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Being a redpiller doesn't mean you are proof against women's game?
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Being a redpiller doesn't mean you are proof against women's game?

Quote: (08-06-2014 11:34 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

... I have seen more than a few top notch players crack because they choose to ignore this need and it only becomes a matter of time before some girl hits them from left field and they just fold. The guys that do not crack are the ones who emotional AND sexual needs are being met, usually in the form of some kind of LTR. So they have one or more LTR and still get from fresh stuff on the side. If all you are getting is sex then your emotional needs are not being met and you can chose to ignore that but it's only a matter of time before it brings you down in one way or another.

ONS or SDL gives you only marginally better emotional fulfillment than a hooker. Many times less, because of all the emotional energy you have to put into getting them. Banging a lot of girls that you don't feel any emotional connections with actually takes a greater emotional toll on you than a lot of guys realize.

Indeed - over time and probably because of my meditative and contemplative practices I have learnt a kind of healthy detachment from my emotions. I actually managed to separate the feeling of falling in love with deep love, so that it did not concern most of my emotions. You can actually fall in love with a woman and still be detached about it to a high degree.

If you deny that element within yourself it probably blows up sooner or later and you become obsessed with a girl who is likely the worst kind of girl to be involved with.

Healthy inner detachment is a valuable skill in life - many monks from Christian Franciscans to Muslim Sufis preach it. Red Pill gives you a mental set of real-life rules on how the mating life operates, but it does not cover your emotional or inner life automatically. And of course there are pitfalls for men too who go through countless girls and sometimes lose a part of themselves in the process (going Dark Triad). It helps to have a LTR with a cute feminine girl to realize that it is not a world filled with whores and sluts - despite the constant negative conditioning.
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#27

Being a redpiller doesn't mean you are proof against women's game?

"It helps to have a LTR with a cute feminine girl to realize that it is not a world filled with whores and sluts - despite the constant negative conditioning."

Meeting a few really good women in the game is an encouraging experience.
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#28

Being a redpiller doesn't mean you are proof against women's game?

Which kind of woman really games you?
Is it the sweet, feminine type or the dark triad type discussed in the article. Or is she a deceitful combination of the two?
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