Quote: (07-23-2014 04:56 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:
As a lot of people have slowly found out. I decided to take an extended stay of 3 months in Budapest.
I've been giving rave reviews of Budapest to everyone I know, and finally decide to move here for a couple months and see what kind of trouble I could get into.
Hopefully I get the time to make constant updates. On day to day life.
To start off.. I have no job here. I'm living solely on saving. Aka I do nothing during the day, but brainstorm ideas to start a sort of business do "freelance" work for a couple dollars here and there.
This is just stream of conscience.. Im not really getting anywhere specific here....
But ill do my best to answer anywhere questions from the viewpoint of a young Black American, living in Budapest
Ill start with the WHY.
Why did I come here?
2 years ago I planned to visit Austria.. but the plane ticket from where I was in Europe to Budapest was less than 20 dollars thanks to Ryanair. I planned to stay in Budapest a couple days and head to Vienna and travel around Austria.
A friend and I skipped the hostel and Couchsurfing route and rented apartment on Airbnb in a great location for pennies.
We spent 3 days in Budapest exploring the city and bar hopping with great success. I fell in love with how inexpensive the city was.. and how much friendlier and interesting it was compared to the western European countries ( Especially Germany) I had been to.
For the next couple years I researched cost of living and such in the city and found it was almost half that of my city back home.
Eventually I had a big block of time ( three months) and decided I would set up shop in Budapest.
I found a friend that had been to Budapest a year after me (after my recommendation) and we decided to find a great apartment and just leave the States for a while. At the cost of burning a bit of our long earned savings...and not going straight into the job world. We are now here.
My impressions of Budapest...is that the city is awesome. They summers are warm/hot..people are always in the city.
Its just big enough that its possible to find a new place ever night for a long time... but its not big enough to get lost in the city. Its also small enough that you can become a familiar at places you frequent.
Budapest gets a fair amount of tourist..But luckily they aren't asshole tourist that shit in the streets.
I live on a busy street that is often filled with hostel goers...but also many Hungarians.
Public transportation is cheap and extremely on time.
People speak English at a percentage that makes it extremely manageable to live without knowing anything more than basic Hungarian phrases like yes, no thanks you..ect
And when I have a hard time understanding Hungarian...its not hard to make a local friend and have someone help you out
Hungarians are extremely welcoming on the outside.
Race doesn't seem to be a problem.. Ive found quite a few African living decently in the city. Even a couple small businesses.
In some countries I have been to.African minorities seem almost sketchy in their lifestyles.. but here.. I even see mixed couples walking though the city(if albeit rarely)
From what I've learned..Hungarians seem extremely curious about black people.
Many of my Hungarians friends..both guys and girls...joke that i'll have no trouble finding a wife here.. every other girl wants "cappuccino" babies.
I can't say this is all hype.. I do extremely well with women here...but this is on top of my already great game.
Friendly and genuine..but what I've come to recognize.. is that Hungarians view complaining as a past time.
It seems like every facet of life can be complained about and Hungarians are often extremely stubborn.
Ive noticed this across the bored that Hungarians..once annoyed by something to the smallest bit...will let it build up and complain for the rest of the week about it.
Where I thought a lot of Hungarians were just making small talk that I didn't understand( not speaking the language) Hungarians often make a lot of back handed compliments. But are self aware of their bitchiness.
Im not generalizing all Hungarians..cause I've met quite a few down to earth ones.... but they have told me some of the comments they hear when people don't realize they speak Hungarian.
Social circles play a big role in Hungarian society it seems.
In America..you can meet people quickly and superficially and whisk them off quickly.
Hungarians seem to care little more of what people think of them and women stay in their groups much tighter than back home.
Their is a clear tier system.
If you aren't in the circle... you may never be let in fully.
You can get in temporarily but you might not get full benefits... in this sense.. it seems a little hard to make friends because as friendly as Hungarians are.. often I think they are a little suspicious of foreigners.
This isn't without reason though..
Historically.. Hungarians have been ran through by many different empires..and even now.
So many tourist roll in an out of Budapest, that girls are extremely suspect to dating a non hungarian.
People are extremely surprised and confused to learn that Im living here... because most young hungarians have dreams of getting out.
There is no gym culture here.
Gyms are extremely expensive...with the average hungarian wage... gyms can be upwards of 15 percent of a person income.
You can get gym memberships in america for average 30 dollars a month and in lots of places cheaper.
Gym memberships in Budapest are 50+ a month. and anything cheaper puts strict limitations on your gym time.
The cheapest gym was about 25 dollars a month.. but i could only go before 3pm.
Which isnt to horrible.. get your morning reps in... but for anyone that goes to work.. you wont be able to go to the gym.
And conssidering places like LA fitness,often have state of the art weight rooms and machines.. with saunas, pools and hot tubs for 30 dollars a month.
I feel like im getting ripped off.. on top of that.. so many gyms looks like whole in the wall basement with no AC.
Im current paying 50 dollars a month for a place.. simply because they have equipment that looks like it can support weight.
But the gym is only about the size of my Average house..back home
The people that go to gyms are either making some decent catch...really dedicated...or porn stars.
The above ground gyms have lots of hot girls doing light cardio or working out with trainers.
I cant fathom why a 20s girl really needs a trainer..let alone who is paying her upwards of 100 dollar a month membership?
Last thing I have to say?
Why is Bacon so expensive?
I might not be looking so hard.. but Why is good bacon like 6 dollars a pack
another portion of by datasheet can be found on my blogGround Review of Budapest
or littered in the Budapest nightlift datasheet
I did some math.
I have been here about a week. it will be my first full month in budapest. without leaving the country.
after paying rent..I have been to A big music festival (Balaton sound)
Bought new clothes, basic stuff for my apartment. along with groceries.
Topped off with going out about 3 nights a week.
plus the money in my wallet.. I have spent 1034 dollars.
If I hadnt gone to this music festival, or bought clothes+ lots of stuff i dnt need..
I probably would only spend about 800.. and be able to go out 3 nights a week.
Im thinking about taking pictures of menus at bars and restaurants I go to also so people can see the prices im paying for stuff.
Would people be interested in that?
Interesting findings, i have been 4 times in budapest so far for stays between 2 or 3 weeks, it s a place i would love to live one day when i get more vacations or time.
In my more recent budapest visit july 2014, first time i visit during summer things have changed a little bit specially the nightlife scene, Margaret island used to be the place to be (it had the biggest clubs white angel, studio, dokk, venues that can stand between 2000 and 5000 guests all next to each other), now the nightlife is scattered all around the city, and smaller venues like Otkert, trafiq, kraft, rio, morrison liget, on weekdays it s less interesting except few spots but starting thursday city come alive.
Hungarian girls are gorgeous and very open minded, down to earth too. I have to disagree with you about Hungarian guys, a lot of the hungarian chicks i dated told me that they don t hungarian guys for many reasons, i have seen it first hand how they approach women, and in most countries they would get a slap for that, let s not talk about the dress code, but there is everything everywhere, rich hungarian guys are doingg very well with chicks no matter how old they are, most hungarian guys with good looks making enough cash have a model like girlfriend, and that s a good thing that takes a whole bunch of competition away. Main problem for foreigners is that some ( not all ) Hungarian chicks look for some stability , even a tiny bit, it means if you tell her that you are leaving in two days that would cut your chances by 80%... I always say i am staying for a month and i come back in a couple of month, or that you travel for budapest regularly for buisness that s a game changer.
In Budapest MONEY TALKS, you can break any circle even if you travel solo with enough money, i ll elaborate, first of all most clubs have VIP areas, who ever u are you can get there by paying 3000 -5000 ft/ for your table anywhere between 30000 to 60000 ft , most of the girls that gets in there usually don t pay, they know someone, and a lot of times you would see some girls chatting the bouncers to let them in, guess what if you have your own table inside, you can get any girl in. On my last trip i was solo having bottle service in some of the clubs, i got invited at least 3 times by the vip area managers to join their table, they chat you up because they want you back, this vip manager is the one that's surrounded by girls and bring those girls every weekend to the club, once you are a regular (which you can achieve having couple of tables over there for a week and your friend with that vip manager, sky is the limit).
As i said the big venues are mostly open during weekends, the rest of the week up you have to find your way between ruin pubs and small university pubs, where there is no vip anything , cheap booze and all sort of people. You need time to get to know the right spot in budapest, you can meet a lot of these girls during the week, take their number and text them later for a dinner and a lot of time they can invite you to their place for wine and sex of course.
Life in budapest is easy no matter what your budget is, it s cheap compared to western European standards, it s one of those cities where you just don 't wanna leave.
If you have enough game, you can even meet girls during the day, shopping ( Hungarian girls love shopping) so malls are not a bad place and spas are even better where you can meet tourists and locals.
Other then clubs/ girls, the city by itself is great, the food , the spas, massages and yeah there is some interesting erotic massage venues. So
there is a lot of things you can do during the day.
Hungarian language is hard, but u can do fine with just english, few times i spend nights with a girl who doesn't speak a word of english just by using google translate.