[Raccoon]

November 14th

Approach #15

Walking down the mall and notice a pretty dirty blond (8.3).

R: Hi, I thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you.
G: Oh, Hi and thank you
R: What are you up to?
G: Just shopping and going to this store *points*
R: You have an accent. Are you Russian?
G: No Czech Repurblic

We talk for a little and she turned out to be lesbian... I couldn't wrap my head around it... Next

Approach #16

Going home late at night around 2:30 a.m. and I start talk to this Korean girl (6.5). I later find out she is 33 year of age, but looks no more than 24. I don't quite remember my opener with her, and it was long interaction because we walked home rather than wait 30 minutes for the bus. I got her number at the end and we are going for drink on Wednesday. Told her I was 25, and was dressed well that day.


November 16th

Approach #17

I see an older Russian girl (7.6) leaving the gates at the subway station. Contemplate whether or not I should talk to her. Run up to her and go direct. I was really nervous on this one because it was the first approach of the day, and no warm up.

R: Hi, I stopped you because I thought you were pretty and if I didn't, I would have kicked myself all day today (I did snatch this off someone from this forum, just can't remember who).
G: Thank you, *eyes light up*

The following lines of the conversation escapes my mind, but she ended up having a finance or married. It ended on a good note which was an amazing confidence boost.

Approach #18

Open up to indirectly to a Korean girl (6.7) walking down the subway. Asking her about her shoes and if they are good for running. We have a good thing going for about 5 minutes and die flat afterward. A quick "Nice meeting you" was exchanged and done.

Approach #19

Went direct to a white girl (8+ from the a far and 6.2 from up close). Lost interest immediately and struggled to keep my focus and give up after a small talk about coffee shops near by.

Approach #20

Really tan looking Asian and very pretty (8.5+, I can't decide on her looks).

R: Hi, how can I get to ISKI station?
G: Oh, you'd have to take westbound and stay on here for sometime.
R: Oh okay. That laptop you are carrying, is it any good? I've been wanted to get one for school, but just can't decide on any.
G: Well....

We talk a little and I tell her the real reason why I stopped her, and she said she knew. It was a great short conversation and she pressed my hand very firmly (it felt sincere) when we shook hand at the end. Gave me her number and no response. It was maybe the hour which I texted her at; day later around late in the evening (9:43p.m.)


I should be doing a lot more approaches, but have been lazy and no other excuse. I will try to rack up 20 good ones this week.

[Raccoon]

Double posted by accident.

[Latan]

Just wanted to Thank You Raccoon.
Reading your thread made me want to experiment my first cold approaches this week end; and it ended up being a very pleasant experience.
Might open a post about it.

Keep us informed about your progresses.

[Raccoon]

Update:


Date - I went on a date (drinks) with Approach #16 and she was resistant at first to do anything, but we made out by end of the night and that's it. I texted her, but she didn't respond back most likely because of some shit she told me which I can't disclose.

Date - Went on date with Approach #5 (planned to meet Downtown, decided movies, but cancelled and ended up at a fair restaurant for dinner). We really hit it off and she is cool with my real age. Flirted, touched on different topics, and overall I took charge and lead the way throughout the night. Didn't go in for a kiss for some reason... I feel terrible about that, but I'll see her again for sure.

Approach #21

Wasn't really an approach because I was at night school, arrived late, and two girls at the office, my age, standing behind the counter monitoring the attendance reports (this whole approach makes me look so young...). One of the started to flirt with me, but she wasn't great looking although I was still responding to her with a very hint of flirty tone until her friend came in and she had banging body, black girl (7.9). I quickly escalated the flow of the interaction between just us two and kicked the other girl out. Flirted, eye fucked a great ton, I was a smooth criminal, and she loved every second of it. Got the number. My friend (a girl in my class) noticed this she seemed impressed and comment on the whole interaction.

I will be texted Approach #1 and #7 tomorrow. They both had trip to New York a week ago, and they both said they'd text me after they come back but haven't so... I'll initiate again. Although, it is exam week and not sure if I should wait another week (making it 2 weeks) before I reach out to both.

[Raccoon]

@Latan

I'd be willing to follow up. Do open a thread about your experience approaching woman. I think it'd be a great learning experience for me to see other types of methods from fellow RVF members who are easing into game.