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09-06-2014, 09:08 PM
I've been on a few dates with a great gal. Smart, educated, nice, pays for things, not flaky, we click on a bunch of things. There's only one problem.
My dick doesn't like her.
It's not that she's unattractive. She's a ~6, I've been with girls like her before. She just doesn't get my jones up to bang her. I'm talking total body-agenda mismatch.
I've had this happen before. It's an interesting reminder of what life must be like for girls - they know there are tons of guys around who would go to brunch with them and watch chick flicks with them and all the rest of it. What's apparently lacking is a lot of guys who really rev their engines AND provide some semblance of the boyfriend traits. It must suck to have repeated episodes of "he's nice on paper but he just doesn't do it for me."
Then again, they can get a good roll in the hay from a sexy guy in their phone just about any night of the week...so my sympathies are limited.
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09-06-2014, 09:22 PM
I've had this before. I've realized that a man needs that innate feeling that he's "conquering" a girl when he has sex with her. This generally comes from the girl exuding youth & femininity, through both her both her physical appearance and overall attitude.
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09-06-2014, 10:55 PM
Sounds like you've added a new friend to your social circle, instead of a plate. Use her to pivot on to her friends. Sucks that she doesn't do it for you, but the boner test is the end-all-be-all test of attraction. It happens.
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09-06-2014, 11:09 PM
Flip side of the coin is that you're developing a male case of "the lack of gina tingles".
Girl goes out with a guy, everything is cool, they have nothing but glowing remarks about him, yet she doesn't want to see him again.
I'm going to reserve judgment on what that actually means, at the end of the day, the meaning for you is the only one that matters.
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09-06-2014, 11:16 PM
I think a bad personality is a bigger boner killer to me than looks. I admit I won't gf up a girl that's not at least a 7. That's just my ego talking though.
I just see too many guys my way dating down. The guys are easy 7's but openly dating 4's and 5's. The market is completely skewed.
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09-06-2014, 11:18 PM
I think there needs to be a discussion about sex as it pertains to the attractiveness of the woman.
How fine the girl typically does not correlate to how good the sex is going to be.
I think chicks who are less attractive understand they have to do more work in the bedroom to keep a guy around.
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09-07-2014, 04:32 AM
The difference is that in the West, an unattractive girl is often as unpleasant as a hot one.
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09-07-2014, 06:48 AM
You never know, she might suck dick better than any girl you've had.