I know a lot of guys have a problem with this. So I am going to give you a simple and fool proof way to handle this. Kissing should come after touching a girl in an intimate manner. You are holding hands or have held hands, you have touched her on her leg, lower back, upper arms etc.
The key is to let the girl know you want to kiss her. You do this by going in slowly towards her mouth. Don't just jump on the girl or try to "steal a kiss." Wait until you feel she is comfortable with you touching her. Waiting until she is close to you. Her face should be within two feet (60 cm) of your face. Look her in the eyes, look at her mouth, look at her nose. Think about what her lips would feel like. Do this while she is talking not you. Hold one of hands while using your other hand to pull her into you - gently. Slowly, move your mouth towards her while you are looking at her face. If she pulls back, stop, keep talking, act like it's no big deal - it isn't. If she turns her face when you go for the kiss. Again, act like it's not big deal and keep talking. As long as she doesn't move away from you, everything is fine. Wait for 10-15 minutes and try again.
Don't try to kiss a girl when you are moving. It's difficult and she will probably reject you simply because it was unexpected. The key to escalating the first time and the kiss is to gradually do things. Don't make any sudden movements. Let the girl know what you intend to do by doing things slowly. Sure, grabbing her face and kissing her can work with some girls, but most girls don't like surprises when it comes to physical stuff. So let the girl know you what your intentions are by escalating slowly but progressively. To make you feel better, it is not unusually for a Brazilian girl to reject a Brazilian guy more than five times for the first kiss. Don't let anything the girl does spoil your night. Just remember as long as she is still there next to you, it's a good sign and keep going.
The cardinal rule to remember is that you have to allow a girl to contribute to any interaction. It's ok for you to initiate and go most of the way but the girl has to be willing to give something back even if it's just 10%. If you can't get a girl to reciprocate after trying a number of times there's a good chance she's not attracted to you. It's no fun kissing a girl that doesn't kiss you back - at least a little.
The key is to let the girl know you want to kiss her. You do this by going in slowly towards her mouth. Don't just jump on the girl or try to "steal a kiss." Wait until you feel she is comfortable with you touching her. Waiting until she is close to you. Her face should be within two feet (60 cm) of your face. Look her in the eyes, look at her mouth, look at her nose. Think about what her lips would feel like. Do this while she is talking not you. Hold one of hands while using your other hand to pull her into you - gently. Slowly, move your mouth towards her while you are looking at her face. If she pulls back, stop, keep talking, act like it's no big deal - it isn't. If she turns her face when you go for the kiss. Again, act like it's not big deal and keep talking. As long as she doesn't move away from you, everything is fine. Wait for 10-15 minutes and try again.
Don't try to kiss a girl when you are moving. It's difficult and she will probably reject you simply because it was unexpected. The key to escalating the first time and the kiss is to gradually do things. Don't make any sudden movements. Let the girl know what you intend to do by doing things slowly. Sure, grabbing her face and kissing her can work with some girls, but most girls don't like surprises when it comes to physical stuff. So let the girl know you what your intentions are by escalating slowly but progressively. To make you feel better, it is not unusually for a Brazilian girl to reject a Brazilian guy more than five times for the first kiss. Don't let anything the girl does spoil your night. Just remember as long as she is still there next to you, it's a good sign and keep going.
The cardinal rule to remember is that you have to allow a girl to contribute to any interaction. It's ok for you to initiate and go most of the way but the girl has to be willing to give something back even if it's just 10%. If you can't get a girl to reciprocate after trying a number of times there's a good chance she's not attracted to you. It's no fun kissing a girl that doesn't kiss you back - at least a little.