Quote: (08-17-2014 10:32 AM)echo park Wrote:
I was more suggesting that the boards assumption that hot indo girls are all into foreigners is completely wrong. I think a lot of glowing reports have been written about jakarta but I can guarantee you the majority of them would be based off easy online sex or the odd pull from X2 with a 5/10 girl.
A lot of my female Indonesian friends wouldn't fuck a white guy if they were George Clooney with a dick made of $100 bills. However, they do enjoy dressing up and going out to places like X2 where white guys will buy them drinks. Way more common than reports on this site would have you believe. Not that anyone here is lying, I just think there are some exaggerations. Just my 2c
I am curious, what is your background regarding Indonesia?
I have spent almost a month in Indonesia this year, mostly in Jakarta and of course, I travelled also around for enjoying the nature. It would be a waste not to do so.
When I travel, I am not all about pussy as some of the guys here are. I don't judge that, everyone has different expectations and a different lifestyle. I appreciate it when I meet a "quality" girl (good looking, fun to be around with) which I can meet several times, travel around and enjoy life together. And that's possible in Jakarta. I met a nice 18 year old, part-time model and student with English skills which matched mine. I am not a native speaker myself.
My conclusion for Jakarta is:
1. There are lot of girls on Tinder who are willing to meet you directly at your apartment for a swim and sex. A white guy is a trophy for these girls. Of course, these girls are not a 9 or 10. These girls are the in the 5 to 6 range.
2. There are girls in the 7 to 8 range which are willing to meet white men. These girls are good looking and might speak good English. It might be a 8 for me because I prefer Asian girls, so let it be a 7 for the regular guy.
I don't think you need to bring your perfect game when you want to meet girls of the second category. There is not that feeling of entitlement as we can see it in Western Europe. However I am a good looking guy, in shape and sharp dresser.
At the end, what I wanted to say is, I think you paint a pretty black picture here. Of course, a fat, ugly, old foreigner will not have much success in Jakarta with beautiful girls. But if you are young, good looking, there are a lot of girls which are interested in you. Some girls will be up for a one night stand, other girls will expect one or two dates before they are willing to sleep with you, especially Indo-Chinese girls in my experience.
Mike O'Brien
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