Hey guys I'm 22 and haven't gotten into dating or really trying to pick up and talk to girls till a few months ago.
I'm sort of a socially awkward person, to me I'm normal but I do and say things that sets girls off. As far as body language and stuff I have been trying to pick up on it and learn how to use it because my last date was like an interview, I just sat across from the girl while we were drinking coffee and not much happened except conversing. I also give off the impression to people that I'm rude because I'm very direct about things, I try to say things with a smile on my face to make it not come off as rude. Also with eye contact I either just smile and look at people in the eyes when talking or I just stare which if had comments from people before that they want to punch me in the face from the look I give off when I'm listening to them.
What is the best advice for me to be able to work or get better at body language, voice tone and things of that nature so I can easily connect with girls and people in general?
I'm sort of a socially awkward person, to me I'm normal but I do and say things that sets girls off. As far as body language and stuff I have been trying to pick up on it and learn how to use it because my last date was like an interview, I just sat across from the girl while we were drinking coffee and not much happened except conversing. I also give off the impression to people that I'm rude because I'm very direct about things, I try to say things with a smile on my face to make it not come off as rude. Also with eye contact I either just smile and look at people in the eyes when talking or I just stare which if had comments from people before that they want to punch me in the face from the look I give off when I'm listening to them.
What is the best advice for me to be able to work or get better at body language, voice tone and things of that nature so I can easily connect with girls and people in general?