What kind of man are you? Women place men into two general categories: the Lover and the Provider. The lover is the bad boys they have sex with. The Provider are the good guys they have as boyfriends and marry. Even within those two categories they are subcategories. There are two types of Lovers: the Boy Toy and the Alpha Male. The Boy Toy is usually under 25 with model good looks. The Alpha male is masculine, strong, and assertive. The Provider also have sub-categories: there is the traditional Provider who is financially well off and is able to "provide" for a woman and a family. But there is also a new type of Provider: the Supporter. The Supporter role is to support a woman while she goes out to conquer the world, very much like women did for men in the 50s. More and more Western career women are looking for this type of man - a Supporter.
So what kind of women want which type of man? Well, if you are Heidi Klum with lots of money you don't need any kind of Provider. So you go out and find a lover and the older you get the younger you want the lover to be to validate you. So you go get a Boy Toy. If you are a young girl who also doesn't need a Provider because daddy has got you banked then you will also want a lover but to validate yourself you will want an Alpha male. A career woman looking to marry or have a children will want a Supporter. And a woman that is in need of financial support will still want a traditional Provider. Or if she's young, a Sugar Daddy.
To understand what kind of women will be looking for you, you have to first be completely honest with yourself about which of those four types of men you are. If you are over 25 or not that good looking you can't be a Boy Toy. If you don't have money you can't be a traditional Provider. If you don't have a lot of self-confidence and don't have a strong masculine internal image then you can't be an Alpha male. So what does that leave? What a lot of men are today: a Supporter. Men are becoming what women want
So what kind of women want which type of man? Well, if you are Heidi Klum with lots of money you don't need any kind of Provider. So you go out and find a lover and the older you get the younger you want the lover to be to validate you. So you go get a Boy Toy. If you are a young girl who also doesn't need a Provider because daddy has got you banked then you will also want a lover but to validate yourself you will want an Alpha male. A career woman looking to marry or have a children will want a Supporter. And a woman that is in need of financial support will still want a traditional Provider. Or if she's young, a Sugar Daddy.
To understand what kind of women will be looking for you, you have to first be completely honest with yourself about which of those four types of men you are. If you are over 25 or not that good looking you can't be a Boy Toy. If you don't have money you can't be a traditional Provider. If you don't have a lot of self-confidence and don't have a strong masculine internal image then you can't be an Alpha male. So what does that leave? What a lot of men are today: a Supporter. Men are becoming what women want