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07-19-2014, 03:22 PM
Quote: (07-17-2014 07:15 PM)BarryInSF Wrote:
I read the following very old post on Roosh's blog:
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You should be able to talk for hours without stopping. If a crowd wouldn’t form, you’re not interesting. There’s ways to become interesting, but it’s probably not by what you’re doing now.
Great advice but a little vague, so I'm seeking advice. How did YOU become more interesting?
I went out and lived my life.
Another thing you can do to be more interesting: change your tonality and pace. Calibrate your tonality. Listening to the same pace and same tone is very, very boring. You can tell the most boring story in the world, but if you tell it with good tonality and pacing, people will find it interesting.
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07-19-2014, 03:54 PM
A lot of solid advice through the whole thread.
I traveled more then most people in their 50's to become "interesting" but even before that just try to make every day a bit different. I have years of my life that blend together because i did the same thing every day, and nothing to show.
AMAZING guy for learning how to tell a great story from nothing.
It's a 4 part series.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loxJ3FtCJJA
Watch Seinfeld.....every single episode and you will learn how to banter. I usually watch one before a date to just get myself in the mood to just talk. about whatever comes up.
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07-20-2014, 03:05 PM
Go a month where you say yes to everything. Someone invites you somewhere? Yes. Some opportunity comes up that you wouldn't ordinarily care about doing? Yes. Someone asks for help on some project? Yes.
To be interesting, it's easiest to have interesting experiences.
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07-20-2014, 04:08 PM
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Great advice but a little vague, so I'm seeking advice. How did YOU become more interesting?
See the world for what it really is... you will know you are more interesting when you have nothing to talk about with the average person.
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07-20-2014, 04:38 PM
I started climbing mountains.
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07-21-2014, 02:05 PM
Why do you want to become "more interesting"??
To get girls?
Girls don't care how "interesting" you ARE..
They hardly even know what "interesting" is. To them, "interesting" means cute, funny, and cool.
They only care how "interesting" you APPEAR.
If you are good looking, she may be interested.
If you are highly confident, she may be interested.
If you have status, she may be interested.
If you are dressed well, she may be interested.
If you have charisma, she may be interested.
If you are wealthy, she may be interested.
If you are a good conversationalist, she may be interested.
The more of these traits you have, the more interesting you will appear.
Notice that NONE of these things actually require you to live an "interesting" life.
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If you want girls, you should work on your appearance and your charisma.
Traveling the world is not interesting to a girl unless you can tell the story in an entertaining way.
"Being interesting" to girls is about APPEARING interesting.
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If you just want to live a more interesting life, than just do things that are of interest to you -- but, don't expect girls to want to fuck you just because you follow your own interests.
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I live a boring life, I never travel, I drive a shitty car, I don't go out, I'm lower middle class..
I still get girls. In fact, I am now getting hotter girls then ever before!
Why? Because I worked on my Game!
I learned how to build muscle on my body, I learned how to dress, I learned how to become confident, I learned how to talk to girls, I fixed my logistics, etc.
I didn't get more "interesting", I just got more "interesting" looking and sounding.
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07-21-2014, 02:42 PM
Another note: I have a close friend who is very good at talking and sharing stories. So when I saw her last week, I listened more closely than usual and I was surprised to notice that none of her stories were about amazing life experiences. They were all about relatively mundane things that had happened to her recently. So it wasn't the story that was interesting. It was the way she told it.
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07-21-2014, 02:45 PM
Gio hits it out of the park on this
Appearance is everything. Only in the long haul will you ever have to back it up. With girls, at least initially, if you push the right 'interesting buttons' (aka have game) there's no other 'proof' needed (be it cooking, rich, musical ability, fame, or whatever). This is also why 'normal' guys hate on 'shallow artists guys that get laid'...it's obviously surface deep but chicks ain't seeing it. Either they can't or they choose not to.
How else can DJ's push play at 'live shows'?
How else can 'live bands' play to backing tracks?
People are ONLY interested in what it looks/feels like. Substance is something us guys on the forum might talk about, but out in the real world the percentage of people that care is MINIMAL
Now it's just a matter of how deep you want to go. Some people lose themselves trying to establish this new/enhanced (superficial) identity. It's funny because while girls might fawn over you, most well-traveled men will call BS within 5 seconds of meeting you if you try to pull the 'I'm cool b/c of my appearance' card and don't have experience/knowledge to back it up.
Many guys (MikeCF writes about this alot) are of the opinion that you should focus on being a masculine man and the rest will fall into place. I would say this is a more valuable path (long term) than struggling with your 'appearances'(short term).
That said, a minimal effort with appearances can parlay into a great stepping stone for getting everything else together because you'll see some short term success.
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07-21-2014, 03:11 PM
I've become interesting by doing a lot of cool things. I've gone skydiving a bunch of times and climbed large mountains. I make money from my computer, have traveled to 26 countries, and have sex with locals girls in many of the places I go.
I started doing cool things because when I grew up I was always a weird kid who never got any girls. To compensate for never getting any girls I'd do cool shit like skydiving, extreme sports, and international traveling (so I could get laid easier). As a result, I've lived more than 99% of the world will before they die, and I'm in my mid 20's.
Lately girls find me interesting because I fuck them better than most guys they've ever met (it's easier to be a girls "bet she's ever had" in foreign countries where girls have less sexual partners and in the US).
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07-21-2014, 03:18 PM
Read. Read the classics. Hemingway, Vonnegut, Hesse, Orwell, Tolstoy, Stienbeck, Nabokov, Kafka, Keats...
Matthew Henry's Commentary on the bible is incredible and will change the way you think.
It's not just the stories the men tell in their books, but the way they see the world is brilliant.
Younger you get started, the better.
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07-22-2014, 06:01 AM
I agree with the other posters here who have said that appearing interesting by creating an aura of confidence will attract girls, and that this is probably the most important factor ultimately.
However, to me this seems like somewhat of a "fake it until you make it" type of strategy, and is probably not very sustainable when considering gaming in the long term.
For the long term, it's easier to just become legitimately more interesting. I have found that it's easy to make yourself legitimately more interesting by doing the following:
1) Travelling: travel whenever you get the chance. If you don't have the opportunity to travel overseas due to money constraints or because of other circumstances, you can always just visit interesting or quirky places in your city/state/region. Exploring is always an eye-opening experience.
2) Reading: whenever you have free time, read widely about a range of topics such as history, geography, politics, science, technology, etc.
3) Take up at least one hobby that you're legitimately interested in: this can be absolutely anything (a sport, musical instrument, language, martial art etc), but it is of utmost importance that you are driven by genuine interest. For example, don't take up skydiving because you may think that it will make you sound cool and interesting even though you hate it - you'll end up just looking like a try-hard.