[KorbenDallas]

I read a comment on another thread where a poster said that is is impossible to have a relationship with a woman who makes more than you or is rich.


This is so freaking false it's not even funny. There are lots of guys who marry rich, attractive, sweet girls, who have almost no money themselves. There are also guys who maintain frame in relationships with women who make more than them.

It may not be something you're interested in because it will effect the relationship in some ways, but to write this off as impossible, is imprudent and bordering on game denialism.

Usually these couples meet young and in school, but there are lots of guys who are in school who read Roosh.

When I was younger I had an opportunity to have relationships with sweet girls, not 10's, but 7s, who, if I would have gotten into long term relationships with, it could have set me up to marry into families worth tens of millions.

As long as your in the same social scene as rich girls, you could be in like Flynn. They don't care about money, only personality, and "class".

[Foolsgo1d]

Did someone hack Korben's account?

[KorbenDallas]

Ok, it reads pretty bad, and I'm not saying all, but I'm just saying its a strategy.

It's the ultimate flip of the script, and ok, they may not be that feminine, but its possible.

Edit: the trick is to shoot for the super rich girls, not the ones who make good money, these girls don't really take money into account and could fall for a guy with good game, but maybe not so much money.

[Blackmagic]

In the long run this is a recipe for disaster. Any fairly good looking guy with intermediate game can make a girl from a relatively wealthy family fall for him for a few months or even a few years. This is especially true if the chick is under 25 or has already divorce raped her first husband because the money isn't hers to begin with.

I rarely date women that are not in a better financial position than myself, unless they're students.

[KorbenDallas]

I don't like rich girls, but that doesn't mean they aren't baggable for a guy with good game.

[jamaicabound]

I know that. some guys would be bothered by this on a pride or ego level

I question if it would be an issue or not. Sometimes who has the money is who makes decisions and of that was the case I couldnt live in a woman led household. I guess if you have a strong frame and are a leader and provider in other ways and a strong man maybe it wouldnt be an issue.

I dated a women older than me with a good income for a number of years but I was in college and she was like 9 years older so there really wasnt an expectation I would be established and well off. I didnt have any problems and it actually worked out nicely. She was generous but i mever took advantage. She would buy me nicer gifts and maybe pick up a few more drink tabs but on larger things like vacations I would pay my way of course.

It doesnt have to be an issue but I could see things being more challenging if your a bit older or dont have that age difference and there is still that income gap.

You always hear these studies how more women are going to college. Women are beginning to earn more, etc. I think alot of guys in the comming years are going to be dealing with women who make more than they do.

[AnonymousBosch]

(07-18-2014 04:50 PM)KorbenDallas Wrote:  

I don't like rich girls, but that doesn't mean they aren't baggable for a guy with good game.

The hook for banging rich girls is to subtly-exaggerate class difference. Play up the raw / earthy / animalistic / closer to nature / 'more real' stereotype. Text misspells, lower class language, more brutish presentation. There's a type of rich girl who loves to bang thugs.

For example: I know how to hold a knife and fork properly, but if I'm with a girl who thinks she's educated and above me in class and we end up in a dining situation, then I swap my utensil hands, clutch the fork in my fist, and saw with my left. The idea is you subtly draw attention to your hands - which makes chicks think about the size of your dick. Knives and forks are too 'small' and 'dainty' for a guy like you. You're unrefined and physical in how you eat, so her mind naturally wanders to what you would be like in bed. You're dominant in her mind, money be damned.

I do this with suits too. I always end up unbuttoning my collar and wearing my tie lower in a loose knot to draw attention to my thick neck. I'm showing her I'm too physical to be contained and restrained.

[Fortis]

Don't a lot of dudes in their twenties sometimes "date" women in the 30s and get everything paid for? I mean, if you like women who are older and can get her to buy you stuff, then that sounds pretty cool.

[monster]

Is there a shortcut to develop this 'class' you mention? Or is it the school of hardknocks where one learns from one's whitetrash mistakes? lol

[AnonymousBosch]

(07-18-2014 06:49 PM)monster Wrote:  

Is there a shortcut to develop this 'class' you mention? Or is it the school of hardknocks where one learns from one's whitetrash mistakes? lol

It's a studied observation of human behaviour and replication of performance. Anyone over 130 IQ should be able to easily the maintain the parallel thought processes to exist in both states at once: the observer and the actor.

Privileged Girls are prone to Sensibility, so only care about destroying stereotypes when they apply to herself, or the Pathetic.

Since it's a form of Narcissism, she won't hold herself to the standards of behaviour she expects from everyone else. Therefore, she will stereotype everyone, and judge every book by its cover, whilst affecting a Narcissistic Construct as being of the exact opposite - a person who never judges *anyone*: Social Justice / HumanitariansOfTinder.

If you play up observable class stereotypes as 'affect', she will never question it.

[DVY]

I do this on the regular. Shit, I pretty much can only date rich college-grad girls, but I live in LA (so everybody graduates from colllege here).

[sand]

I've only dated extremely wealthy before. Honestly it was laziness on my end. I really enjoy the "vagabond" aspect of being broke yet still living a fairly luxurious lifestyle. My mom was born rich so I have the mannerisms to blend in.

Honestly my ultimate game dream would be to marry into nobility and play polo all day.

[Windom Earle]

Not impossible, of course, but prone to complications. The word "hypergamy" exists for a reason. Combine fickle concepts of loyalty with the primal urge of wanting to be provided for, and it's no wonder the fairer sex succumb to and get wet for wealth.

If you're getting her wet and keeping her that way, and you're earning less (or of a lower class), then more power to you. You have tight game, a tight frame (not prone to feelings of lower value/inadequecy due to the wealth/class divide) and/or you found that rare keeper that's into you for you(?).

Since we're talking about relationships (I take to mean LTR's) then you're inevitably not only gaming the girl, but the family as well, and their sometimes not so subtle influences placed upon their girl regarding who she should be associating with. She may not seek the requirements in a partner that less wealthy girls can have, since she comes from wealth, but you can bet your broke ass that her family are judging and casting aspersions.

So, the family won't necessarily see you in the loving light that she does, and that can grate, on you and her. I know, I've been there and come out the other side.

[berserk]

(07-18-2014 06:06 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

(07-18-2014 04:50 PM)KorbenDallas Wrote:  

I don't like rich girls, but that doesn't mean they aren't baggable for a guy with good game.

The hook for banging rich girls is to subtly-exaggerate class difference. Play up the raw / earthy / animalistic / closer to nature / 'more real' stereotype. Text misspells, lower class language, more brutish presentation. There's a type of rich girl who loves to bang thugs.

For example: I know how to hold a knife and fork properly, but if I'm with a girl who thinks she's educated and above me in class and we end up in a dining situation, then I swap my utensil hands, clutch the fork in my fist, and saw with my left. The idea is you subtly draw attention to your hands - which makes chicks think about the size of your dick. Knives and forks are too 'small' and 'dainty' for a guy like you. You're unrefined and physical in how you eat, so her mind naturally wanders to what you would be like in bed. You're dominant in her mind, money be damned.

I do this with suits too. I always end up unbuttoning my collar and wearing my tie lower in a loose knot to draw attention to my thick neck. I'm showing her I'm too physical to be contained and restrained.

Nice, this would work well on girls who grow up rich and meet a lot of pampered rich kids, where the guys are very rarely physical. I always found the problem to be their tightly guarded social circles in the first place and often hang out in exclusive and expensive locals.

[Cr33pin]

My long term girl made good money as a nurse. She made just as much money as me if not a little more. She still ended up spending more on me and our relationship then I ever did. We split things like rent and such down the middle but she always bought all the food and spent more on big trips and purchases. She bought me rims for my cars and vertical doors for two of them and all kinds of things. I rarely bought her anything.

I started dating her when she was 17 and she didn't even know what a job was, by the time she was 18 she had two jobs and was living with me paying half the rent and most of the bills. Call it what you want but she is one of the most responsible people when it comes to money I know. If I had not made her get jobs and pay rent and bought everything for her early in the relationship, she wouldn't be as good with money and know the value of it like she does today. I promise you that.

[DJ-Matt]

I hide my wealth so they think I'm poor.

[Samseau]

Dating rich women is also known as, "Making game pay."