Hi guys,
I would appreciate some help.
3 of the 5 girls I have banged in the past week and a half have started talking about other guys.
These are girls that clearly wanted to bang me from the start. One of the girls had her hand on my dick while she brought up a story about casual one night stand she had. Another girl started showing me photos of other guys she's dating in between fooling around. Another girl started telling me about guys she's taken home from bars and MMFs she's been in after we had a one night stand.
Call me old fashioned, but why can't they just lie to me? I know these girls have been around the block and I don't care at all, but I just think it's rude for them to throw this shit in my face. I have the courtesy to not tell them that I banged another girl at my place before going out for the night.
The reason I care about this is that when they tell me this shit my disgust is just so obvious and while it hasn't impacted my success it creates a real hole for me to talk myself out of. That said, after the fact I find these stories hilarious, so I do kind of want to hear them. It's also a good reminder that the girls are not relationship material just in case I might otherwise have accidentally caught some feelings for them.
These are the explanations I thought of. Maybe some combination of them is accurate
1) these girls are trying to "own their sexuality" and want to prove to themselves that they are not ashamed of their past by telling me about the shit they've done.
2) they actually want to be honest and explain to me who they are .
3) they are trying to give me the hint that they only want something casual (I tend to give off a boyfriend vibe).
4) they are trying to disgust me so that I won't want to see them again.
I don't think there is a coherent question in this post, but what do you guys think about this topic?
I would appreciate some help.
3 of the 5 girls I have banged in the past week and a half have started talking about other guys.
These are girls that clearly wanted to bang me from the start. One of the girls had her hand on my dick while she brought up a story about casual one night stand she had. Another girl started showing me photos of other guys she's dating in between fooling around. Another girl started telling me about guys she's taken home from bars and MMFs she's been in after we had a one night stand.
Call me old fashioned, but why can't they just lie to me? I know these girls have been around the block and I don't care at all, but I just think it's rude for them to throw this shit in my face. I have the courtesy to not tell them that I banged another girl at my place before going out for the night.
The reason I care about this is that when they tell me this shit my disgust is just so obvious and while it hasn't impacted my success it creates a real hole for me to talk myself out of. That said, after the fact I find these stories hilarious, so I do kind of want to hear them. It's also a good reminder that the girls are not relationship material just in case I might otherwise have accidentally caught some feelings for them.
These are the explanations I thought of. Maybe some combination of them is accurate
1) these girls are trying to "own their sexuality" and want to prove to themselves that they are not ashamed of their past by telling me about the shit they've done.
2) they actually want to be honest and explain to me who they are .
3) they are trying to give me the hint that they only want something casual (I tend to give off a boyfriend vibe).
4) they are trying to disgust me so that I won't want to see them again.
I don't think there is a coherent question in this post, but what do you guys think about this topic?