[Sir Vigorous]

(07-16-2014 04:31 PM)RockHard Wrote:  

(07-15-2014 10:41 PM)Sir Vigorous Wrote:  

Ever since I swung for the relationship to be open (this was extremely difficult), all the shit tests have increased expectedly and drastically.

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They get on OKCupid, put "available" in their relationship status, and every guy on OKC sees "easy sex!" overlaid on every picture on her profile.

I told her no online dating and no dating apps. I don't really care if she fucks around. I've never been one to care. If her behavior and demeanor changes and it's noticeable she's been riding the carousel though I'll have to next her.

[RockHard]

(07-16-2014 08:59 PM)Sir Vigorous Wrote:  

I told her no online dating and no dating apps. I don't really care if she fucks around. I've never been one to care. If her behavior and demeanor changes and it's noticeable she's been riding the carousel though I'll have to next her.

That's cool and well played on the OR arrangement.

I'm still wondering, are you looking to solve the issue with her making things about her?

[Bushido]

(07-15-2014 10:41 PM)Sir Vigorous Wrote:  

I can't date other girls but I can f*ck em. We'll be in different states (far far states) for a about a year 3 weeks from now so I wanted to get that going before I left to let her know the openness is not because we are going to be far away. But because I'm young, wanna work on game, and wanna be with women when I'm young.

There is no such thing as a "long distance relationship", whether it's open or not.

It's a waste of your youthful energy and potential at 23 to be bogged down by an imaginary girlfriend in another state.

If you want to live a fantasy life then take up religion. At least going to church might get you laid.

If you want to work on your game then a good start would be to gently cut this one loose.

Chances are that it will only make her like you more in the long run.

Let her go for now. You can always swoop her again when you come back in 12 months' time.

[eradicator]

yeah, what are you doing? Just break up with her if you are going to be apart for 12 months and if you want, try to get back together when she comes back to your town. the long distance relationship does not work.

[heavy]

You: "I bet that girl gives bad blowjobs"
Her: "Do you think I would give bad blowjobs?"

...and so on. I don't see the problem