[Andreas]

Few weeks ago my big bro and one of my best friends saw me flirting with a girl at school and suddenly they started pumping my nerves when they repeadetly saying :"Dude you useless, if i was you i would bang her, she is very cute". Because they were so annoying i stopped having contact with her because they made me lose my interest in this girl and they still keep saying annoying things to me about her. How do i make sure nobody from my friends knows anything about my dating life. It is extremely annoying.

[Kickb]

just tell them them to fuck off

[FretDancer]

(02-23-2011 02:36 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  

just tell them them to fuck off

I used to have this same problem, over time they seem to have cooled off. You just gotta let them know that you're sick of that shit, and they should stop or things will get ugly.

[Tuthmosis]

(02-23-2011 12:47 PM)Andreas Wrote:  

Few weeks ago my big bro and one of my best friends saw me flirting with a girl at school and suddenly they started pumping my nerves when they repeadetly saying :"Dude you useless, if i was you i would bang her, she is very cute". Because they were so annoying i stopped having contact with her because they made me lose my interest in this girl and they still keep saying annoying things to me about her. How do i make sure nobody from my friends knows anything about my dating life. It is extremely annoying.

The problem you're having is the problem of having lame-ass friends. They may be cool guys otherwise, but they have no game whatsoever and their lack of skills and tact is salting your game. The worst part about these type of guys is that they're quick to talk big and give "advice," but never seem to get laid; or, almost worse, all they get is low-quality chicks.

I have a few friends like this. I like them, but I have completely divorced them from my gaming life. When I go out with them, I pretty much assume I won't be doing any quality approaches. And, I tell them nothing of my girls or "dating" life. I advise you to do the same.

Friends with game and, more importantly, respect for yours are VERY hard to find. This is why some guys, myself including, opt for going out dolo most of the time.

[Andreas]

@Tuthmosis one of my friends who keeps saying this annoying shit actually has a cute girlfriend (texting buddy since months pass till he sees her and sends text messages all day to her) and thinks he is good with hot chicks.
Anyways i think i will try what you said but maybe do it a bit differently, since i go out with my friends anyway i could just split for a moment and do my pick up thing.
School is just not that good playground as i used to think before. And thinking of my friends no one really understands game even if i try to explain them. Why is it that so many people dont bother with this. Honestly i think im in the usual situation where one guy tries to follow the pick up artist path and the other group has no intention of even looking at what kind of path im following.

[Tuthmosis]

(02-23-2011 03:57 PM)Andreas Wrote:  

@Tuthmosis one of my friends who keeps saying this annoying shit actually has a cute girlfriend (texting buddy since months pass till he sees her and sends text messages all day to her) and thinks he is good with hot chicks.

In that case, you're dealing with a guy that's simply not respecting you and your way of doing things. He got his and now he's going to fuck with you (however friendly and LOLzy he is about it), even though he's your supposed friend. It's very common with immature, childish homeboys (irrespective of age, by the way).

You have a few options:

1. Put the smack down. Call his-ass out and be like, "bro, you need to stop razzing me when I'm trying to talk to a chick. You're ruining my mojo (or straight-up cockblocking me)."

2. Try to work with him. Tell him his generic "I would bang her" advice is useless, stupid, and counter-productive. "If you has some solid advice tell me. Otherwise, STFU."

3. Work your game away from him/them. This is tricky because you say you're in a close-knit setting where this is difficult. There's enough to worry about when it comes to gaming chicks, you don't need to be adding additional logistical challenges to that equation.

In either case, I would stop trying to explain game to people. Game sells itself. The more you explain yourself to guys (or girls for that matter), the more you're going to discredit yourself and your method. Keep it to yourself and let your results speak.

One caveat: Keep in mind that, without being there, I can't be 100 percent sure that your friend isn't partially right. He may be going about it the wrong way, but it could be that this guy is a natural with girls and he's simply pointing out that you're being too timid.

I sort of doubt that from what you've said (he sounds more like--no offense--a selfish social-retard), but it's worth considering.