[Giovonny]

"Me and my friends are going to a party, I'll text you the address in case you and your friends wanna come"

"What are you guys doing tonight? My friends and I will be at Joe's Bar" if you guys wanna come hang out"

"A few of us are getting together for dinner and drinks if you wanna come with friends or something"

"Are you with friends? I have my boys with me. Lets all meet up at the club later"

These are some examples of how you can get a girl out into a social setting without directly asking her out.

It gives us "plausible deniability"

(09-02-2014 10:14 PM)Distant Light Wrote:  

If you're worried about getting stuck in the "friendzone" (which is different from having a "friendly" relation) then you probably lack any form of vibe/presence to be banging chicks anyway. These type of people give off a "sexually active" vibe.

Yes! "Hanging out" with a girl and her friends allows you an opportunity to game her.

If you are afraid of getting stuck in the "friends zone", than, your problem is more about vibe and sexual expression and less about the best way to ask a girl out.

Distant Light

Thanks for the great post!

I don't do night game but I enjoy reading your perspective.

[Distant Light]

(09-02-2014 10:58 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Haha guys like Daylight are why I would never seriously date let alone marry a girl with guy "friends". Guys good at this friends and sex time romp through all the pussy it's a skillset I don't have the energy for unfortunately.

Hahahaaah I never looked at it in 3rd person BUT damn now that I think about it really does look "fucked up" on the other end...

I've calmed down a whole lot BUT there were times when I'd introduce my friends to different chicks, not realizing I've messed with ALL OF THEM.

1 day a good friend of mine we were out partying with about 10 chicks. (majority of them his friends) At one point he comes back and discreetly says "you think your slick, I saw you making out with the blond".

From when I 1st arrived I had it in my mind to mess with her. Everyone had went downstairs to the bar, as soon as that occurred I was flirting/kissing the chick assuming no one seen. (hahahaahaha)

It always cracks me up because he knows I always try to be "discreet". To everyone else, I just seem like an upbeat relaxed guy who likes to have fun. Rare that someone even knows the chicks I've banged or messed with.

[HonantheBarbarian]

[Travesty]

^ Distant Light

Yes the perfect strategy to be the discreet guy. You want the girls to gossip amongst themselves not broadcast your carpet bomb banging.

I see these guys from a mile away I will befriend them before ever dating a girl they "hang" with lol.

If the guy knows you "get it" and can trust you respect his game he will usually hook you up.

[Distant Light]

(09-05-2014 04:40 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

^ Distant Light

Yes the perfect strategy to be the discreet guy. You want the girls to gossip amongst themselves not broadcast your carpet bomb banging.

I see these guys from a mile away I will befriend them before ever dating a girl they "hang" with lol.

If the guy knows you "get it" and can trust you respect his game he will usually hook you up.

Spot on!! This is exactly what I do and many others that I've come across...

There is also sort of a social etiquette that each man should atleast have a handful of women they can invite along or else eventually it's seen as them being a "leech". (Unless they are the ones who provide the space/venue, money, etc. What pop culture covers are only the guys spending tons cash, not the ones "behind the scenes".

[jariel]