and them initiate the false tap.
Whatever you open with has to be said in a playful tone, otherwise its clearly try hard.
Quote: (11-14-2014 07:19 PM)game_ethic Wrote:
Haha. I find this thread ironic because today there was a chick who was walking ahead of me and I attempted to stop her by tapping her on the shoulder, but she just sucked her teeth and kept moving - I didn't even get a word in.
Anyways, the lesson I learned: Don't tap a girl on the shoulder if she's on the move. It might work sometimes, sure, but most of the time it won't. I think it's best to do it when she's stationary -ahead of you in the grocery line, for example - because more than likely she's bored out of her mind and won't mind a little chit chat.
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Trying to get her attention, do you tap a chick on the shoulder to start your rap?
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Quote: (11-17-2014 02:05 PM)civpro Wrote:
Yeah
Why are you asking this question
Quote: (11-17-2014 02:22 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:N.B. This is all based on my experience with Canadian culture.
- I know what social mores are being violated. And touching a stranger, a tap on the shoulder, fingertips on the back, "the claw", gorilla pimping grabs - all of that breaks unspoken rules.
You can get crazy hostile reactions from a tap, nudge, touch - and it will fuck up your approach before it even starts.