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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs
08-15-2014, 04:52 AM
Yeah. Marriage just doesn't seem worth it.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs
08-15-2014, 05:12 AM
One by one, all the "good men" gets knocked out of the table.
Thanks for showing the next generation what not to do!
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08-15-2014, 07:40 AM
that article is terrifying. This quote stood out the most to me
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The judges exact words (said off the record to my attorney and I wasn't mean to over hear) "I don't think he's guilty, but I can't go against the prosecutor on this." I about vomited right there in the court room. In my opinion the judge and ADA are just as bad as the scum they lock away.
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08-15-2014, 08:25 AM
Someone should start collecting all these divorce rape/falsely accused of rape stories in one thread. It would make a great pool of references to draw from and drop in various social media.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs
08-15-2014, 09:30 AM
Holy shit. That's seriously brutal.
All I can think is:
- If you're being charged with something like this, don't rest on your innocence. Take an active role in your defence, don't expect a lawyer to do his job just because he is being paid.
- Go after the ex-wife. If there is enough evidence to prove a malicious prosecution or at least purgery, put her behind bars.
- And above all else, don't let it get to this. A woman doesn't start doing all this overnight. There would have been many signs that the relationship was breaking down, and steps could have been taken earlier to either fix it or finish it. I also seriously doubt someone couldn't spot this kind of vicious streak in someones personality before they married them. Seriously - cheating on her husband with multiple men and then putting false molestation charges on him when he tried for divorce? I can't see how you wouldn't be able to spot that kind of monster. Perhaps I'm naiive.
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs
08-15-2014, 10:24 AM
He obviously had a bad lawyer. Molestation of his daughter is a criminal offense. Not something judged in family/divorce court. He could have got a child psychologist involved to interview everyone involved to sort out the facts and give a report to the court. He could have also appealed the verdict.
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08-15-2014, 10:33 AM
It costs money, time, energy to do that, Parlay44. Also there is no guarantee it will work. Remember, they will do everything they can to get you convicted.
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08-15-2014, 11:26 AM
I've met lawyers that were seriously vindictive, fucked-up people trying to run a game on everyone.
It wouldn't surprise me if the lawyer put the idea into her head that her husband actually did this, kept the hamster spinning, and pushed along the coaching of the daughter. Said lawyer may have even convinced herself (I'm guessing on gender)that the accusation was legitimate.
Some people are really screwed up. But they almost always try to find a way to convince themselves they're doing the right thing.
The hamster spins that wheel faster than we even realize. Scary.
Relevant: 1st chapter of "How to Win Friends and Influence People."
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Wife falsely accuses husband of molesting daughter, husband gets sentenced to 15 yrs
08-15-2014, 03:05 PM
I can't say the man deserves it... but he is partially to blame. This is an engineering manager making plenty of money - how is it possible that this was the best he could do? If you've secured the financial aspect of your life, how do you just totally drop the ball and marry a single mother?
And at the very least, make sure the stepchild is a boy instead of a girl. There's a greater chance a boy will appreciate a paternal figure in his life, and he's more likely to have a sense of honor and refuse to cooperate with the mom.