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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/2d...esting_my/

tl;dr:

Guy makes 6 figures as an engineering manager
Asks his wife for a divorce
She has her daughter tell the police he molested her
He gets sentenced to 15 years in prison

*Never getting married crew*
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Yeah. Marriage just doesn't seem worth it.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Quote: (08-15-2014 04:50 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  

http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/2d...esting_my/

tl;dr:

Guy makes 6 figures as an engineering manager
Asks his wife for a divorce
She has her daughter tell the police he molested her
He gets sentenced to 15 years in prison

*Never getting married crew*

Change the thread title: I thought it was the wife who got sentenced.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

One by one, all the "good men" gets knocked out of the table.
Thanks for showing the next generation what not to do!

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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

that article is terrifying. This quote stood out the most to me

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The judges exact words (said off the record to my attorney and I wasn't mean to over hear) "I don't think he's guilty, but I can't go against the prosecutor on this." I about vomited right there in the court room. In my opinion the judge and ADA are just as bad as the scum they lock away.

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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Someone should start collecting all these divorce rape/falsely accused of rape stories in one thread. It would make a great pool of references to draw from and drop in various social media.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Holy shit. That's seriously brutal.

All I can think is:
- If you're being charged with something like this, don't rest on your innocence. Take an active role in your defence, don't expect a lawyer to do his job just because he is being paid.
- Go after the ex-wife. If there is enough evidence to prove a malicious prosecution or at least purgery, put her behind bars.
- And above all else, don't let it get to this. A woman doesn't start doing all this overnight. There would have been many signs that the relationship was breaking down, and steps could have been taken earlier to either fix it or finish it. I also seriously doubt someone couldn't spot this kind of vicious streak in someones personality before they married them. Seriously - cheating on her husband with multiple men and then putting false molestation charges on him when he tried for divorce? I can't see how you wouldn't be able to spot that kind of monster. Perhaps I'm naiive.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

He obviously had a bad lawyer. Molestation of his daughter is a criminal offense. Not something judged in family/divorce court. He could have got a child psychologist involved to interview everyone involved to sort out the facts and give a report to the court. He could have also appealed the verdict.

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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

It costs money, time, energy to do that, Parlay44. Also there is no guarantee it will work. Remember, they will do everything they can to get you convicted.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Quote: (08-15-2014 10:33 AM)mikado Wrote:  

It costs money, time, energy to do that, Parlay44. Also there is no guarantee it will work. Remember, they will do everything they can to get you convicted.

The guy make 6 figures. Court appointented child psychologist cost about $10k. It's common in divorce and child custody. If you can prove she's psycho and lying it's money well spent.

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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

This guy broke one of my key rules (even though I am not married yet). He took over responsibility for another man's kid. That is my biggest concern, that is her blood you are disciplining or spanking. Who will she choose in the event of dispute between the step child and you? Also, who would she use to hurt you, her own "asset" as in this situation - "he isn't your real daddy, he is trying to hurt your mommy, you need to tell the police this and this." As usual, seems like evidence wasn't allowed. Because it would help his case. I know I am generalizing.

Do not raise another man's kid. Marry only if you want kids. Prenup!

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All of my troubles started after I found out my (now ex) wife was having ANOTHER affair and stealing money from my bank and credit accounts. I confronted her and after a lot of argument I told her that I wanted a divorce and custody of my son. The next day She starts laughing and saying that my stepdaughter said I had abused her (which was a lie) and that she would be calling the police

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With no evidence on my side it was all a “he said she said” situation. The prosecutor did well in making me out to be a bad guy because I made good money but wouldn't go see my son (even though she was the one who put a no contact order on me for most of the pretrial time) and that my ex wouldn't agree to the visitation since she had moved out of the state after the start of the whole mess. She also made it out to sound like I never gave my ex money for support, which was a lie as I was giving her over $1200 a month and paying most of her bills to support her and my son, but I couldn't prove it because none of my financial records were allow in as evidence. Anyhow, long story short, with no evidence, no witnesses, and no expert of my side it only took the Jury 4 hours to deliberate and find me guilty.

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I'm also going to start the long process of trying to get custody of my son (if he even turns out to be mine after a DNA test), which I haven't seen since he was 6 months old.

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I am pressing criminal charges on my old lawyer. If he is convicted then he will be automatically disbarred.
As for actions against my ex, yeah we have discussed it, but it's going to be very unlikely she will ever see any punishment.

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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Quote: (08-15-2014 10:24 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

He obviously had a bad lawyer. Molestation of his daughter is a criminal offense. Not something judged in family/divorce court. He could have got a child psychologist involved to interview everyone involved to sort out the facts and give a report to the court.

He did - 3 of them. He did 17 months anyway.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Quote: (08-15-2014 04:50 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  

http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/2d...esting_my/

tl;dr:

Guy makes 6 figures as an engineering manager
Asks his wife for a divorce
She has her daughter tell the police he molested her
He gets sentenced to 15 years in prison

*Never getting married crew*

My cliff notes:

Never marry single mothers
Never marry an American woman
Only let your own children live in your house

Yep sounds about right.

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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Quote: (08-15-2014 10:59 AM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

Quote: (08-15-2014 10:24 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

He obviously had a bad lawyer. Molestation of his daughter is a criminal offense. Not something judged in family/divorce court. He could have got a child psychologist involved to interview everyone involved to sort out the facts and give a report to the court.

He did - 3 of them. He did 17 months anyway.

2nd lawyer took the money and told him he paid for an expert to show up at the trial. Never paid the expert, so the expert never showed up. He was able to re-open the case because of the terrible #2 lawyer.

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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Quote: (08-15-2014 10:37 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Quote: (08-15-2014 10:33 AM)mikado Wrote:  

It costs money, time, energy to do that, Parlay44. Also there is no guarantee it will work. Remember, they will do everything they can to get you convicted.

The guy make 6 figures. Court appointented child psychologist cost about $10k. It's common in divorce and child custody. If you can prove she's psycho and lying it's money well spent.

After 3 losing his job and being incarcerated for 17 months, he was all out of money and took the first deal that didn't require sex offender registration. And FWIW, he did hire 3 Phds. The deal he got was what you get AFTER shelling out massive money. Average dude would have been crushed.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

I've met lawyers that were seriously vindictive, fucked-up people trying to run a game on everyone.

It wouldn't surprise me if the lawyer put the idea into her head that her husband actually did this, kept the hamster spinning, and pushed along the coaching of the daughter. Said lawyer may have even convinced herself (I'm guessing on gender)that the accusation was legitimate.

Some people are really screwed up. But they almost always try to find a way to convince themselves they're doing the right thing.

The hamster spins that wheel faster than we even realize. Scary.

Relevant: 1st chapter of "How to Win Friends and Influence People."

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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Quote: (08-15-2014 11:03 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

Quote: (08-15-2014 04:50 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  

http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/2d...esting_my/

tl;dr:

Guy makes 6 figures as an engineering manager
Asks his wife for a divorce
She has her daughter tell the police he molested her
He gets sentenced to 15 years in prison

*Never getting married crew*

My cliff notes:

Never marry single mothers
Never marry an American woman
Only let your own children live in your house

Yep sounds about right.

Bolded for emphasis. Dating them sucks pretty bad too.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

I can't say the man deserves it... but he is partially to blame. This is an engineering manager making plenty of money - how is it possible that this was the best he could do? If you've secured the financial aspect of your life, how do you just totally drop the ball and marry a single mother?

And at the very least, make sure the stepchild is a boy instead of a girl. There's a greater chance a boy will appreciate a paternal figure in his life, and he's more likely to have a sense of honor and refuse to cooperate with the mom.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs

Quote: (08-15-2014 11:03 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

My cliff notes:

Never marry single mothers
Never marry an American woman
Only let your own children live in your house

Yep sounds about right.

I would add:

Never ever marry in the current climate.
Have a party / marriage ceremony without the legal contract.
You will never be the real dad to the children of a single mom.

Without Game / Red Pill you are fucked either way - in a LTR / marriage anyway.
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