Hey guys,
I did some searching while trying to find ideas for what to give my family + friends for Xmas. I will post a compendium for what I've come across and I think are good ideas. Yes I realize some of you hate Xmas and material gift giving is the sum of evil capitalism blah blah blah. Xmas + holidays was a big deal for my family growing up, especially on my mother's side so we often spoil + go all out for each other.
What I'm getting my mother:
Tea from my trip to London
Gift card to massage therapy/deep tissue massage/spa off of groupon
Truffle oil
Incense/candles
High quality teas are eventually used by everyone, or they get gifted forward so you can always use it. I've had success with spas + massages off of Groupon and the like because women love it. Truffle oil is useful because it's something people don't often buy for themselves and people who cook can always use it. Incense + candles are often used by girls, and I would suggest you use them for ambient lighting when you have a girl over. Sex is better by candle/fire light, trust me.
My brother:
Multi tool/ pocket knife
Cologne
Zippo light/fluid
Tickets to a sports game w/ me or his gf
Pocket knife/ multi tool is a classic for a masculine man and my brother is fairly rugged + works a trade. Cologne is an easy catch all but people often have too much. Zippo lighter is another classic masculine gift with a bit of class that can be kept for a long time. Sports tickets are good for "blue pill" guys who follow their sport, it's a good experience you can share together.
My "redpill" friends:
Self- Authoring Suite
Calm - Guided Meditation practice
Headspace - Guided Meditation
Whiskey/scotch/wine
Classic self improvement books (you can search anywhere on TRP or this forum for some of the best life changing ones)
Supplements/nootropics
The self-authoring suite is an interesting one I am going to get for a friend in Vietnam because I can't see him until sometime next year. It was done in a few Canadian universities showing how writing about yourself and past experiences, discovering your personalities virtues/weaknesses + planning your future can increase happiness/academic success. I left the link there for more info.
Gifting someone Calm/Headspace is another good 'experience' app that is helpful. They are both guided meditation apps that could help someone who wants to build a habit. I have subscribed to Headspace and it was able to push me over the top and make meditating a habit.
Whiskey + scotch is a classic masculine gift and I don't know much about it but you can find a lot of popular great bottles for $30-50 and enjoy a night with your buddy. A word on wine from my wise mother who has worked in liquor stores for 20+ years
"If you want to buy cheap wine that's good you have to go for old country wine. Countries like Spain/France who have been making wine for 100's of years, the cheap stuff is great value. Buy some cheap shit from a New World country for $10 and you'll have a hell of a hangover (USA, Australia, etc)" - Not a hard + fast rule but there's lots of studies where people enjoy a $15 bottle of wine more than the expensive stuff, but critics know which wines are the expensive ones.
Supplements/nootropics can be a tricky one for guys who don't know too much about it. The ones I would suggest as starters are L-Theanine+ caffeine or phenibut. I am just getting my feet wet in nootropics but have had great experiences with these.
Generic Gift Ideas
Pocket knife
High quality Teas/coffee
personal coffee grinder
Aeropress Coffee
Wine
Nice glassware for scotch/wine
High quality kitchen appliances they don't have or wouldn't buy for themselves like: Garlic press, crock pot
Wine Decanter set /
Whiskey Decanter Set
Stainless Steel Icecubes
Belts
Watches
Scarves
Kindle
Quality Speakers/Headphones
Set of nice bedsheets/pillows
Memory foam pillow/mattress
Books that I would recommend, there are MANY more than this list you can search for on RVF/TRP
Mind/Mindfulness
The Power of Now - A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment - Eckhart Tolle
Peace is Every Step - Thich Nhat Hanh
Masculinity
The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida
No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert Glover
Dating
Models - Mark Manson
The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi
The Book Of Pook by Pook
Health
Rogue Health + Fitness Books
Believe it or not, I am still looking for stocking stuffers and a couple more ideas for my brother. Post any gift ideas or things you want for Xmas. My family is still asking me for what I want, because I often buy whatever I need immediately + don't wait.